For over 50 years Sherry and I remained very close friends. She was the best friend anyone could ever have and I still feel her spirit with me every day.
Sherry radiated the unconditional love that passes understanding.
Rest in peace, beautiful friend, I know we will see each other again.

Even after two years, I find myself thinking that it's time to have lunch with dear Sherry. How I miss those times together, catching up, laughing, and solving world problems. She continues to live on in my heart, and she always will...
With much love and happy remembrances to Ned, Rebecca and Jessica

Dear Sherry continues to rest gently in my heart, and I find myself smiling whenever I think of her. I will miss her forever.....

I think of Sherry often and her warm and loving ways.
She lives on in my heart.

Sherry was such a beautiful person inside and out. I will always remember
and love her.
Kathi

I'm so sorry Ned, my loss to have never met your beautiful Sherry. I lost the love of my life, so I know how how you must be feeling. Feel sure you are receiving support from your family. Be grateful for all the years you shared together. Your Classmate Betsy Sari Sentz

I just received this Life Tribute from Bill Polkinghorn.
I loved Sherry from the moment I met her in the 90's. And I told her that every time we were together. Her gentle heart was always giving, and she had a quiet way of letting you know that she cared. I have a special place in my heart for Sherry.

My sincere condolences to Ned, Jessica and Rebecca,
I didn't know Sherry well but I do know she was very loved and will be missed greatly. My thoughts are with all of you, Gene McSweeney

Aunt Sharon was a great woman. I unfortunately did not get to know her that well. Her, Ned and the girls moved away when I was young. I was so glad to see her in January of 2020. Sharon came to help me and my dad (George) with my mom's funeral. I had not seen her in years and really regret not getting to know her better.

Sherry was a beautiful, kind, and warm person. We Hawthornes (Trish, Tony, Amy) always enjoyed seeing her at Fine family gatherings, especially Thanksgiving at Mary Ellen's house. Her presence always added so much to those occasions. We especially enjoyed hearing about her extensive travels. We send our deepest condolences to Ned, Rebecca, and Jessica. Sherry is very missed. 

Ned and I were lawyers at Morrison & Foerster when we first started practicing law back in 1970. We had a great social group. Sherry was so cheerful and friendly and such a pleasure to be with. We saw the Fines many times over the years, including a surprise meeting on a cruise ship where we had a great time together. Ned, I am very saddened by your loss.

As Sherry’s fellow Pan Am flight attendant, member of Napa Valley Sistahs
& Marin World Wings, Litwit member & Mah jongg devotee, I came to see Sherry almost every week…… This is before the pandemic curtailed all of these activities. I so enjoyed being in her company.  I found her always to be kind and generous and ready to have some fun. I admired her in many ways; in particular I admired her determination to keep up her Spanish language ability and also her sense of optimism as she anticipated each of her many trips; whether to Savannah or Manchuria, she always was confident she was going on an exciting adventure. I shall miss her very much.

I met Sherry through being friends with Rebecca at Woodside Elementary School and Woodside High School. Sherry was always the sweetest, kindest Mom and wonderful host. I remember many slumber parties, pool parties, birthday parties and cheerleading practices at Sherry and Ned’s home. She was a beautiful and warm soul that everyone liked. She loved her family so much and being in her home was always fun. Although my travels and living overseas for a decade took me far away from our Woodside days, I always felt like not a day had passed when I got to enjoy catching up with Sherry, Ned, Rebecca and Jessica in California. The last time I saw Sherry was at Rebecca’s house in Napa and I got to enjoy a nice charcuterie board with her, Ned and Rebecca. The conversation and wine were always the best! My love and prayers to all of you and your families during this very difficult time. I’m sure you will create new traditions to honor her memory. Lots of love from me, Mina and my Mom.

I was born five days before Rebecca when our families lived on the same block in the Berkeley hills where our mothers became close friends. Therefore, I have know Sherry even longer than Rebecca! As Rebecca and I grew up, we also became close friends and remain so to this day. The Fines are like family and Sherry is already deeply missed.

I was very fortunate to meet Sherry through my friend Ed. He had know Ned and Sherry for years and insisted that I would really enjoy both of them. He couldn't have been more correct. Sherry and I hit it off immediately and became good friends, sharing lots of "Fine" meals and frequent hiking. In 2006 we decided to take a trip to New Zealand and spent 6 months planning it. Since Rebecca was working for an Australian wine group she arranged a special stay at one of their wineries. We spent time on both north and south islands driving, exploring, hiking, and of course, wine tasting. We happened to be in Hawkes Bay Area when they had their annual Wine Festival so we devoted a day to that. We hiked all day up over the mountains used in the film Lord of the Rings. It was very foggy and steep, but the views were spectacular. Sherry was truly an intrepid hiker and a great travel companion. The boat trips in both Doubtful and Marlborough Sounds were awe-inspiring. The entire trip will always be one of the best of my life.

My Sister-in-Law, Sherry

  My sister-in-law, Sherry, was a wonderfully kind and caring person. She was especially kind and caring to our mother-in-law, Emily, in her declining years.

  To me she was so generous. I am forever grateful to her for planning and taking me on many special trips. We went to England, France, Ireland, China, Taiwan, Bali, and Lompoc together. Traveling with Sherry was always interesting and so much fun because she had visited all these places many times, knew them so well, and could tell me so much about them. She made me feel so comfortable when I went with her because of her vast traveling experience.

  She was such a good mother to Rebecca and Jessica, a beloved grandmother to Issac, Emmet, Logan, and Emily, and such loving and caring wife to Ned. She was a perfect companion for him. He loved being with her as they traveled throughout the world.

 Although I miss her, she will always be one of the most cherished persons in my life. I have an exquisite picture of her that I treasure from one of our many Thanksgiving celebrations. It completely captures the spirit and energy she brought to our many family gatherings.

  These are just a few of the memories of Sherry that I will never forget. I gives me such great joy when I think about what I shared with her.

Sherry has been my dearest, beautiful, wonderful friend for over 52 years. We met as trainees for Pan American World Airways in 1969.
She has also been the sister that I’ve never had. As a matter fact I managed to convince everyone at the hospital the day after Rebecca was born that I was her sister so they would allow me to see her and her beautiful baby girl!
I could write a book about our friendship over these many years. I’ve delayed this tribute in the hopes of finding some of the most special photos of us but to no avail. I’m sure I will find some of the pictures soon and be able to post them.
I will end with this one incredible story that is just one example of the incredible person Sherry has always been. On a flight from Auckland to Honolulu with a stop in Pago
Pago ( pronounced Pango Pango). I became very sick and fainted. When the plane landed in Pago Pago, unbeknownst to me because I was still passed out, the captain announced he was going to take me off the plane. Sherry immediately told the captain if he dared to take me off the plane she would get off too and there would not be a legal crew to go on to Honolulu! The amount of courage it took to speak to the captain in that way in 1971 is impossible to describe. No one could have a better friend! She will be with me always.

So sad, Rebecca, about your mom. My prayers to you, as well as Pops and Jessica. Found a cute picture of all the grandkids in the pajamas she gave them. Though they’ve outgrown the pj’s they will never outgrow the memories. She will be forever missed.

I am a former squash/ golf/ travel partner of Ned's and visited with Sherry and Ned from time to time. To see Sherry and Ned together was always a joy for me. Ned, of course, has always been a bundle of activity, but Sherry was serene and steady. She was such a kind, warm, caring and engaging person -- indeed, just the type that Ned needed. I am so saddened by her passing. But I am confident that the many sweet memories of Sherry will light up the lives of her husband, her daughters and her grandchildren forever.

I’m deeply sorry to hear of Sherry’s passing. As a Pan Am sister, more so our Napa PAA Ladies Lunch Sisters, this lovely lady will be remembered and we will continue to raise a glass in Sherry’s honor! May you Rest In Peace and may the good Lord bring comfort to your family at this sorrowful time.

I am a Napa Pan Am Sister to Sherry and we all enjoyed our bi-mothly luncheons with her. She did miss a few because she and Ned were off on some far-off adventure. Sherry will be missed, but she will forever remain in our hearts. Cheers to you, my sister.

Oh Ned - I am so very sorry about your loss. I know you had alot of wonderful years and memorys. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Your Wakefield friend forever. Love , Nancy Quick

As a young lawyer with Fisher Phillips, I temporary worked in our San Francisco office (under Ned's leadership) in the summers of 1983 and 1984. Initially, Sherry, Ned and their sweet little girls, hosted me in their home in the Berkley Hills. From then until now, I have always loved the Fine family as my own California family. Sherry was so gracious to me, so funny, so intelligent, so generous and so interesting, that I feel impoverished to think I will not enjoy her company again. Her passing leaves an empty spot in my heart. "Sherry Really Fine," I will always miss you.

I met Mrs. Fine through my dear friend, Rebecca, when we were in college. I’ve been incredibly fortunate to have had many meals and trips with Mrs. Fine ever since--from our college study abroad in Paris, to mother-daughter trips in Vermont and Michigan, and from Napa to Vail and Gettysburg. I’m so grateful for the time that I’ve spent with Mrs. Fine over the years. Her kindness and warmth and caring nature were obvious from the start. So, too, were her quiet strength and brave spirit and her loving dedication to her family. I love seeing all of these photos and having glimpses into other parts of her life. She will be deeply missed by so many people—a true testament to the grace and joy and love that she so generously shared throughout her life.

Bill and I are truly sorry for your loss. Sherry was a sweet and lovely lady. I'll treasure the many trips we traveled together. She was an excellent tour guide and planned our wonderful trips with the expertise of a world traveler. I'm certain Ned, Rebecca and Jessica have many cherished memories to hold in    their hearts forever.  Love,

Dear Ned and Family, I was so sad to hear the news about Sherry from the Roberts. Sherry was just such a gently and loving person that the world needs
so many more of. She left us way too young. My heart goes out to all of you and I hope all the wonderful memories you've made over your lives with her will help you heal the hurt. 
Love,
Dotty

How saddened I was to learn of Sherry’s passing. We became friends working as volunteers at Filoli before she and Ned moved to Napa. Those days were so enjoyable knowing we could “visit” while we assisted the guests. We also belonged to a small walking group. We hiked the Sawyer Camp trail while trying to solve the Worlds problems. Such fun on a sunny morning. After the move to Napa I always looked forward to newsy Christmas cards full of details of the grandkids and recent travels with Ned.  I will certainly miss Sherry!!!

Thank you so much for notifying me, Rebecca.
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Ned and Sherry have always welcomed me (and my family) into their home as if I were part of their family. Thanksgiving, etc... My only regret is not taking more time, and truly relishing the time, to spend with each of them and their wonderful daughters. Life is short and precious. May we all strive to be like Sherry - reaching out to those we love - cherishing those times we have to spend with them. I know it may sound old fashioned but - “Carpe deim “.

Aunt Sharon: Thank you for the many welcoming visits over the years to your home…and the memorable trips to visit us in Chicago and London. I’m so sad you will not have the opportunity to see Juno Beach, ‘the one place in the world’ you had never heard of after all your travels. I will cherish the memories of your warm welcoming hugs, incredible hospitality and how you made me feel special by giving your undivided attention when I’d visit, as if there were no place you’d rather be in those moments. Love, Jennifer

I met Mrs. Fine through her amazing daughter, Rebecca. And like Rebecca, Mrs. Fine was a sincerely kind, loving, and devoted mother and friend, as well as a gracious hostess. I am grateful to have known her. Her memory lives on through her dear husband, her sweet girls, and her precious grandchildren. My prayers are with your family as you grieve her loss during this time. Lots of love, Eaton

My golfing partner Ned has lost a wonderful and caring wife and devoted mother and grandmother—my condolences and best wishes to the extended family. May she rest in peace. Thanks for sharing the wonderful pictures.

Sherry was an altogether sweet and caring person, devoted to her husband, daughters and grandchildren, and cherished by her friends. My very best wishes and healing thoughts to my friend, Ned, and to Rebecca and Jessica and their families!