When asked at Area F Police Command why adeleke was being wicked to Omolola and if he would have done it if there was a child in the marriage, he responded, “Of course if there was a child, I won’t but I want to punish her, I want her to know she cannot just come and marry in our family and walk all over us!” The venom he spewed was so typical of the madness that gush from men who are drenched in the ego of self entitlement! A Nigeria trait my beloved husband hated with passion.

The woman he claimed walked all over “them” hosted them in rooms she furnished. Cooked for himself and his family so much so that he asked Olubunmi to learn from her culinary skills, drive him and his family to stores and malls and was responsible for their welfare. Visited with gifts. Counselled and cared for his daughters... Yet, his myopic summation of all she did was “walk all over us.”

The truth, he HATED her. All she did was not strong enough to melt his iron heart. He hated her for daring to marry a brother who was condemn d to wifelessness. Being wifeless meant he could hatch his plan of manipulating him to adopt his daughters. That way, upon his death, his daughters being young, he would become the sole administrator. But this carefully masterminded plan, hatched at a time he thought his daughters were named beneficiaries backfired when he found out after Bola Omoteso’s death that he had edited his beneficiaries

It has been over two years yet family chose to bury my peace with my husband. But Jesus has kept me sane, safe and secure in God’s everlasting arms.

If you have read anything online, consider it the crying out loud of a widow who endured abuse and attempt to perpetrate fraud for over two years before she decided that having mourned her husband, it was time to defend his right to his labour being used to keep his name alive, not symphonies by a man who claims to be his brother yet whose complicity and negligence led to his death.

I call upon you to stand with me in prayers and in publicity, not for only #JusticeforOmolola but in many areas that would entertain justice once justice is served.

I have read more tweets on black widow spider than “black” human widows since I began the campaign! Please join me to make the campaign VIRAL.

#TimeIsNow #EndWidowAbuse #JusticeforOmolola #JusticeforWidows #ReformProbateLaws #WomenParticipate #BlackLivesMatter