My Grandmother, known to many as MaVie but GrandMa to me, was my everything. My Grandparents gave me a sense of who I am and where I come from. Not a day goes by where I don’t thank God for blessing me with my GrandMa for so many years. I would tell GrandMa that she has to live twenty more years and she would kiss her teeth and tell me not to wish that for her. Then she would giggle and give that little, “under her breath”, laugh. GrandMa was generous, thoughtful, no nonsense, and had a great sense of humor. We all got our love of laughter from her.
She was my protector, my constant, my comfort, my peace. It is impossible to put into words what she meant to me. I have so many memories of summers spent together in Jamaica with her and my Grandfather, going to the market, to the beaches, and visiting friends and family. I was very content just “hanging out” with them, even though they would often try to find me playmates and things to do. I just loved being around them. I enjoyed sitting in her kitchen, with her, listening to the radio on quiet afternoons. We all enjoyed everything that she made in her kitchen and she found joy in listening to us all laugh and talk as we enjoyed the food and deserts that she made.
I remember my Grandmother tending to me when I was sick or hurt and reluctantly having to take her “old wives” remedies and concoctions. Her remedies always worked! I also remember her shushing me in church when I talked too much. GrandMa taught me so many valuable life lessons of always thinking and caring for others, not just oneself. She taught me that fostering relationships with people is important. Their home in Crescent Park was literally a welcome mat. Her most important lesson was that of cultivating a strong faith in God. She loved her church. Having a relationship with God gives one the foundation necessary to endure the ups and downs of life. My Grandparent’s life together was a true testament of faith and family. I treasure every moment I spent with GrandMa and GrandPa, and I am so grateful to have had them play such an influential part of my life.
Although I am sad to see GrandMa go, I take great comfort knowing she is with GrandPa.
I love you GrandMa. I miss you terribly
Love Kathy