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Bob's memories of Walter meeting Steve's grandfather, Bert Alport

December 7, 2020
Walter and Bert Alport met at Sarah and Steve's wedding.  A story I remember was a conversation between the two grandfathers.  They were discussing their occupations when they realized they had met in the 1950's!  Bert designed and installed Weather-O-Meters (accelerated materials testing device) and Walter remembered buying one while working for Dupont.  Great memories!

Main Line Health HomeCare & Hospice

February 9, 2020
As our father's health declined and he needed more care than I could provide, his doctor Lisa Jones signed him up for hospice care. Dad had a special place in his heart for Dr. Jones, since she seemed to care so much for him. I think she requested the very best for our father, since all dozen or so hospice workers that came to our house were really great. Joyce Crego, the main nurse and one of eight or so nurses that came over a period of four months, was very competent and made a difficult job as pleasant as possible. Dave Small, the aide, was incredibly nice to my father, and kept him shaved and clean. As my father said, cleaner than he had every been. Dad really liked his twice weekly bath, although he had trouble remembering Dave's name and would call him Herb. Lynn Wetherbee came to sing and play the harp. That was quite special. Julie Prey, the chaplain, was a very reassuring presence. Dad enjoyed asking her questions, and Julie enjoyed answering them, or not, depending on the question. She wouldn't tell him how much she made for talking to him. Dana Rummery,  an art therapist,  tried getting Dad interested in sculpture but when that failed she asked him about his life and typed up his answers. Katie Ward, a 24 year old social worker , came every few weeks. Dad asked her her age, and she said "guess". His eyes had failed him at this point, but going by her voice he guessed 23.  Helping someone die isn't easy but  Main Line Hospice  made it the best it could be. Thank you very much-David

Letter to the medical students benefiting from Walter's donation

February 6, 2020
Walter and Eileen decided over 40 years ago to donate their bodies for medical training and research. This letter was written by 2 of Walter's granddaughters and his step-granddaughter, a first year medical student who wore Tyvek gear when working in the lab.

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Dear Medical Student(s),
We'd like to tell you a few things about our grandfather, whose body you are studying to further your medical education. We hope what we say here makes your learning experience both positive and meaningful.
Our grandfather signed up to donate his body to science back in 1976. He carried a card with him in his wallet for almost 45 years indicating that his body should be used for research purposes after his death. In case you have any concerns that he (or we) felt conflicted about your use of his body, you have no cause for worry. He thought that you, doing what you're doing there in medical school, was a worthy cause. We agree.
For those of us who knew him, this choice made perfect sense. Our grandfather was excited by science above just about anything else. He got a PhD in physics and worked as a chemist for his career, then got seriously interested in computers. Maybe you're going to put on some personal protective gear before you do any work on his body. If you do, that gear is very likely made out of Tyvek and you might be interested to know that he was on the team of inventors who created Tvyek. When they first developed it they had no idea of all the things it would eventually get used for. Shortly before he died we learned (and told him) that it's often used for protective gear in medical school labs. He got a kick out of that. We hope you do, too. 
More broadly, our grandfather delighted in trying to unravel the mysteries of the world: physical, chemical, biological, technical, and social. His excitement and humor as he explored something new made it fun to answer his questions or investigate alongside him, and also fun to argue with him. 
Our fondest wish is that you learn from his body with unbridled curiosity. He would be entirely supportive of you having questions and poking around to find answers. We hope his body is a chance for you to learn for yourself all kinds of memorable and exciting things about how we humans are put together.
One last thing you might find interesting: 
When he turned 100, our grandfather decided he just wasn't going to eat anything he didn't like ever again. Until our grandmother died, which happened when our grandfather was 99, she managed to cajole him into eating vegetables pretty regularly and occasionally succeeded at curtailing his less healthy eating habits. But no more. Starting about 3.5 years before his death, he switched to a diet that consisted of nothing but Milky Way bars, lemon hard candies, and store-bought chocolate milk - the kind that comes pre-mixed in gallon containers. Plus a vitamin pill. About eight months later, he dropped the lemon candies and ate only Milky Way bars and chocolate milk. He was advised this was not healthy eating but he didn't really care. It made him happy. And who knows? After all, how many nutrition studies feature people his age subsisting on chocolate milk and candy? 
We wish you the best in your studies and in your future profession. May you be friendly doctors who feel genuine curiosity about your patients - both as people and as bodies. May you enjoy investigating the mysteries of their health and may you invite them to join you in that exploration. In short, may you be as happy in a life dedicated to scientific practice as this man who donated his body to you.

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