It's been one year since the angels of God reached down to earth and guided you to Heaven. It only seems like yesterday that you were in my arms as I cared for you. I miss you everyday. I will cherish the years of love we had together. I love you.

Mom, I think quite often of your laughter, the love you shared with so many and the zest for life you embodied during your brief time with us. Your smile, your hugs and your kisses are omnipresent. It is hard to believe one year ago today, February 20th, you took your last breath. You will always be in my heart and in my mind until I too take my last breath. Much love, your eldest son Michael

Happy Birthday in Heaven I wish that we could celebrate this day together but for now I know that you are celebrating with your Heavenly family I miss you and I love you.

It's been 3 months since you left us and I want you to know that when you went to heaven you took my love and heart with you. I miss you so very much.

Judi was instrumental in preparing me for the life I desired to live. From the age of seven, She taught me how to eat, walk, dress and act like a little lady. As I got older, She instilled confidence in me and helped me see my value as a young woman coming of age. When I reached adulthood she was a steadfast supporter of everything I did and always there when I needed a little moral support. She was a great “grandma Judi” to my kids when they were little and my continued friend through the decades. I will miss her smile and easy going nature. She’s finally at peace now, and I am very grateful for that.

We have heard you have soared high
with feathery wings powered by your loving spirit.
And though you have gone on without us Mother,
we shall remember your smile with the evening stars.

And on our calm morning walks,
hearing the waves of the ocean shore,
we will know you are still walking beside us.

And when you appear again to us
beckoning with your arms open wide
we will no longer have to wait to see you again
Dear Mother.

When I met Judi nearly 12 years ago she welcomed me into her home and made me feel like I was one of her sons. She had a loving motherly instinct about her and she always made people feel special. 
Some of the most treasured memories I have of Judi were celebrating her birthday lunches with her and her son Michael, how we would laugh and enjoy each other's company. Michael and I loved to surprise her with birthday gifts followed by ice cream for dessert and she would never say no. Having no parents of my own I feel blessed having known her and for having been a part of her life. She loved photography and so much more of the arts, she had so many artistic talents herself including her beading. She always loved Michael's paintings and I tried to make her a photograph of each one whenever I could.  Having heard the many wonderful stories of her life as a Mom made me love her over and over again. Laughter, joy, inspiration and definitely love will always be her legacy. 
Goodbye for now beautiful soul you will be forever missed. 
Your Son, James

Judith Ann Passalacqua was born on November 2,1946 in Los Angeles , California. She died at home with her loving husband and son Michael at her side on February 20, 2021. Judi was an outgoing person with a personality to match. She graduated from a city college in the Los Angeles area. Judi's career was was widely ranged from secretary to the president of Piaget Watches in New York City to office manager where she spent 28 years at Tri City Glass in Lemon Grove, California, and let's not for get the toughest job of Motherhood. in May of 1997 she met her husband Anthony (Tony) Passalacqua and they were married on April 24, 1999. Judi's biggest achievement besides raising 3 boys and helping raise 3 stepdaughters was buying a home on her own. Over her life time Judi belonged to many different organizations, one of which she was president of the San Diego Genealogy Society. Judi also had many hobbies such as scrap booking, jewelry making collecting Hall tea pots, and depression glass just to name a few. She loved to travel especially on road trips where she could stop along the way to see the sites. Judi has also traveled to Belgium, Italy, and Mexico. Her favorite was to go camping. Judi was a hugger and a kisser, you would always hear her ask "How can I help?" When she was a teenager her favorite thing to do was set up her record player and listen to music and dance all while washing the dishes. Judi is survived by her husband Anthony Passalacqua of El Cajon, her sons Michael and James Heath of San Diego, CA. Brendan and Lisa Heath of Mesa, AZ. Phillip and Ashley Heath of Gilbert, AZ. 3 step daughters Elaine Heath and Joe Garcia of San Diego, CA. Tracy and Troy Lindstrom of La Mesa, CA. Kristina and David Jones of Santee CA. Judi also leaves behind her brothers and sisters James (Smokey) and Diana Hudson of Commerce,TX. Dale and Dana Hudson of Athens,TX, Becky and Bill Thomas of Valley View, TX. Edwin and Vivian Nichols of Hartsburg, MO. Joyce and Danny Galbreath of Columbia, MO. and Mike and Tammy Nichols of St. Louis, MO. and 11 grandchildren. she will be missed by family and friends, near and far.