Let the memory of matthew james be with us forever
  • 33 years old
  • Born on April 20, 1975 .
  • Passed away on August 20, 2008 .
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, matthew james ashby 33 years old , born on April 20, 1975 and passed away on August 20, 2008. We will remember him forever.
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 20th August 2018
Hello my darling x well 10yrs x still dosnt feel that long babe x apart from not seeing you it dosnt feel like it ever happened x to say I miss you is an understatement x what o would give for you to still be with me x Taylor and Brandon x poor Taylor got beat up the other night by a lad on a motor bike still to do with what that bitch told people x she's got a lot to answer for x she won't remember what today's date is x because it's not about her x i hope she rots in hell x well son I know Mandy will be remembering you x she never forgets bless her x even with all her things going on with her health and the youngest suffering x she's got a heart of gold x oh god I love and miss you so very much x but I don't need to tell you this you know x love you son xxx xxx xxx xxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 9th August 2018
Hi my dear son x poor millies arthritis is getting worse x it's such a shame x but I just can't bring myself to have her put to sleep x i know I'm being selfish but the thought of doing it makes me feel so bad x i just think of the day you took me to see her and that was it she came home with us x and she has been a big part of our family since x i know if you were here you would tell me I was being selfish x i just don't want her to go she's another part of you going x aunt pat is doing ok but her memoir getting bad x she hates the home x i do feel sorry for her x me Brandon and Taylor were talking about it being 10yrs this month x it's great to hear him talk about you and his memories of you x love and miss you my darling dear son xxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 17th July 2018
Hi my darling x all done at aunt pats x off to visit her in a bit x she likes to talk about you and how you looked after Patrick x I'm so proud of the way the family talk about you x God I miss you so much x love and miss you my dear son xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 29th June 2018
Hi ya darling x nearly finished clearing out aunt pats x feel so sorry for her x well new car coming today x could of done with you yesterday couldn't walk x hands and feet were killing me x poor Taylor didn't know what to do to help x love you babe x miss you so much xxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 8th June 2018
Hi babe x poor Taylor's head is still a mess from all that's gone on x he has finally realised he dose need to see someone x he's so alone he said he still wants to kill himself x i keep telling him it's not his fault all this happened x such a shame x she is so evil doing this to him x love you xxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 3rd June 2018
Hi my dear son x took aunt pat to her old place yesterday to pick some bits up x but she wants to take everything x but she hasn't the room now x she keeps talking about when you were looking after Patrick x and what a great job you did x the nursing home is oppersite Patrick's flat x i know I say it every time I come on here but I miss you so so much x love you son xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 25th May 2018
Hello my dear son x can't stop thinking about you again x thinking of all the crap we have all gone through because of that mad bitch x you were right we you asked if she had 3x6 on her head x you obviously saw what I didn't want to x I've been looking of photos of her when she was a baby she was so pretty x i loved her so much x and to see her now the evil has turned her ugly x she's your typical council drug slag scum x and they arnt just my words they have also been said by people that she think are friends x anyway enough of her for now x Taylor's dog is learning well x he's so chuffed he's got him sitting and giving his paw x he needed him xxx xxx mother xxx love you xxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 19th May 2018
Hi my dear son x can't stop thinking about you this morning x Taylor saw her him and his sister's the other night x such a shame he hid from them so them two didn't see him x i can't beleave he hates her so much that he hides rather than let her see him x I'll never understand why she let him down x it hurts him so much to think she put that bastard before him x but that's her all over being selfish as usual because it's got to be all about her x no matter who gets hurt along the way x i would of done anything and did for her and the girls and she just used me and took me for a twat x oh well let the haunting begin x now nobody knows this sight is up and running again x I'm going to put the pictures and texts and videos Charlie sent me x but can't wait to put them on Facebook x love and miss you my darling xxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 11th May 2018
Hello darling x aunty pat is going into a nursing home x she's going to have a look at it today x she was talking about you yesterday with such love x she never mentions the bitch x miss you babe x love mother xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 30th April 2018
Hi babe x been a bit upset last few days x Millie not very good her back legs are going x and Taylor found a large lump on her back x she was at the vets last week for some pain killer for her legs x now she's got to go again and I'm worried its something bad x bless her she's got a real fatty wish you were with us x Taylor misses you very much xxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 28th April 2018
Hi son x just listening to some songs that we used to listen to x still laugh when I hear spew by m and m x sat thinking of all the lies she has told people about you x Brandon x Taylor and me x but people will see the truth when I put the texts and videos x andvthe police report of what he did to taylor x on social media then those with any sense will see the evil bitch for what she really is x and him x i bet the hunts don't realise that she said that ragen was said to have been seen having sex with Taylor on his bed x that's how sick she is x Charlotte must be fuming with her x i hope you make her life a misery the way she has made ours x i know I will x another rant over x god I miss you so much x love you so much son x mother xxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 24th April 2018
Hello my dear son x well Taylor's dog is helping him gain some confidence x thank God x the girls swings were taken down yesterday x had a good cry x another piece of our memories gone x miss them so much x trying a new infusion tomorrow x drugs and sharps box were delived today x i really wish you were still here x to talk to cry with x Taylor and Brandon could do with you as well x love you x love mother xxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 20th April 2018
Well your birthday today my dear son x 43yrs x no need to go on you know how much I love and miss you so much x forever in my heart xxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 19th April 2018
Hi babe x Taylor came in not long ago x real upset and crying x he had seen Charlie loo x felt so sorry for him x he couldn't beleave how much she had grown x well its your birthday day tomorrow x can't beleave how the time has gone x miss you so so very much son x love you xxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 13th April 2018
Hi son its been a while since ive been on here x i shut it down for a while x well she has really showed what a nasty piece of work she actually is x shes an evil nasty piece x narcissistic manipulating compulsive lier x i hope she gets found out xyou must be real gutted by what she has done and said and the way she has treated Taylor x poor kid is still having counciling x he misses his sister's as do I x she has hurt him so much he hates her x I've put all paperwork for the girls to read for themselves x there poor heads must be shot x Brandon is doing fine x him and Taylor will be sorted when I'm with you aunt pat has left me a good amount x I'll get on to removing anything she has wrote on here and pictures x so now the sight has been down for a while nobody will bother looking x i never thought she could be so selfish and hatefull I know she is good at lieing x but she has gone above and behond x Charlie sent me some videos my god there going on Facebook and all the texts she sent and everyone that has judged and thought she was little miss perfect can see and read for themselves what a lier and hateful person she really is x even Charlie text that she dosnt have time for them except for herself and him and the boy x i never thought I would ever say that I hated one of my kids but I hate her x well that's my moan out the way x do me a favour haunt the bitch I certainly will and with a vengeance x miss you so much son I tell you they took the wrong one its you that should be here x love you Matthew xxxxxxxx love mother xxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 15th September 2015
Hello babe x things ate going well x little man has been over loads x him an Taylor are so close x there so funny together x Taylor is having a party for his 16th x just got to sort a room x Holliday's are booked for next yr x wish you were here to come with us x well all I can say son is u love you and miss you so very much x I'm so glad I've got this sight to write on its like your sitting here listening xx god loads of pictures to put on but I'm going to wait till I get time to sit and get the site sorted x god bless you son xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 30th August 2015
Hi son x me an Taylor whent out for a meal on Friday with peter x David and Josie x aunt pat x June x sahra an the girls x they couldn't believe how tall Taylor was x Josie asked him for a kiss and aunt pat but he went shy x but I heard June say this is how you get one x an stood by him an said something about his phone an then grabbed him an munched him x he started to laugh an said I should be used to you getting me like that x it was a lovely afternoon x we all enjoyed it x were off to see aunt pat tomotomorro x the lads get on great with you know who x got miss coming over tomorrow for the day x brought her a nice cot an bedding x well that's it for now apart from I love and miss you so very very much x love mother xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 24th August 2015
Hello son x well I can now sit down and sort this site out xx I am happier now than I have been for a long time x being treated really good x celebrated last week with good company who said that we should and they raised a glass for you x they remembered you with great fondness x we had a good laugh about the funny things you got up to x and how you made me laugh x it was nice to laugh instead of crying I did enough of that in the day x I miss and love you so very very much xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxx mother xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 20th August 2015
Hi my dearest son x can't believe its 7 yrs since I last saw you x me an Brandon were talking about you last night and how we miss you x he's just like you x he can't do enough for me x oh babe I wish to god it hadn't been you x miss you so so much x love for ever and always xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxx mother xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 11th August 2015
Hi ya son x feeling really good at the min x god I do miss you xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 5th August 2015
Hey up son x things are good x had new car you would be amazed at me x who would of thought that I could save and buy a car £3,700 did well x saving now for 2holls abroad next year x but then I'm not spending silly money anymore x god I wish you were still here x little man been over few times since he broke up x so funny x kev the gardener loves it when he's here x still seeing my mate xxx he talks about you with so much fondness an remembers how thoughtful an caring you were x and how funny your sense of hummer was x I love and miss you so very much son xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 21st July 2015
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Posted by Patricia Thomas on 13th July 2015
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Posted by Patricia Thomas on 7th July 2015
Hi son x your garden is looking beautiful x your roses have come out the best ever x will put some photos of them on here x got to get round to getting this sorted so I can remove the crap x love and miss you so much x mother Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 5th July 2015
Hi son x it's been a bit busy here x but all done now x Taylor is doing bbq later x Brandon has just come back off holidays and his freckles are out just like yours used to x so going to sit back and relax while Taylor cooks an Brandon no doubt will be in the pool x love and miss you so much Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 29th June 2015
Hi son x sitting in the back garden yesterday having a cuppa x and out of nowhere a bubble landed x I know it was you x the gardener was amazed x you would of got on with him x he's got a brilliant sense of humour x he thinks Brandon is brilliant x how he's Married with 3 kids x the garden is looking great x had to explain about things an how they can just happen x ie feathers x Robins x butterfly's etc x he was fascinated by it all x love and miss you so very much Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx mother Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 22nd June 2015
Hi ya son x was listening to that song you sorted out by Eminem x that you said sumed up? makes me smile x but bad in another way to think that's how they made you feel x but it was there own fault for treating you like they did x love and miss you so much x mother Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 21st June 2015
Hi son x happy fathers day x wish you were here to enjoy it x wish you were here full stop x miss you so much x love you son Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 17th June 2015
Hi son x not much going on at the min x I'm still trying to get this site sorted so I can remove the picture x hopefully be able to do It by the weekend x I shall be glad to see it gone and for all they say I know you will be to x it's a disgrace x but there we go x we knew it would happen x been having a good catch up with Gary over the last few weeks x can't start to tell you what he thinks or Ashby x at least there's one consolation x you can't get the blame x love you loads x miss you so much x love mother Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 30th May 2015
Hi son x have been sitting here thinking about the years that have gone x it has amazed me how people can be so hateful x with there back stabbing x there compulsive lieing x there hurtful words x there deception x why do people find pleasure in the downfall of others x this is a cruel world x and it's even crueler with out you x love you sweetheart Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx miss you Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 25th May 2015
Hello son x things are good x we're doing well x wish you were here give me a hug x to talk to you x l know I talk to you every day and on here x but it's not the same as listening to you give your opinions x and advice x I bet you're fuming with all this again x but you know what you were right x found my cd that you did for me the last time x and I have to laugh at some of the songs you put on it x it shows how much she hurt you as well as me x and why you were glad to go an live over Birmingham x Brandon still makes us laugh with his mimicking of people x he's got one down to a t x love you sweetheart x miss you so so much x love mother Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 6th May 2015
Hello my darling son x things are good x can't wait to get holiday booked x need some sunshine x my heart is still aching x miss you so much it still hurts x there is no justice in this world or you would still be here x got to go now x Lisa wants a brew and I can't see to put any more x God bless you son x love mother xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 21st April 2015
What a fantastic surprise yesterday for you're birthday x mandy coming over x all the beautiful flowers she brought us x and the little men are gorgeous x couldn't of asked for anything better x God bless you son x love and miss you so very much x mother xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 20th April 2015
Hello son x well you would of been 40 today x you said you didn't want to want to be here at that age x I wanted you to x but as usual you got your own way x none of your doing x but I know that you are in a beautiful and better place x and your out of the tournament that you were in living in this life x even though it kills me to say it x God bless you son x miss you so much x love you so much x and miss you more than you or any one will ever know x love mom xxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 15th April 2015
Hi son x well Brandon has been full of it x bless him x he's been doin his impersonations of people x had us in bits x just like he did on holiday x God I miss you so much x and wish you were here with us x love you so very much with all my heart xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 26th March 2015
Hi son x well were gettin there x house is lookin good x kevs comin to lay stair carpet x an hang new bedroom doors x just got to get a new livinroom carpet an everywhere sorted x just holls an car to look forward to x but not in a rush for car x had more infustions they finished yesterday for a few months x well all for now x next wk i can write better an add photoes an take off the site it will def be sorted x love an miss you x mother xxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 15th March 2015
Hi son x your card Is up that you made me for mothers day x the verse you wrote inside still makes me cry x love an miss you so very much x mother xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 12th March 2015
Hi son x finaly got on here x fed up of emailin them then they email back x it takes them ages to reply x still once its sorted i can get your site put rite x things are good x not going to put to much x love and miss you x mother xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 4th March 2015
Hi son x been tryin for ages to leave a message x not much i can say you dont know who is readin x but as usual i tell you when got a quiet min x cant wait to get this sorted so i can put more pics on x found that cd you made 8 yrs ago x havent played it though it would hurt to much knowin how much you were hurtin x love an miss you x mother xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 4th March 2015
Hi son x have been tryin to
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 23rd February 2015
hi darlin x all great this end x been lookin at some holls an a couple of weekend breaks x so were goin spain in big holls an great yarmouth x short break x france an roam x god i wish you were here to go with us x god bless x love an miss you x
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 21st February 2015
Ill try again x as i said still havin trouble with this site x brandon had me an taylor in stitches about millie and her teeth x bless him x the truma of the accident is so visable x god bless him x loads to say but will wait till the site is sorted out x then i can change pics an add more x god bless you son x love an miss you so much x love mother xxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 21st February 2015
Ill try again x as i said still havin trouble with this site x brandon had me an taylor in stitches about millie and her teeth x bless him x the truma of the accident is so visable x god bless him x loads to say but will wait till the site is sorted out x then i can change pics an add more x god bless you son x love an miss you so much x love mother xxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 21st February 2015
hi son x still havin trouble sortin out this site x
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 13th February 2015
well son ive been trying to log on here since jan x but this mornin when i whent to pick my phone up it was on your site x so i know x today your nephew is 15 x dont know were the time has gone x hes gettin so tall x misses his sisters very much x so pleased i am able to talk on here again ive missed it x love and miss you xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 18th January 2015
Hey up son x sat and watched bad boys x i was rememberin when you naged me to watch it with you x so many little things everyday that i see hear x that bring things back x love an miss you x mother xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 15th January 2015
Hi son x havin a good clean out x found a load of paperwork of yours x still cant bring myself to put it in loft x love an miss you xxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 13th January 2015
Hi son x gettin on with things as you do x look after them i love that are in hospital at the min x things are goin good here x wish i was able to talk to you properly x love an miss you so much x mother xxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 6th January 2015
Hi son x well things startin to look some what normal again now the decs are down x back to the everyday run of the mill thats normal for us x dont know whats takin it so long to sort this upgrade out x will be glad when they have done it x love an miss you x mother xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Patricia Thomas on 4th January 2015
Hi son x not much goin on at the min to talk about x brandon left his birthday card x i love an miss you x mother x

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