Thinking of you all the time GRANNY❤️.You are greatly missed.we love you.keep resting in peace ❤️❤️

Mama, I miss you so. Everyday I realise how difficult it is to go on without you. No calls from you. Can’t pick up the phone to have answers to my many questions about events or people who have gone by.
I miss coming to Buea just to satisfy my need for a hug and a kiss from you. How I treasure those moments now.
You know I have not been able to come spend time in BUEA even though Limunga has been inviting me nonstop. But here I am, on your bed. I spent the night. Ma Daph’s pictures on your dressing table. Uncle Peter’s is there also smiling at me. The night was hood but Bokwango is getting hotter.
Oh mama, it is hard. But I have to keep accepting this life has to go on.

Even living for 45 years with Papa gone, it was okay because you always stepped in and filled the gap.
Your Godchild Vivian passed away 2 days ago. Everyone seem to be moving on, but what can one really do?
I try to hide the pain, but it is getting tougher as time goes by. I force myself to find a reason to hang on. Jacky, Bah Fominyi is my strongest support and strongest reason to hold onto life. Limunga checks on me regularly so I thank God for her.
Everyone you left behind as far as I know are doing well in their own corner. (I believe you will know more than I, as you had direct relationship with each and everyone)

So I am going out now to clean the graves. Please continue to love and pray fir us, your loved ones you left behind.

YOU ARE FOREVER MISSED.

Sometime on Christmas Day it hit me that this was our very first Christmas without you. It definitely was not the same without your call and I can’t help but wonder how we move on without you. I miss you Granny. I miss jumping into your daily conversations with mommy. It’s been a hard year, but we’re still here. Still standing and adjusting to this new normal. I trust you’re looking down on us and guiding us as usual. I love you

Sometime on Christmas Day it hit me that this was our very first Christmas without you. It definitely was not the same without your call and I can’t help but wonder how we move on without you. I miss you Granny. I miss jumping into your daily conversations with mommy. It’s been a hard year, but we’re still here. Still standing and adjusting to this new normal. I trust you’re looking down on us and guiding us as usual. I love you

Mama, I miss you so. Yes this is my first Christmas without you. It has been a struggle; having to keep up appearances. As if all is well. But it is not.
It has been a very difficult year - 2019! I pray it comes to an end.
So mama, wherever you are now, know that I miss your daily calls. I miss talking to you. And yes I miss going into the stores and picking up things for you. I miss driving to BUEA just to spend time with you. I miss hearing you call me back to come give a hug and a kiss before I drive off. Yes it is going to be a challenge knowing that I have to spend the rest of my days without you. You will always be my loving mother

I WOULD NEVER HAVE WISHED FOR ANY ONE ELSE
Dear God Mother,
I would never have wished for anyone else.
You were truly a blessing to me. Our experiences together were amazing; rich, fulfilling and loving.
I am full of thanks to my mom who answered God’s voice that directed her to you to be my godmother, and fulfil His plan for my life.
I am full of gratitude to you my beloved godmom for living up this role and responsibilities that came with it to the FULL. Thank you for blessing me with love, generosity and gratitude from the day I was born. It could only be you.
I am immensely grateful to our Awesome God for giving us this opportunity to fulfil His plan for our lives. It was an awesome encounter.
You were just too kind to me, greeting me with such warm hug and kiss each time we met. There was no doubt of your love for me. You made enough sacrifices for me. I pray my god/children experience something as good as this.
How lucky I was, how blessed I’ve been that you were more than my Godmother.
I will miss you mom, surely; I pray God to help me live your legacy of generosity, love and gratitude.
Rest, rest; rest in peace my beloved mom. Now I have another angel in Heaven.

Granny as u were funnily called by ur many grandchildren, was a Great woman. I remembered in the mid nineties wen I was haven some problems in school in St Francis and I was asked by sister Grace n Pa Ndele to bring my parents. I came to you instead and u went there as my mother and u told them wat they never heard. Again I remembered wen u were leaving kumba for Buea, how u handle life during that period and again how u became the last one standing in the family. Granny u've left a legacy that will lived in us forever. Go well Mama

Dearest Mama, how you are sorely, deeply missed. You have been a mother figure to us from our teens - smiling, gracious, kind, nurturing, and always welcoming. In your presence, there was always jokes and laughter...I will miss those forever.
May the Good Lord receive you in His heavenly kingdom and give you peace from a world which held many trials and temptations for you. May your soul rest in perfect peace xxx

Dear mama, I know you really did not know me very well because we met very few times but you left a few lessons in my head. I do not call you mother because I was your child by blood but from observation and interaction with your children and grand children I believe you have earned the name to me. Hmmm thinking about the few times we met you were so warm though yet so careful, you spoke very soft and vigorous but very firm, from which I believed you were a woman of great substance. You have worked well mama and today we commemorate your life and celebrate your yesterday with hope that someday there'll be a reunion in the sky.

Dear mama, I stand to testify that God endowed you with a sweet and excellent spirit. In you I saw love for all, kindness, the strong desire for unity and your selflessness. My prayer and hope for all of is that this same spirit that was in you has "rubbed off" unto all of us so that wherever we find ourselves in the world, we will touch and impact the lives of others in like manner. This is your legacy to us. I am proud to have been one of your favorite daughters. I always felt at home whether my sister was there or not. One of the most recent acts of your deep concern and proof of love was when I came visiting you while you were hospitalised in early March. You asked me if I had brought clothes to spend the night, and when it was time for me to leave, you reached out for your purse and gave me a gift. I tried to refuse it but you insisted and said to me "my dear I know what you are going through, but remember that when you were fine you took care of me, so don't turn down my offer, it's a sign of my love to you for what you are to me". I fell short of bursting into tears. Then I said to myself "This is the same old mama, what a heart of giving!!! " Yes mama!!! We will keep the promise (no need giving details here) Thanks mama for all your love and care.
Your daughter - Ebans ("The Yellow Girl")

EULOGY TO MY BELOVED SISTER.
MRS. MARGARET KITIOR NGU FOHTUNG
It would take a whole book to write out my relationship with my beloved sister (Cousin), because it has been a lifelong experience from our childhood until her departure to a better life. By God's grace, this intimate relationship passed on to all our children. We Thank God.
Her house was a “Family Hotel of Charity" to family members, friends and sundry. She was a peaceful and very caring iron lady who looked for the best in each family member, and friends. She was the most conscientious grandmother, and most grandchildren where always happy to visit with her. Through the grace of God and endurance, she was always at the forefront of the burial of the following family members :
Parents, Husband, sister-in-law, her first son, two brothers and a sister, a half- brother and finally her eldest daughter and “best friend ” five months ago. We thank God for sustaining her through these compounding crises.
We will miss her for all the gifts she shared with family and friends. Through the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, may the God of Mercy and Compassion receive her soul into His Kingdom. May God continue to bless and guide her children, family members and friends left behind.
From your sister Dorothy Mulonge Ikome Nasah ( Iya Mbamba)

My dearest granny my best boh it’s hard to believe you are no longer here with us; the memories I have of you will keep me going. You were a mother to all, and you taught me how to care for others. The last days with you were fun we laughed and spoke about stuff: things we needed to do when you felt better, little did I know you were saying goodbye. I will really miss you: who is always going to say ''where is Limunga?'' You’ve left a void in my heart. Rest on Granny for I know you are in a better place and you are watching over us. I love you always ♥
Limunga Deelaila