I (Jewel) have a couple all time favorite memories of her mom: one was a Christmas where all our Christmas stuff had been stolen from out shed; afterwards we had 2 trees donated that we all made decorations for and promised to spend our money from grandpa and grandma on our mom. When she opened Ed's gift ( key chain with a gorilla making a face on it...) And we all were laughing because it said "I am not grumpy, I am just Constipated!"
Ed was so confused and asked what Constipated meant
We all couldn't stop laughing and when mom asked why that keychain if he didn't know what Constipated meant, Ed said it was because he liked the gorilla! We still laugh about that time together and remember the closeness we all shared.❤❤❤❤
The night just before mom became non-responsive at the house (2 nights before going to Heaven), mom called out for me (Jewel) so I sat next to the bed and asked what she needed. Mom asked me Matter-of-factly.... "How are we gonna get the laundry caught up?!". "By us doing it mom.. It will be taken care of mom" I told her. Then she told me I needed sleep and asked if I was gonna get sleep? I told her I would sleep while she slept or when it got to be night time. Then after she had been resting for about an hour she came to and asked if I was ok and I dawn and donna were up ( I promptly replied yes) and If I needed anything, would I Please let her know what she could do to help me?! ❤❤ I told her her helping me days were done, if they weren't then she needed to wave her magic wand and change things Pronto!! Then I kissed her and told her we were all doing ok and we would be ok and help each other out, she had nothing more to worry about.... She kissed me and went back to sleep. That was the last words she spoke to me and she went peacefully a day and a half later (April 16th, 2020) in her sleep.