今天愚人节，获知你的离去。第一反应是不相信，但终究还是输给了现实。还记得你这美国友人在南京啃鸭头的样子，去年在茶馆里的聊天，没想到竟是诀别。其实和你不是很熟，通过微信，能感受到你散发的热情和对生活的热爱，好爸爸一个。你的美好永远会在我们心里。走好！！！

难以置信，很难受！
上个月还在群里商议20年毕业聚会。
聚会时间定在8月，也是希望汉星你能回来参加。

震惊！汉星一直是同学群里的笑星，大家都盼着你的段子呢！痛惜！

汉星同学一路走好，天堂与人世没有距离，祝福之桥永远相联！没想到高中毕业20年一别就成了～～～   梅强泣书于北京

汉星，
实在太令人震惊，难以接受，只希望是一个愚人节的玩笑。同学群里你给大家带来好多快乐。大家商量暑期聚会的时候，你却突然离世。愿你在天堂平安。

廿年一别，竟成永绝。英年早逝，不亦悲哉！

震惊，但愿不是真的。我和老余大学四年同住一个宿舍，虽然大学毕业之后没怎么联系，但老余的乐观，开朗给我留下深刻的印象。印象中他是一个喜欢运动，很健康的人。 RIP,汉星同学

在愚人节的清晨听到关于你的消息，是想告诉我，只是个玩笑么？如蜜春阳下，红色银莲花开得让春风都笑了。你以为是血色Poppy，赞它美。我在微信里告诉你，它叫anémone，是银莲花，你于是笑笑说：“涨姿势了”，这是3月1日的事。那么，就送你一朵红色银莲，伴你一路远行。

去年8月，在南京匆匆见到你，你邀请我有机会去看看你家的后园，不想，你又匆匆远行。想必那片果园该会是怎样的繁盛，你站在阳光下笑着。

深闭的园子 | 戴望舒
五月的园子
已花繁叶满了，
浓阴里却静无鸟喧。
小径已铺满苔藓
而篱门的锁也锈了——
主人却在迢遥的太阳下。
在迢遥的太阳下，
也有璀璨的园林吗？
陌生人在篱边探首，
空想着天外的主人。

汉星，狼，大学四年睡在我上铺的，你怎么就这样离我们而去，你的爽朗，活跃，笑容还依旧在我的脑海中，虽然大学毕业后我们各奔东西，联系不多，但你的身影我永远忘不了。狼，你在那边好吗？我，我们永远念你。狼，一路走好！

汉郎，你和我们大家开的这个玩笑太大了！
我们大家都不相信！
上个月我们还在讨论20周年聚会放在5月份还是8月份，还在商量网络投票，前几次微信摄影交流还记忆犹新，还有你家旁边的小院里面的灰兔，去年你带儿子回母校的情形。我还说，米国还没有去过，下次来米国你做向导，去黄石公园看看。
你怎么能这么不打招呼就走了呢？
我们还期待着你在微信发发小段子，我们还想在微信群中嗨一声汉郎！
汉郎，我们永远怀念你！！

My condolences to you Michael, and all your family on the passing of your father Hanxing. It is never easy to lose a father, who also a husband to your mom, and a son to his parents , no matter his age. I pray for your peace and comfort, and sure God bless us all, no matter where you go, and where he goes. Be good!

Hanxing,
    My friend, so sad and so shocked about this. I still remembered the smile and happiness he showed talking about his kid the chess contest in weichat. I also remembered the surprise meet in the MA premier outlet years ago. Most importantly, I remembered the days/nights when we study/play at Nanyuan. My friend,  may you rest in peace!
Xiaoyong

想起以前一起打乒乓球的日子。想起我结婚时，他义务给我当摄影师。想起在Acton 时，他对我的帮忙和照顾。有一次亲自把自己种的蔬菜送到我家里来；又有一次给我带来刚发的西红柿苗，成了我平生种的第一批西红柿；还有一次我家一早赶飞机回国，时间很早，天还没亮汉星就到我家送我们到机场；当然还有在他家开得parties...等等等等。现在能想起来的就是这些平常不经意的点点滴滴，说出来仿佛流水帐一样的平凡。

最近联系少了，没想到最近的一场聚餐竟成永别，实在难以相信。当天我们是一块乘电梯回办公室的，我在4楼下，他在五楼，还记得最后道别时，还约好以后多一点这样的聚会... 汉星兄弟，一路走好。

留在记忆中的都是欢笑，给大家带来这么多欢乐的，难道不是转世的天使，终于相信你又回到天堂，天堂从此再也不会寂寞，感谢有缘相识相聚

汉星，愿你在天堂安好！昨天一直没有留言，因为不敢相信、也不愿意相信你离去的事实。说好毕业20周年的聚会，你竟然爽约了；说好约你我的儿子在网上下棋，你又先走了。你的乐观、阳光、健康的形象会永留亲人、同学、同事、朋友心中！

Han, I'm still shocked and saddened by your sudden departure. You were such a wonderful guy and always had a smile for everyone. You will not be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

RIP！日月之行，若出其中，
星汉灿烂，若出其里。初中同校，高中同班，大学又是同校，去年去波士顿，本来说好一起吃饭，可是没有凑好时间，想着以后有的是机会。没想到竟然是永别。昨天夜里知道的消息，太悲痛了。最喜欢看你发的小段子，还喜欢看你monent上发的波士顿大雪，儿子从工具房屋顶往下滑的精彩瞬间。怎么能就这么去了...老同学，一路走好

昨天没有留言，总希望能看到你跳出来说这只是愚人节的消息。毕业这么多年在美国都没有见面，好容易回国后再见到，谁曾想过这是最后一面。安息，老同学。

老Han,还是喜欢这么叫你。很久未见，无法相信你竟然突然离去了。你的音容笑貌还在眼前，当年一起工作散步打乒乓的日子似乎只是昨天。脑海中的你真诚睿智，诙谐幽默，工作认真，热爱生活。对天慨叹英年早逝，留下铭心的遗憾！真心祝愿你一路走好！

汉星，20多年后的2013年，我们老同学终于又见面了，大家都很开心!你一直是个对生活充满热情的人，更是一个优秀的人，一个有着丰富情感的人，对你的家人充满了热爱! 汉星一路走好! 我们会永远怀念你!

附中毕业后一直没有机会相聚，总以为留给彼此的机会还有很多！昨日在德国得到此消息后，我还和朋友说这个愚人节目开的有点大，因为作为医生的我虽然面对过很多生与死，但确实发生在自己身边同学身上时，心里还是无法接受这样的现实！汉星，在天堂一路走好！愿家人节哀，父母保重，同学珍惜！

Still can't believe Hanxing is gone, gone forever… Han is such a nice guy so smart, kind, and thoughtful both at work and at home. He not only can implement very nice user interface applications, but also a caring father. I still remember he brought me his peaches and vegetable from his garden, and shared with me how he replace the fabric of his chairs and make them looked new…. I miss you Hanxing!

Han, before you left for your vacation, we used to have daily meeting, some times only 2 of us. The week you supposed to be back, I joined a meeting you scheduled, when I heard there were 2 people on the call, I was singing a song, unfortunately the other guy is indian. This suppose the firs joke I wanted to tell you when you back. You promised to move your office downstairs to sit among us... Life is so cruel to take you away from us. It is very hurt every time I think of you.

Han, I am still in shock and refuse to acknowledge it be true ... you left us so soon, so suddenly ...

It was a day in January that we ran into each other in a restraunt when you were picking up a take-out, we threw a few jokes at each other and had a good laugh. It's hard to believe that moment became the last memories of you, a good friend. You are missed forever.

May you rest in peace and all blessings to your survived family.

My Dear Friend ,
I still remember that the new year party and we played killer game in 2003 . The day you tried to buy washabi in Costco to expel rabbits from your fruit trees . And in one hot summer day you brought JuhuaNiao to my house when my mom was here . She was so delighted and mentioned it every time she visited us .
Due to the hetic life we are not as close as before , but in the bottom of my heart , you are always my buddy .

Wish you will enjoy your new life in Heaven ! I will miss you !

Daddy, I took Michael to get a haircut last Saturday. You said you would give him a haircut yourself as you always do after you are back. But you did not come back to us.

I told you I adopted a puppy for Michael. It looks just like the old neighbor's dog Stony. Michael could not wait to show you his new fur friend Arthur. Arthur has been a good distraction for Michael in the past week. But I felt heart broken when Michael said you never got the chance to meet Arthur.

I picked up Michael in a hurry in the evening of March 7th right after a long drive back. You were leaving for vacation the next day so you picked up some takeout rather than making your own. You invited me to have some food you brought from Chinatown. I had some roasted duck and told you it was really delicious. You joked that it was because I am very hungry. Yes I did not eat much on the road because Arthur's first road trip did not turn well. We ate at your new kitchen counter and chatted a little just like we used to. But I never expect it to be the last time I ate by your side.

I had tried to shield Michael from fear so I had to calm myself down in front of him. I had to step up last week to deal with many things that I never thought I have to deal with in my life. I wanted to be strong, but I have already realized that I am not able to be strong anymore. You have been my backup for Michael in many ways. And now I feel scared and deeply lost with my backup gone.

Life is a journey with ups and downs. We unfortunately did not work out in downs. However as daddy and mommy for Michael, we both love him very much and are willing to work together to provide him with the best we can. That's why we moved to Andover and hope to give Michael a jumpstart.

Michael and I are working on a poem. I will have him read it to you on Saturday. I only remember all the good times we had and I believe you do too.

I don't know where you are now, but I try to believe you are just around me and Michael. Please give me the strength and courage so that I can move forward with Michael with no fear.

Rest in peace Daddy. We love you and miss you forever.

Han, you were one of the rare people who are always fun, kind, full of life. You had such a big heart that all those around you felt your warmth. You were brilliant in so many things and showed such passion in them. I still remember the photography trip we took together many years ago. You produced an outstanding picture that won a prize in your club and me my mediocre usual. As saddened as I am from the tragedy, I know your family’s pain is countless folds of mine. My heart goes out to them. Rest in peace, Han. We all miss you.

汉星，复活节就要到了。当年您自告奋勇联系了Marlborough的公园，搞清楚了复活节彩蛋活动举办的确切时间，让孩子们度过了一个愉快的中午。在那里，大家一起捡蛋，一起吃冰激凌爆米花，与卡通人物合影，有幸见到了你家漂亮的太太和可爱的宝宝。

认识你11年了，从Waltham到波士顿。运气好还可以在通勤火车上聊会儿，受益匪浅。

刚开始就知道您是一个framework guy，很聪明。都说您的老板会挑人，把精兵强将揽在身边。

您兴趣广泛，是一位摄影好手，有集体活动大家都愿意让您为大家留下美好的纪念。

去年底我更新摄影器材的时候咨询过您。虽然您是理光相机的忠实用户，还是为我这个佳能用户提供了建议。

二月底，还与您一起诊断一个公司网站新功能。还好，问题顺利解决了。

今年或是因为创纪录的积雪或是因为您的离去，Marlborough的彩蛋活动25年来第一次取消。相信您的精神会复活，永远留在大家的心里。


Han, Easter is coming. Back when we were working in Waltham, it was you who volunteered to contact Park Service in Marlborough to find out when the biggest egg hunt was going to be held. Given your information, Verizon families and kids had a fantastic time there, picking eggs up, enjoying free ice cream and popcorn, having pictures taken with cartoons. My family were very happy to get to know your beautiful wife and sweet Michael.

We have known each other for 11 years, from Waltham to downtown Boston. I still remember the happy moments and small talks we had on the commuter rail.

From the very beginning, we knew you were a framework guy, very smart. It is a privilege for your managers to have you on the team.

Everyone knows you have a wide range of interests and are an expert in photography. We'd love to have you in the parties so we could have beautiful moments taken which are worth keeping forever.

Near the end of last year I consulted with you about photo gears. Even if you are a Nicoh guy, you were kind enough to share your knowledge with a Canon fan like me.

Post February production release, we got into a chat room troubleshooting a new function. Glad, problem solved.

Due to historical snow accumulation or your sudden leaving, the biggest egg hunt in Ghiloni Park, Marlborough is cancelled this year, which has never happened over the past 25 years of its history.

I believe you'll resurrect and watch over us in our journey ahead.

RIP, Han! You'll be remembered by all you love and all who love you.

"Han,I knew you since my 18 years old when I Began to work ,that was my first job until now and you have been a good lead for all of us".We are so sorry that you gone.I will miss you,Rest in peace.

“”漢，我知道你，因為我18歲當我開始工作，這是我的第一份工作，到現在為止，你已經帶了好頭對我們所有人“。我們是很抱歉，你'gone.I會想念你，安息。“

It is so shocking and sad that your time has ended. My heart goes out to your family and loved ones. I was certainly blessed to know you through work. I admired your patience, respected your intelligence, and enjoyed your company. I miss you. Rest in peace my friend.

Han, we are still in shock you are leaving us, can't be true! Your smile will be forever remembered. You seemed doing everything excellent. Rememering we went out for some golf play few year back, you were always ahead of us, but also verry petient shared us what you know, and it was so fun and we are always thinking do it again, but cruelly, we are no longer able to anymore. May you find peace in heaven!

汉星， 你好
希望天堂里的你能听到
现实世界和你的交集甚少，几次在停车场邂逅的点头微笑
网络世界虽没进一步的交流，但记得是你欢迎我们加入了“VZ老友”群聊
看你留下的只言片语，飞鸿掠影，人生采风
虚拟世界中我们也感受到生命之重
每个人都有不能承受之轻，那是我们生来的苦痛
但你的精彩会是爱你的人和你爱的人记忆中的永恒
愿英年早逝不曾发生，不再发生
多珍重

I have been feeling my heart is not in relaxed state when I wake up in the morning since past weeks. I think it is caused by the sadness of your sudden departure.

You are such a smart, fun, energetic gentleman, full of life. I still remember you showed us the vegetables you grew when we visited your house years ago, still have a clear picture of how healthy the vegetables are at the back of your house, bright green and succulent, much much better than we see in supermarket. With your generosity we tasted best squash ever.

You are excellent at doing everything!!!

May you rest in peace.

Hanxing, it is still hard to believe that you have left us forever. We have done so many things together during the years in Verizon. We worked together in the War Room, we took trains together to Boston, we went out lunch together during noon break in Boston office, we went for egg hunting together with kids in Marlborough... All those like just happened yesterday, but today we are forever apart. Everyone can easily notice your full passion and energy in so many things, as other friends mentioned. You showed your love in your family, your life, and your friends. Every time we went to JingChuan, the owner of the restaurant always remembered you, the good-looking guy, and you always remembered to take extra orders home for your family. We exchanged secrete recipes of cooking delicious dishes.... All and all, can only be in memory now. We will miss you forever. Rest with peace in Heaven.

惊闻老Han离去的噩耗，久久不能平息心中的悲痛。关于老Han的记忆断断续续得浮上脑际。我们都习惯称汉星 “老Han” 。每天见到他都是笑呵呵的样子。我们都是SSA，Umass Amherst 校友，同在Tampa工作过，又是同年，而且是常熟老乡！所以总感觉有另一种别人无法体会的亲切。闲暇时，常去他的办公室聊天。他喜欢摄影，办公室里很多他的大作，如果元文在，两位发烧友大会讨论一下“天价”的摄影器材。老Han拍的最多的还是他的挚爱夫人，到处都是她的特写。他也常讲起他们如何辗转从缅因到Arizona。当时资怡还在纽约念书，所以心有戚戚焉。后来他又有了可爱的儿子，夫人和孩子是他永恒的摄影主题。记忆中在Angie的豪宅里有一次聚会，老Han带着美丽的夫人和可爱的孩子同来。资怡已经不太记得老Han，不过至今仍然记得他的夫人和她带来的几个好菜。一晃八年过去了，我们也有了自己的孩子，每日忙忙碌碌像蚂蚁一般为了生活奔波，恐怕永远也不会像老Han一样淡定，从容的热爱生活。就让老Han在天堂里继续，像从前一样，捡起他的相机，焦距他的最爱。

还记得多年前在Waltham，午饭时间经常能有机会和你坐到一起谈天论地。你的健谈，睿智，深邃的见解给大家留下了深刻的印象。惊闻英年早逝，不胜唏嘘，愿你在天国得到安息，愿你爱的人和爱你的人都珍重。

汉星，听到你走的消息，我感到非常的震惊和悲伤。

虽然以前在同一家公司上班的时候我们的交流不是很多，但是我感觉你是一个非常热情非常聪明机灵的热爱生活之人。那时我开始和元文学习摄像，到过你的办公室闲聊，你的多才多艺让人钦佩。

转眼十二年过去了，在前不久的3月14号，我出差到波士顿，Harry把我拉进VZ老友微信群，刚进群你第一个表示热情欢迎，还有几句文字交流，对于一个离开Verizon十年的人来说，我感到特别的温暖。

一周之后，也是在同一个微信群里，你的噩耗传来，十分突然，令人难以置信，这距离前面一个热情洋溢的生动活泼的场景也就两三屏。人生变幻莫测，世事冷暖无常，这是一种怎样的悲哀，巨大的落差不禁让人怀疑这是否真实。

人在万里之外，不能亲临现场送别，只能在远方默默的哀悼和祈祷，你的人生只走了一半，却是丰富而精彩，你的生命嘎然而止，却是起伏之中涌现辉煌。愿你的家人和所爱之人幸福安康，愿你安息，在天堂！

We will miss you!

汉星，到现在我还不能相信这个事实，你已经离开了，永远地离开了大家.

还记得多年前大伙一起帮助你搬家， 你的妈妈给我们做了好多好吃的，你抱着可爱的贝贝给大家看，和我们分享你初为人父的体验。还记得你幸福满满的神情，如果时光永远停留在那一刻有多好．

你总是热情投入做各种各样的事情，不论是工作上还是生活上，你积极好学， 乐观向上的精神，感染着周围的人. 你就像冬天的一缕阳光，给我们带来温暖.

愿你在天堂好好安息，保佑你的家人平安幸福.

当我听到你去世的噩耗，我的震惊和悲伤真是我以前没有经历过的。虽然我们可以说我们还算年轻，但现实是我们的朋友，同学不时有先离我们而去的，这也不是第一次我听到类似的噩耗，但这次我为什么尤其震惊呢？ 我今天在开车回家的路上一直在想这个问题。我可以列出好多理由，例如你随和，坦然，平易近人的性格，聪明的头脑等等，但我其他离我们先去的朋友也有这些特点啊？我不知道我有没有个完整的答案，但我知道我很怀念我在Verizon工作的那段时间我们在一起那些开心的日子。 因为我们共同的摄影爱好，很多次我们一起出游去捕捉美的瞬间。有时候是约上其他的同事一起去Vermont, New Hampshire等地拍红叶。更多的时候是我们俩单独去荒郊野岭拍风景，被蚊子咬的满头是疱却很开心。记得有次我们去温室拍花，我们提到很感谢崔蕾能放你出来，还能在边上默默的等我们拍完。我也记得当有次一张你的NH拍的秋景的照片参赛获奖，我也象你一样为你高兴。还记得你的奖品是一堆我们常用的富士反转片。

就像很多摄影爱好者一样，我们有很多漂亮照片，却没有几张自己的照片。当我翻出我仅有的几张你的照片的时候，忍不住流下泪水。

离开Verizon后，尤其我到纽约工作后，我们几乎没有见面的机会。最后一次看到你们一家，是大约3年前你们一家3口到纽约曼哈顿玩，刚好在餐厅碰上。那次真是一个很开心的Surprise. 那一次我所见到的你将成为我永恒的记忆，你将永远不再变老！

逝者已逝，愿逝者在天堂平安，也为身后的家人奉上祷告。

Han, my dear friend. I really miss you. You always tried to live your life to the fullest. I wonder how you managed to find passion in and be good at so many diversified things (gardening, fishing, skiing, photography, house renovation, piano, technologies, business innovation, ...). So sorry that you are gone too soon. Rest in peace.