Michael I am still processing, just because you were one of the strongest go-getters I have ever met. I met you at U of I during a pledge recruiting event at the Phi Kappa Tau house. We clicked right away, and luckily you came back and decided to join. You were always a little older, wiser, and experienced than everyone else. Little did I know you were recruiting me/us into your life. You taught me how to snowboard, you helped me get my first serving job at TGI Fridays, you told me not to tell my girlfriend that I loved her if I wasn't willing to marry her, all while you were working hard at school and becoming the president of the house. You introduced me to Crobar and Shelter in Chicago, and in turn, I brought it back to the campus for everyone to enjoy, that was all because of you. You were always there for me when I was in a jam or just to give me much needed advice. You set up a snowboard trip to Breckenridge, Colorado in 2001. That was my first time in CO, and I think about that trip every time I drive up to the mountains while it's snowing, as I've lived in Denver since 2012. You introduced me to your family and friends, and always made me feel like family. From jet skiing to dancing, you never stopped living life. The last time I saw you was randomly when I was in Chicago, at a party, at the end of 2016 around New Years. You were there with Meg and Shawn. I was so happy to see you, because you had been in Boston for many years at that point, and I never travelled to visit you. We all went to the 4am club after for a little more fun. Shortly afterwards, you said your goodbyes and left. I left a little after you and saw you outside worried. I said, "What happened, I thought you left?" You said your car got towed, stupid Chicago Snow Route. I took you and Meg to the Sacramento pound, after two hours, and lots of stories, you got your car back, you thanked me and gave me a big hug. I finally got to help you in a jam for once. Sadly, that was the last time we saw each other, or spoke. I love you Dr. Michael Bonkowski, and will remember you for the rest of my life. My condolences to Meg, the boys, and the rest of your family. You will be missed. ❤️
-Paul “Sha Nay Nay” Rodriguez, Rivaz