Mommy
June 6, 2021
by Nneka Agboli
Mommy was the most incredible woman that I have ever known. She was highly intelligent, audacious and happy. She embraced every day with great joy and excitement. She loved her family, friends and often strangers with everything that she had. She loved to take photographs and loved to recount good times of family and friends. She gave her children an incredible life. I still remember her chopping down Christmas trees in Benin and wrapping presents with news paper to give us a wonderful holiday. She had a photographic memory and remembered everything and everyone. Mommy was very close to her family, most especially her nieces and nephews. We would often joke around with her ans ask how her daughters Rose and Unoma were. She had an incredible relationship with her brother John. She was so proud of and loved all of her children and grandchildren. Mommy had an incredible capacity to love and to share her life. She treated everyone she met with great love, acceptance, and respect. Everyone who knew her called her mama. The last time I saw mommy a few days ago, she had a wonderful smile on her face as she frequently does. She is home with the lord and even though our heart breaks, she will want us to remember the good times. Mommy is a perfect example of beauty, grace, intelligence and honesty.