Oh my beautiful Sissy …. another year has passed without you. I miss you so much. I know our mama is with you now. Hug each other for me. Hug dad for me too. The world is emptier without you in it. I love you forever my sissy

I miss you my beautiful Sissy. I hope you and mom and dad had the best celebration yesterday for your birthday. I miss you forever my sissy. I love you

Sheree,

I was thinking of you the other day and remembering our chats, the laughter and the tears.

I hope you are having a wonderful birthday. Miss celebrating your birthday on 7 cups.

Love ya!

Happy Birthday in Heaven my beautiful Sissy.
There are no words that express how much I miss you. But I think you know.
I hope you and dad are having the biggest party up there.
I love you always.
Sending all my hugs to you in heaven.

Sheree, hold those babies tight for me. Roxy, Juji, Daisy and Lady Gray. I miss you so much. I had no way of knowing that 7 years ago I was meeting a close friend, mentor and listener. And I was in shock and still am that you are gone. Love you much.

My beautiful Sissy Sheree,

Every day you are with me, in my heart and in my thoughts.
Every day you are my blessing. Every day you are my angel.
I miss you. I love you my sissy. Always in my heart my sissy. Always.

I hope you dance!!! I love you Sheree. I miss you so much. I caught myself looking for you on 7 cups the last few nights and you of course were not there. I miss you so much. I love you. And I thank you for the difference you made in my life the five years we knew each other. You would tell me it's ok to cry right now but that smiles would come soon. Thank you for that promise. I jope you dance!!!

I hope that you are resting up there nice and snug. It has been more than a year now. I definitely miss the charm that your face would bring to the chat room. i remember how friendly you would be when you would come to the listener support room. I miss your silly typos. You were so sweet and you never judged anyone for their past. I hope you're having a blast up there in heaven with everyone else we have lost. We miss yo.

One year. 365 days without your sweetness in the world. I love you my sissy. I carry you in my heart always. There simply are no words for how i miss you. Shine on my sweet angel, my sissy. I love you beyond beyond

I love you and miss you always my sissy. Nearly a year now. Thank you for being my sister and my angel. I love you always. I miss you so.

My dearest Sheree, today is your day. Happy Birthday!!! Wish I could sing to you in person. I miss you so much. Restless nights come and I look around for my Magic to make them bearable. Thank you for all you did for me. I love you bunches!!!
PS - Kiss Lady Gray and Daisy's foreheads for me.

Happy Birthday in Heaven my Sissy. I love you so much. I am so grateful that I got to be your big sister. I hope you and Dad are having the best party up there. You made the world a sweeter and better place. I love you so.
I miss you so.

My sweet Sissy... I am missing you every moment.. time changes nothing. I hear you laughing with me, singing with me... I remember how puzzled people around us would be because we found something hysterically funny --they did not know what, and often, neither did we - when we were together we would just laugh for no reason at all. I remember all the laughter of our childhood, our secret language, the singing and dancing, the ketchup sandwiches. I miss you so. I always will. I am so grateful to have been your big sister. It is now spring and the trees are budding and deer visiting you in the place where I know that 'you' are not. But I cover the ground with brightly colored petals and sweet-smelling flowers and arrange my little hearts made of pink stone around the unicorn that watches over the place where you are not. I water the sacred ground with tears - the deer will come, the trees will grow - before I am ready for it, you will have been gone for a year. I love you my sissy. I miss you so.

Hi "Magic"... I can't believe I am here talking to you this way. And whats more bizarre, is that I can't believe that I just found out (almost a year later) that you are no longer here. I am just so shocked and saddened of hearing that you are gone. I remember you from meeting you online during such a crazy time in my life. Unaware of who you really were or all that you had been through. And your spirit just shined above ALL others that I had met there. You were always so warm and welcoming to everyone. And always so willing to help others. I remember how after seeing the way you interacted with others, it allowed me to reach out to you and I felt I could trust my feelings with you and what I was going through about so many things. And you listened. And supported me through it all. It was such a blessing meeting you and talking to you. I remember one night after many chats with you, how you stayed up late talking to me and keeping me going and keeping me company while I was home alone dealing with anxiety. And you got me through it and I didn't feel so alone anymore. After finally pulling myself together again, I wasn't online as much anymore like I used to be. And are paths sort of drifted in opposite directions and we lost contact. But we chatted so much that we once considered ourselves "listening twins"! And I always called you my "Twinny". I'm so sorry Sheree that we lost contact with one another for so long. And that It has taken almost a year to realize that you are no longer with us. That truly does sadden me and play on my heart. I don't have to hope, but I actually Know in my heart, that you are flying high, and flying Free! With all the beauty that had within your Giant heart! Thank you "Musical Magic" for being such a great listener, and such a great support in my life when I really needed it. I'll never forget you. And many Never will. Fly High, Soar Free my "twinny"~

Oh my Sissy - I carry you with me everywhere. You are both absent and present. You are in my heart and thoughts from the moment I wake. My love for you fills up the spaces between us - I hope you feel it. I miss you even as I carry you in my heart each and every day. Thank you for being my blessing in life and my angel always.
I love you.
I miss you so.

My sweet beautiful sissy - how can another day, another month have passed without you here in the world with me? My heart aches - it always will - for the absence of you. I miss you so my sissy. I love you and miss you so.

I miss you my sissy. I see you everywhere - in the monarch butterfly that is still visiting my wildflowers while the leaves change and twirl and flutter. In our mama's eyes, welling with grief at your having left before her. I see you in the sweetness of all the furred and feathered creatures that you loved so much.
The world is sweeter because you walked here. I love you always. I will carry you in my heart always. I miss you so.

Missing you so very much my sissy. I love you always.

You are in my heart always my sweet sissy. You made the world a better place. You were a blessing for us all. You are a blessing still. I love you.
I miss you so. I just miss you so.

Another day of missing you my best friend, my sissy.
These past two months have been two months too long without you.
You are my first thought when I wake and my last before I sleep. I love you always. I miss you so. I just miss you so.

This afternoon, as the eve of Rosh Hashanah approached, I missed sending Sheree wishes for a sweet new year. Over the years our lives moved onward, yet we always touched in on holidays. Sheree never missed sending me a note on Mother's Day. Sheree's sweetness remains in my heart as a new year begins without her.

Blessing for the Broken Hearted
by Jan Richardson (from The Cure for Sorrow)

Let us agree
for now
that we will not say
the breaking
makes us stronger
or that it is better
to have this pain
than to have done
without this love.

Let us promise
we will not
tell ourselves
time will heal
the wound,
when every day
our waking
opens it anew.

Perhaps for now
it can be enough
to simply marvel
at the mystery
of how a heart
so broken
can go on beating,
as if it were made
for precisely this -

as if it knows
the only cure for love
is more of it,

as if it sees
the heart's sole remedy
for breaking
is to love still,

as if it trusts
that its own
persistent pulse
is the rhythm
of a blessing
we cannot
begin to fathom
but will save us
nonetheless.

Missing you my sissy. I hope you feel all of my love surrounding you.
Now that the pain is gone, I hope all is joy and goodness so far beyond anything you ever knew in this lifetime of challenges. I love you always. I miss you so.

It’s been one month and two weeks since I last seen you and I’m not doing any better. I feel like I have so much unfinished stuff with you . I don’t feel right still I need to talk to you I feel like I didn’t get to say good bye the way I was supposed to we had a plan and our plan didn’t go the way it was supposed to. My uncle thinks I depressed but I’m just missing my friend. This covid needs to go away so I can come and visit you I think that’s what I need . Give the babies a hug for me

My beautiful sissy, you are always in my heart. The world is a better place because you were in it. I can't remember a time when you weren't in the world. Best friend, best sister, other half of our singing sisters team, I am glad you are free of all pain. But I do miss you so.

My beautiful Sissy - I just miss you so. I think of you and I cry - and I hear you telling me to remember the laughter. Sometimes Mama and I have big laughs at silly little things that happen - and I feel and hear you laughing with us. We both miss you so very much. The absence of you here in the world is so everpresent. I will carry you with me always, you are in my heart my best sissy, my friend, my twin born 20 months apart - I will miss you always. The world is a better place because you were here. It is a lesser place because you are gone. I miss you so. I just miss you so.

Every time I try to write here, I feel like words don’t do my feelings justice.

It’s still hard to believe you’re not with us.
I miss you so much. I wasn’t ready to say goodbye.

Thank you for loving me as your own daughter. Thank you for all the lessons taught me.

I listen to your my video clips of you every night to feel closer to you, my beautiful mother.

I’m relieved you are no longer are restrained by physical pain. I don’t know what after life looks like, but I imagine your heaven a place where you can enjoy the warmth of the sun on your face and a breeze in your hair. I see you listening to music, watching the sunset with your father, leaning your head on his shoulder. I see you reunited with all your fur babies that had passed before you.

I love you.

Sheree, you are no longer in pain. And I am thankful to the one above that He has granted that to you. My heart is still broken yet I must constantly remind myself that you are in a joyful place, no pain, no sorrow, no disease. You have been given a healthy body in which you can enjoy your time with the ones who passed on before you. I love you Sheree. Forever in my heart.

My beautiful sissy Sheree, tenderhearted guardian of all animals, kind-hearted empathetic listener and supporter of those in need of being heard, best of sisters, best of friends, best of puppy and kitty mamas. I am afraid I will just cry for a long time. I know you would want me to laugh and be happy. But I know you will also understand. I just weep because there are no words for this loss of you. I just miss you so my best sissy. I just miss you so.

My dear heart ,
I think of you all the time and I miss you so much.
I can still hear your voice in my mind when we talked on the phone
almost everyday. I'm sorry you lived so far away. You always said "Hi mama"
just like when you were little that was so sweet and endearing!
I do so hope you are with all your wonderfull four legged friends, and your getting lots of dog and cat kisses.
Hugging you, mama

We went to visit my Sissy Sheree at the cemetery and leave some heart-shaped stones that I have been moving from place to place for my mom for about 15 years. I know she would love the stones we left for her - especially because they are all hearts. And don't worry Sis, there are lots more in mom's box of stones. I know that would give you a good laugh - and also I can hear you say "Awww.... Mama must be so happy to be able to leave those stones for me" Craig pointed out the deer footprints where a deer had clearly come to visit you. I know you loved that so much. I was always taking you along on rides with us to the state park so you could see the deer and the trees. Now the deer are all coming to visit you, I cry a lot sissy. I want to call you and remember that I don't need the phone anymore to do it. This morning mom said something that made me say, she's a stubborn old lady, and I heard you say, 'yes and you are too" and I heard you laugh. And that made me laugh too. Still laughing with you. And still crying for missing you. I guess I will always do both.

We went to visit my Sissy Sheree at the cemetery and leave some heart-shaped stones that I have been moving from place to place for mom for about 15 years. I know she would love the stones we left for her - especially because they are all hearts. And don't worry Sis, there are lots more in mom's box of stones. I know that would give you a good laugh - and also I can hear you say "Awww.... Mama must be so happy to be able to leave those stones for me" Craig pointed out the deer footprints where a deer had clearly come to visit you. I know you loved that so much. I was always taking you along on rides with us to the state park so you could see the deer and the trees and the lake and the river. Now the deer are all coming to visit you. I cry a lot for missing you, Sissy. I want to call you and then I remember that I don't need the phone anymore to do it. This morning mom said something that made me say, "she's a stubborn old lady", and I heard you say, 'yes and you are too" and I heard you laugh. And that made me laugh too. Still laughing with you. I know you are with me still although you are gone. I love you always.

Oh my sissy - I can't believe it has only been 16 days since you left us, only 1 week since we laid your body to rest. I just miss you so. I start to send you a text or call you on the phone and then I remember. Mom said she had a dream about you. You were singing. I know that means you are free and happy. I was thinking of how we used to play our guitars and sing together in harmony when we were young. I remember every song. I will sing them all for you. I just miss you so.

My condolences to the family of Sherri.
My good friend Elisa P talked greatly about  I don’t personally know you but I felt as if I did. I’m happy you liked my cooking. It made me happy to know that you enjoyed some of my dishes. Thank you for being a good person to my friend Elisa because she cared about you dearly. I’m happy that you are at peace and no longer in pain. ❤️

When I die
If you need to weep
Cry for someone
Walking the street beside you.
You can love me most by letting
Hands touch hands, and
Souls touch souls.
You can love me most by
Sharing your goodness and
Multiplying your acts of kindness.
You can love me most by
Letting me live in your eyes
And not on your mind.
And when you say
Kaddish for me
Remember what our
Torah teaches,
Love doesn't die
People do.
So when all that's left of me is love
Give me away.

by Rabbi Allen S. Maller

Dear family and friends,
I read about Sheree's passing on Facebook a few days ago. I don't usually look at any posts unless they are addressed to me. I almost passed the post until I saw Sheree's name. I stopped and went back, shocked to read the post. I believe Sheree was taping at my shoulder to tell me to look at that moment.
We met when we both worked at I-Hop in Los Altos. We became close friends immediately, of course you all know how Sheree was always kind, funny, and passionate about her beliefs. We worked side by side for 5 years until they closed the restaurant. We had the most fun going to the bar to watch the 49ers play football on Sundays . I'm not sure who screamed louder at their victories.
So many wonderful memories: like the time we both dressed up on Halloween. Sheree was a kitty cat and I was a bee and the customers loved us. We even went trick or treating with the kids.
My brother Michael always had a crush on Sheree, even to this day. She was always kind to Michael as he was sick with a mental illness.
When Sheree was in the fire, John and I went to see her and I remember her mom telling me, "only come if you can be strong for Sheree". Which we were, and my husband John who could always make her laugh did. Even with such terrible, and tremendous pain She managed a smile. She was doing it for all of us.
Her strength amazed us all. We continued to visit even when she moved up to Berkley for special burn victim treatment. A while later she moved back to Fresno and I got a call from her asking me and my daughter Jessica to be in her wedding. I was so proud that she asked me. Jessica, even though she was only about six, still remembers the wedding and the fun she had on that special day. Although we both lost touch years ago, we found each other again through Facebook. I have been ill for over 15 years now and time has slipped by, yet we promised each other we would meet again. I will meet you again one day when my time is up Sheree and we will have a toast of coffee and Kailua just like we used to do at work.

      Best of times my beautiful, kind, and loving friend.
Love, Terrie

Sheree I only got the pleasure to know you these past 9 months, but during these past months I thoroughly enjoyed our time together. You were always ready to laugh and smile. And always ready to have good conversation. You truly had a heart of gold, you cared for everyone, and wanted us all to be happy. You are one of a kind. I will miss you dearly my friend.
Love, Elisa ❤️

Sheree was my big sister and we spent time together off and on over the years. I will always remember her for- singing and playing guitar when I was little, having a great laugh and smile, her love of animals, and her love of her Dad. I hope they are having the best time up there. ❤

Sheree left an unspeakably beautiful legacy at 7cups that will never be forgotten, She was a role model and friend to everyone and all of us at 7cups are mourning her loss, but keeping her spirit alive. We love you Sheree , prayers to the family in this hard time.

Dearest Magic,
Thank you for inspiring listeners on 7 Cups to spread kindness! I miss your presence in the community. May your soul rest in peace.

Thank you for supporting us for years! You will live in our hearts and memories for years to come. 

Sincerely and with a heavy heart,
Tazzie.

Sheree,

Although I only had the pleasure of knowing you for 9 months, it felt like my family and I knew you for years. You had that effect on those that took the time to get to talk to you and actually know you, know what I am talking about.

I still struggle with the fact that your aren't here but I do find comfort in knowing that you are no longer in pain and in peace with your father.

You lived such a full life despite the circumstances life had dealt you. You were a survivor and fighter until the very end. An inspiration to us all. I feel blessed that you gave us the opportunity to be an intimate part of your life during these last 9 months. It will be something I cherish forever. We love you and miss you dearly.

Dear Sheree, or Magic as I knew you,
You were a truly inspirational person. So humble and unassuming but so kind to everyone you met. The world is a better place because you were in it. You will be sadly missed by so many people across the globe that had their lives touched by you. I know you are out of pain now and are smiling down on us all. I hope we can make you proud.
All my love, Turtle.

Sheree,

I know that you are at peace and have found your heaven but you will be missed. Since I was a small child I have watched from afar as you traversed hardships in your life with love, humor and strength. My mother always told us stories about you and the way you guys grew up so I know how important you are to both my mother and grandma and I can see the ways you all inform each others sense of humanity, care and love. I came to know and understand you through face time and phone calls and we never got to meet in person but one day we will! You are an example of an extremely strong woman, sister and friend. You showed me nothing but kindness my whole life and I want to thank you for it. The SmithStone family is as strong as it is because we are lucky enough to have a family filled with strong woman and I am so proud to call you my aunt! Rest in peace Sheree, you will always be in my heart.

Love,

Hakima

We will miss you and your memory will always be a blessing....Rest in Peace sweet Sheree

Sweet Sheree,
   You are truly a one of a kind woman. We had only known each other for 1/2 a year, but in that time I felt like I had known you my entire life. We shared many laughs together. You devoted your life to taking care of others and it showed just how much of a beautiful honest person you were. You are now with your sweet animals and in a better place. You will be missed! Like most people say, you are a “unicorn” . One of a kind

My dearest Sheree,

Many never knew you by Sheree, only by Magic, musicalMagic.

You indeed said magic words, provided magic comfort, guided with magic counsel. Whether it was one on one with members and guests or peers, your words always were kind, uplifting, encouraging.

I can not speak for all at 7 Cups of Tea, I can speak for myself. In the five years and four months your were my listener, my mentor, my friend you never let me down.

How I wish I’d had one last hug, love ya, goodbye. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I will miss you more than you’d ever imagine. Give babies Roxy and Juju and my baby Daisy lots of love, hold them tight, don’t let go.

And a lifetime is not too long to live as friends.

I don’t know how to start this. These past 6 years we’ve been through so much I don’t even know where to start. I know you’re not in pain no more you’re with Roxy and Juji give the hugs and kisses for me. You gave me so much And I appreciate everything you did for me this sucks I am so lost Without you. We had so many laughs I’ll always remember the time we tried to change the lightbulbs outside or when I tried to get the alligator out of the porch. But most of all I’m going to miss us going out to lunch at our favorite place with sweet tomatoes. I will never forget the day we found out you had cancer you told me I can leave if I wanted so I didn’t see you get sick I told you I’m not going anywhere I’ll be here till the end you can’t get rid of me that easy remember your stuck with me forever. I didn’t leave you at all I stood by your side till the end I didn’t want you to go I want you back I miss you so much so does Pepe we love you always. ❤️❤️

Sheree,
You finally found your peace . I am going to miss spending my weekends listening to music with you , eating breakfast together and having deep conversations. I only knew you a short period of time, but your memory will last forever. You made me appreciate, love and cherish life . Save me room in heaven until we meet again .❤️

My lovely daughter, you were always fun loving & smart as well as beautiful! You were your sister’s shadow, and you always had her back! You are deep in my heart, the very core of my being!
I miss you so much, I keep sending shouts & i hope you’re listening!
You always called me mom or mommy even as you got older!
Most of all even though you had so many difficulties you bore them with so much dignity& grace! You were always there for others in your work with seven cups! You were a rock for so many people even when you weren’t feeling well!
My dear heart ❤️ my beautiful lovely daughter, iI love you so very much & I miss
So very much ! Safe journey my sweet daughter you are loved!

I will always remember Sheree’s sweetness and smile. She embraced me as her stepmother and kept me in her heart for the many years since her beloved father has been gone. He loved and babied her, and perhaps is holding her once again. She was loved, and she will be missed.