Kyoko Yoshino Bourns - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

Passed away on November 25, 2014

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January 6, 2023

Its been some years, I became a mom now... you were an amazing mother, always putting your babies needs first. I can´t help to think what would you do if I have a complicated situation with motherhood... You are still in our hearts and minds. I continue praying for your beautiful family, hope they are well and that they know that you are still loved by many. Besos al cielo amiga

November 26, 2022

きょうこちゃん、天国からご家族を見守ってください。RIP

November 30, 2021

Kyoko chan. I miss you a lot! Thinking of you and your family. RIP

November 29, 2021

Hi Kyoko, I really miss you a lot. Ethan, Kaya and Marie haven’t seen each other for a while because of covid, but they are keeping in touch nicely by messages. Kids have grown so much.
You are always in may hearts!!!
Miss you

November 29, 2021

Toda tu familia siempre tendrá un lugar en mi corazón. Les mando un abrazo muy cariñoso desde México, deseando que los niños sigan creciendo tan sanos, hermosos y buenos como siempre han sido.

November 26, 2020

きょうこちゃん、久しぶりに写真を見ると、愛に溢れているのがよくわかるよ。今年は、約束どおり、子供たちが会えたらいいな。

November 25, 2020

Dear Kyoko, our lives crossed during a short period of time when we both lived in Polanco. I still remember our encounter in the lobby of the clinic: I confused of the recent news concerning my own health, you acting like a warrior after yet another bad news conversation with the doctors. Both our husbands standing a little bit back listening to all the good advice you were giving me. Never give up, you said. And you never, ever did: a true warrior and a true example. Then but also still today. Thank you Nathan, Ethan and Kaya for letting me share these precious moments given to me by Kyoko, your wonderful wife and mum!

November 25, 2020

You are in our hearts and minds forever.

November 25, 2020

Thinking of you, your strength, and your joy of life, holding on to the memories we made together.

November 25, 2020

My dear friend, every time I think of you a smile comes to my soul. Your strength, your inner power and your intelligence were unique. You were always so optimistic, I never heard you complaining. Today, I want you to know that you will always be my example to keep going through any difficulty while enjoying the best of life. I love you my dear and you will be always on my heart…
Ana

November 26, 2019

きょうこちゃん、もう亡くなって５年も経つとは全く信じられないくらいです。「ちるちるー」といつも明るく声をかけてくれたあなたの笑顔、初めて会ってからもう２０年も経つけど鮮明に覚えてますよ。その素敵な笑顔の裏に、とても芯の強い心を持っていたんよね。とても愛情の深い人だった。その愛情はネートと２人の子供に今でも天国から毎日降り注いでいる。天国でみんなを見守ってあげててください。みちる

November 25, 2019

Kyoko’s intelligence and beauty lives on in her amazing children. We all think of her and speak of her often - and remember her always.

November 25, 2019

Luz y amor para Ethan y Kaya desde México! Hoy que celebramos la vida de su mamá, que reciban todo el amor que sembraron aquí! Abrazos

November 25, 2018

We remember Kyoko always, but this time of year also brings memories of how much she (and Ethan) loved cranberry relish. We miss you and thank you for your beautiful children Ethan and Kaya.

December 3, 2017

Thank you for giving us all this opportunity to remember. It was wonderful to slowly look at all of the pictures and treasure her life. It is also comforting to know that her legacy and love and spirit are with her children forever.

November 25, 2017

God Bless you and the kids Nate!

November 25, 2016

I recently had the opportunity to spend some time with Nate, Ethan and Kaya. You would be very proud of all of them. Nate is a wonderful father and Ethan and Kaya are beautiful and happy children. You would be happy to see how strong willed Kaya is. She so reminds me of you. My thoughts are with you more often than you would imagine. There will always be a special place in my heart for you.

November 25, 2016

Mis oraciones para Kyoko hoy, y todo el amor para su linda familia! Que sean colmados con bendiciones que llenen sus corazones hoy y siempre!

November 25, 2016

Dear Kyoko, I have been very grateful to have spent the past two weeks with Nate, Ethan and Kaya. We think of you ,speak of you and remember you every day. You would be very proud of your intelligent, beautiful and sweet children and their father. We miss you always. Love, Randi (or Grandi to Ethan and Kaya)

November 27, 2015

I have been thinking of Kyoko and her family all this week and felt her strength and the strength of those she left behind.

Jung more or less says that if we don't experience great pain somewhere in our experiences that we will not know life. A life of only joy does not develop our depths as one of happiness and sorrow. There is a bigger picture than we mortals can see.

Blessings on Kyoko wherever she may be.

November 26, 2015

Kyoko truly will be forever missed. She is always on my mind and in my heart. On this Thanksgiving day, I am thankful she was in my life.

November 26, 2015

On the anniversary of Kyoko's passing, I just want to light a candle for a wonderful person who touched a lot of people.

November 14, 2015

November 2015, on the anniversary of your passing:

My dear Kyoko,

We miss you so much. Randi and I have had the pleasure of visits with Nate and the kids several times during the year in East Finchley and in St. Paul, MN. Randi was with them in Iceland and London while their dad attended to some work. Of course, we communicate frequently via SKYPE, etc.. They were here for Christmas last year and though it was somewhat subdued by your physical absence, Ethan and Kaya seemed to enjoy it all. They will be here again this Christmas. They are Christmas. The man you chose to be your loving husband has been a marvelous father to them. I know that he thinks of you all the time, and he works a labor of love in your memory. Your children are marvelous, and your husband is their escort in life. You remain - and shall always be - their guiding light.

Phil

April 8, 2015

Nate, Kaya and Ethan called us on Facetime on Easter Sunday. That way we watch the kids at home - this time, Kaya stayed at her dad's side to talk with us; she proudly showed off the medal her brother had won in his football match a day earlier.

Kyoko, your family in East Finchley is doing well. They suffer, of course, and think of you continuously - none more than Nate, I think. On the date that Easter fell this year was the one-year anniversary of their move to England from Mexico. Kyoko was very ill, but the family's move was a way for her to provide her children with continuing profitable exposure to the world. They were comfortable in Mexico and had learned so much, but Kyoko thought that they needed to learn and grow for a few years in Europe. To understand why she did not want to move her family to Japan or to the USA one needs to understand that Kyoko had a plan of helping build great children with as much exposure to life as she could imagine. She knew Japan; and Nate knew the USA.

Kaya and Ethan, and Nate go forward together and individually, and help each other willingly. It is beautiful. But, we do miss you.

Phil

January 15, 2015

I looked up to Kyoko, she was my big sister that I didn't have growing up. She was a very sweet, caring and strong person. An amazing sister and friend to have. She was so smart and a lot of fun. She touched the hearts of all that knew her and that beauty of her will stay in our hearts forever.

January 12, 2015

Hold off the earth a while,/ Till I have caught her once more in mine arms

December 17, 2014

For days I´ve searched for some words to share with you about such a truly beautiful person, Kyoko, your mother and wife, and always gracious host. And instead of words, I find myself smiling and crying.

I smile as I recall how Kyoko transitioned from one international capital, language and culture to another, from global environmental professional to mother, graciously, offering her carefully selected and deliciously prepared meals in your peaceful and loving and oh so neatly organized home (before and after the children were born the couch was still white!) to the friends and family from around the world who are all so blessed to have known such a special person. And I cry as I think that she won´t be there to give you a hug, smile, tell you it´s ok and what amazing people you are.

The smiles will remain as Kyoko´s courageous and calm, yet adventurous, spirit lives on in Ethan and Kaya, in Nate´s love, and in the hearts of all of us who have known her.

Un gran abrazo de nuestra familia a la suya, Robin, Nico y Adrián

December 15, 2014

Nate , Ethan y Kaya

Conocimos poco tiempo a su Esposa y Mama pero siempre fue con una sonrissa encantadora en verdad nos dolio mucho a toda la genereacion del Tomas Moro en Mexico y sepan que cuentan con todos en Mexico Un abrazo y mucha Luz

Vanessa Paco y Cecilia Camino

December 5, 2014

We can only imagine how hard it must be to have to live without Kyoko, your beloved wife and caring mother. We wish Nate, Ethan and Kaya strength and faith in this difficult time. When we count our blessings, you are always included.
Jacob, Gabrielle and Meike

December 5, 2014

Dear Nate,
Kyoko was a beautiful person, inside and out. She was warm, compassionate, funny and focused on whomever was with spending time with her. We are glad you two found each other and had the time together that you did, although it is so painful to think about your loss and the loss for your children. we are grateful for knowing Kyoko, too, and we have you and your kids in our thoughts now, sending you as much love as we can across the oceans. Our hearts go out to you.

Much love from Amie, Renee, Benjamin & Nicholas

December 4, 2014

I am so sorry that many of us could not attend the memorial service today in London to share with Nate, Ethan, Kaya and family and friends the profound sorrow and also the joy that was Kyoko's life and spirit. I hope that her indomitable spirit will comfort all of us, especially Nate, Ethan and Kaya, during the difficult days ahead, and over time, bring more joy than sorrow as she lives on in our hearts.

December 4, 2014

Dear Nate, Ethan, and Kaya:
We are so deeply sorry for your loss. We, too, have many happy memories of the time we shared with you all here in DF. Kyoko was a lovely woman and such a great mom. You created a beautiful family together, and I know her spirit lives on in your adorable children. Kyoko's strength and positivity throughout her struggle is remarkable and inspirational. We feel lucky to have known her.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jenn, Gil, Mateo and Olivia

December 4, 2014

Nate, Ethan and Kaya, know that many of us on many continents were thinking of you today - couldn't get you out of our minds, really. Mary, our trusty source in London, told us how moving the service was and how bravely you all got through such a hard day. I wish I was there with you all but I know you are in good hands with family and friends, and I know we will all get together soon. Reciban un abrazo calido de nuestra parte. Geoff, Christina, Lulu and Alex.

December 3, 2014

Kyoko mujer alegre, siempre amable y sonriente, en su silencio se adivinaba un alma con gran misión. La de entregar amor a manos llenas a su querido esposo e hijos. Admirable por su fortaleza y dominio de sí. La primera vez que la ví junto a su esposo Nate (mi jefe) sin saber que eran esposos, me di cuenta que eran el uno para el otro, se miraban con dulzura. Puedo decir que lograron el amor perfecto, el que no pide nada a cambio y esa es el arma mas poderosa que ha dejado a sus hijos. "Kyoko de feliz memoria, Dios te ha llevado a disfrutar de su presencia, por tus méritos en esta tierra".

December 3, 2014

Mi queridísima amiga Kyoko por fin puedo escribir acerca de ti, aunque me duele tanto tener que hablar ahora que no estás, y despedirme. Kyoko tan dulce y tan buena mi querida chocolis. Conocí a mi amiga trabajando y mientras más la conocía más me sorprendía lo amable y querida que era siempre con todos, gracias a ella pienso en Japón con tanta admiración, algo deben hacer bien para que alguien como ella haya crecido ahí. Me quedo con tu sonrisa y mis recuerdos del tiempo que tuve la fortuna de compartir contigo.

December 3, 2014

Para mi Kyoko fue una mujer que admiré mucho porque proyectaba dulzura y porque supo generar muchas bendiciones en su vida. Lo mejor que me tocó conocer de ella son Ethan y Kaya. Tengo una imagen gravada de Ethan, como de 4 años, cubriendo con su cuerpo a Kaya, que empezaba a caminar, para protegerla de un perro que se aproximaba a ella, y al cual Ethan percibió como un peligro. Dos niños tan lindos sólo pueden ser el resultado de la unión de dos maravillosos seres humanos como Nate y Kyoko. Que la energía del amor mantenga unidos los corazones de los cuatro por siempre. Abrazos desde México.

December 2, 2014

I met Kyoko in Mexico City. I admired her for the work she was doing there and also for the kind, quiet, and loving person she was. When Kyoko was expecting Ethan, a group of us helped her prepare her nest. We sewed crib bedding, painted pictures of animals to match the crib, and we grew to know Kyoko much more. On one occasion Kyoko shared with me that she was unsure she even wanted children. But that all changed after Ethan and Kaya. She fell deeply in love with them. She glowed with joy. You will be forever missed, Kyoko.

December 2, 2014

Kyoko dirigió y coordino una visita del Secretario General, ahí surgió mi gran admiración por ella. Conocí a una persona fuerte pero gentil; decidida pero tranquila; con plena entereza y rectitud. También conocí su parte cálida y amorosa a través de su familia, dándoles siempre su lugar y el tiempo que merecían. Kyoko, tu paso por el mundo fue corto, pero siempre lo he pensado, perdurarás de acuerdo con la huella que hayas dejado, tu huella es enorme, seguirás entre nosotros siempre.

December 2, 2014

Having met Kyoko in August 2011 when our daughter Isabella joined kinder with Ethan, we have known Kyoko mainly throughout her illness. Yet that is not how we see her or will remember her. Like others we will remember her kindness, her quiet intelligence, her ability to know and speak what was really important, her willingness to listen and to offer encouragement, her smile, her wit and an overwhelming will to live. And even more so we will remember her as a wonderful mother to Ethan and Kaya; the way she spoke to them, her sense of fun, attentiveness, the exquisite costumes she made for the school performances, (Frieda Kahlo and Tutankhamun spring to mind though she joked with Ethan she would rather he have been Nelson Mandela!). There was the calm and considered way she dealt with the trials of growing up and her sheer joy in them. They shine with all these qualities.

She gave us a lasting memory of her generous spirit when she took Isabella for a day late August 2013 whilst we packed for our move back to the UK. The day was just for Ethan & Isabella to remember and enjoy as by now they had become the best of friends and we were sure they would miss each other. There was scooting round the Chapultepec lakes, a trip to the play area, waffles in El Lago restaurant, a trip to the cinema and more play back home with Kaya. Then if that wasn’t enough, later that evening a memento of the day dropped into our in-box. A beautiful movie with video and pictures of their day titled ‘Amigos para Siempre’ (friends forever). It was an expression of pure love. Kyoko knew how to love and we will hold her, together with Nate, Ethan and Kaya in our hearts forever.

We will miss you Kyoko.
Sam, Max and Isabella

December 2, 2014

このたびの悲報を知り、未だに信じられない思いで言葉が見つからず、胸が張り裂けそうです。心よりお悔やみ申し上げます。
きょうこさんとはyaxcheel Montessori幼稚園で出会い、子供達の成長を共に見てきました。きょうこさんの美しく優しい笑顔はいつまでも私達の心の中に生きています。
ご冥福を心よりお祈り申し上げます。
どうぞ安らかに・・・・

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Kyoko.
I met Kyoko Yaxcheel montessori in Mexico city,Ethan and Kaya are my son Ryunosuke's friends. Kyoko was a great mother ,beatiful lovely person it was my pleasure to have known her, it really was.
Please accept my sincere condolences.
May her soul rest in peace.

Un abrazo fuerte,
Yuri

December 1, 2014

Echoing the thoughts of many others here. What was striking about Kyoko was her beauty and grace. Both qualities were quiet...but that made them speak louder, somehow. Sending strength and much love to Nate, Ethan, and Kaya. Un abrazo fuerte, Marla

December 1, 2014

I met Kyoko in Monterey, when we were both right out of college. I was amazed by her confidence and ease with herself at that age. She seemed to know what she wanted and was willing to work hard for it. And with such grace. I remember the first time she told me about falling in love with Nate. I still remember the sparkles in her eyes and thinking how beautiful they were. I simply could not imagine anyone can take over this perfect woman's heart, so completely, not until I saw them together.

She was the best friend in the true meaning of the word: she was kind and always there for you and yet was not afraid to give constructive feedback. I was too immature to fully appreciate her friendship at the time and we fell out of contact over the years. However, as the years went on, I often remembered our interactions, and realized how much she touched and changed me, at a very deep level. I thought she was blessed to have the life she wanted, with a beautiful family that she created with the person that she so dearly and passionately loved. But the truth is, I was the one who was blessed, along with everyone else who had a pleasure of receiving her friendship.

My prayers are with Nate, Ethan and Kaya.

December 1, 2014

Kyoko was definetly a great women. We worked together when she was in DC, on TerrAfrica. She was always creative, happy to work, focused, very keen to learn new things and nice with everyone. Then, she moved to Mexico and we remained in touch for a while. Just great memories of the time spent with Kyoko.

December 1, 2014

What can I say about our beautiful Kyoko that has not already been said. Having read all the tributes to Kyoko, it is clear that everyone saw in her what I saw in just the short time I knew her in Mexico City. Someone had already mentioned it, but Kyoko was a role-model for me and, I am sure, for others. A strong, beautiful (inside and out), intelligent woman who seemed to balance it all with ease and grace. She was so easy to talk to, caring, funny.....I could go on. I truly enjoyed the times we spent together and am blessed to have known her. I will never forget her.

Our thoughts and prayers for both Kyoko and Nate's families, and especially for Nate, Ethan and Kaya.

Jose and Alessandra

December 1, 2014

Siempre te recordaré con una sonrisa en el rostro e irradiando serenidad. Siempre amable, siempre dulce, aún en los momentos más difíciles. Y siempre ayudando en lo que podías, buscando una solución. You were a luminous human being Kyoko, a very bright women, a loving mother and the kindness of friends. I am blessed to have met you. Que esa paz y luz que tuviste en vida se extienda y siga presente en tus seres queridos. Nate, Ethan and Kaya my thoughts are with you.

December 1, 2014

I met Kyoko only once, in Mexico City. Her beauty charm and grace made that a memorable experience. My heart breaks for Nate and his family. God's grace is surely with her and with them.

December 1, 2014

ue poco tiempo el que tuve oportunidad de conocer y tratar a Kioko. Un ser humano ejemplar, de luz, serenidad y amor (un ángel). Pocas veces se tiene el privilegio que toquen tu vida y mi hija y Yo, también fuimos afortunadas; con sólo mirarla, su belleza física e interior, su paz, tocó nuestras vidas, dejándonos un gran ejemplo de vida y amor, también a través de su hermosa familia. Nate, Ethan, Kaya. Tienen un ANGEL por siempre y siempre estará en nuestro corazón.

December 1, 2014

My memories of Kyoko are from our early professional days at DAI - where I always admired Nate for his professional talents, but also his beautiful relationship with Kyoko. Kyoko was a quiet energy - always one to lend a smile, nod of understanding, or beautiful laugh to all conversations. She always entered with gorgeous style and grace - a true beauty. Sending much love and support to you, Nate, and to your gorgeous children.

December 1, 2014

Kyoko’s quiet and peaceful presence comforted many and will be missed by all. Memories of her smile, laughter and concern for others will be everlasting.

December 1, 2014

Conocí a Kyoko a la salida de un elevador. No tenía idea de que era la esposa de mi jefe (Nate). Segundos después lo supe, fue solo ver los ojos de complicidad y amor entre ellos. Kyoko me saludó y se presentó con una sonrisa que irradiaba paz y nobleza. Después, en cada ocasión que coincidíamos, era verla siempre positiva y sonriente. Y aunque tuve pocos momentos de conversación con ella, las anécdotas que escuchaba sobre Kyoko, me hacían saber lo cercano, amoroso, detallista, inteligente y dulce ser humano que era. Para muestra dos botones: Ethan y Kaya, unos pequeños adorables, amorosos, sonrientes, tiernos y felices. Ejemplo y reflejo de Kyoko y Nate, dos personas que han demostrado ser seres humanos inigualables y que siempre tendrán toda mi admiración, respeto, aprecio y cariño.

Kyoko será un ejemplo de fuerza, esperanza, lucha y sencillez. Sin duda una luz que guiará el camino de sus seres queridos.

Nate, Ethan y Kaya, decirles que comparto bien la pena y el desánimo que causa la ausencia de un ser amado, con quien quisiéramos seguir compartiendo físicamente momentos de felicidad y alegría, pero al mismo tiempo puedo confiarles que esa persona trasciende y se encuentra en nuestras vidas y memoria día a día, acción tras acción, haciéndonos mejores personas. No pierdan nunca la fe de que ella sigue con ustedes y los cuida, porque así será.

Contar conmigo y mi familia siempre.
Analilia

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Strawberries

December 21, 2014

This is Kyoko's favorite picture of her and her boy. She and Ethan (and me and Kaya) were really happy that Saturday picking Strawberries in the English countryside north of London. Taken just a few months before she passed away, I love this picture because it reminds me that Kyoko never let disease determine the arc of her story.

A picnic with mommy

November 12, 2015

These are the last pictures taken of Kyoko, from a year ago. Ethan had been invited to football with his friend Rafi and Kaya asked to go with her mother on a picnic. At that point, it was difficult for Kyoko to get out of bed and walk much. But Kaya wanted a picnic. It was cold and the leaves had fallen. It felt more like London winter than fall. I suggested an indoor picnic downstairs or maybe one in the garden. Kaya wanted a proper picnic.

Kyoko could identify with the combination of sweetness and strong will of this little lady. So she knew she needed to prepare for an outing. I made sandwiches and off we went to nearby Lyttleton Playing Fields.

I am so glad Kaya didn’t go for my lame ideas for an easy picnic. I loved watching the two of them. Kyoko marveled at her girl, and Kaya was proud to have taken her mommy out, as you can see in the pictures.

Kyoko knew how to enjoy life, how to stay present with her babies. She lives on in them.

Kaya in London

December 20, 2016

I just had the pleasure of spending a few relaxing days in London with Nate and Kyoko's two little babies, who are growing up so fast but so well. I know how proud Kyoko would be of what special and wonderful human beings they are. Kaya was practicing for her upcoming presentation at school about her Mom's work "combatting climate change" (typical kindergarden vocabulary! and yes, that sounds very cute in that adorable English accent of hers!) for the UN, and brought her passport and UN badge in as show and tell. Looking forward to the next time I get to see them.

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