I remember the first time I met you and who would be my future best friend, Doris. Even then, as a child, you were always at Doris's side protecting her. It was four of us girls, but you were there to guide her and make sure she was okay with her new neighbor friends. We played volleyball in the backyard and I thought Doris was a bit weird from laughing and smiling at everything (Something I have come to appreciate now). You played on quietly smirking at Doris, and played down for us younger and smaller girls. I would have never known then that you would be in my life for years to come. Sometimes I would drive past your house, you would be outside with your pops working on the cars. You would smile and wave me down, you would lean your elbows up against my passenger car window like you always did. "Where are you going?" "You need help with anything?" "Hows Doris doing?" I would always laugh, and you would chuckle and say "what's wrong?" even though you knew you were acting like an older protective brother to me. You would ask about my family, genuinely wonder how my siblings were. You always had a million questions to ask, because you cared. Through my life, I have learned that most people will just ask the same mundane questions because they feel they have to, nod their head, and move on with the day--leaving you the same way you felt before the conversation started. But you always made me feel like a real human being, a story separate from everyone else. It was truly refreshing.
You drove me and Doris everywhere, with no return favors (although we would take your car occasionally and you would ask us to get a car wash.. But ONLY from "VIP," the most swag car wash on the island). You were always there for Doris, but you were always there for me when I needed something. I remember even once I was on a date and you were driving down the block and saw me in his car.. You stopped near my house and waited until I got in okay. Back then, I thought you were crazy for doing that; hindsight, you were just being you. And of course the next day I would have to answer another 21 questions. To make sure he treated me well, and make sure you didn't have to guard by my house for the next couple days..because if I asked, you would do it in a heartbeat. You had the most kick-ass stories to tell us, take 5 hours to shower ON a camping trip, drive me to check movie times when Doris was too tired to hang out, and enjoy days and nights with me and Doris.
Although I think you and Doris are in some ways different, the reason she's my best friend is because she cares like you do. You left us way too soon, but you will continue to live through her, her smile, her laugh. She will remind all of us of you, and that I'm so grateful for.