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In loving memory of Col Harry C. Spies USMC (Ret)
April 25, 1952 - December 16, 2013

Harry was interred on January 3, 2014 at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.  He is located in Section 12B, Row 1, Niche 6 (http://4sq.com/JSlqe1).  The niche can be challenging to find; try inputting these coordinates 32.689603, -117.243634 into your GPS and it's basically like geocaching, except you don't get to take Harry home.  

Thank you to everyone for their love and support over the past two years.  We think of him each and every day and miss getting to tell him stories, ask for advice, and share jokes.

Please still consider a donation to one of the following in Harry's memory:

Flying Leatherneck Historical Foundation
http://flyingleathernecks.org/donate-now/

National Museum of the Marine Corps
http://www.marineheritage.org/MakeDonation.asp?stype=F11114

The Carcinoid Cancer Foundation
https://donatenow.networkforgood.org/1440060

Thank you for sharing Harry with us over the years and we hope to continue to share his memory with you into the future.  Feel free to post pictures and stories from any time, including the memorial and celebration.

With love, Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali








March 15, 2016
March 15, 2016
Harry,

Kind of an arbitrary day to post a tribute, but I found myself thinking of you and how much I miss your mentorship.

 Continue watching over all your friends and family.

Semper Fi,
Snapper
December 17, 2015
December 17, 2015
Harry, you are missed every day. Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali, prayers of comfort and peace to you. Your family is thinking of you.
December 17, 2015
December 17, 2015
So many of us are thinking of you today and every day Harry. We miss you and think of you often. Keep us on track and blessings to Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali who carry on so well for you. God bless and Semper Fi, Shadow
December 17, 2015
December 17, 2015
Two years have passed and it seems like only yesterday. His loss has left a hole in our family. Sadly missed,
December 16, 2015
December 16, 2015
Harry was one of my always "at the ready" mentors and advisors. He was always ready to weigh in on any subject no matter how complex. One of the nicest, smartest and best Marines I ever knew.
Semper Fi
LtGen Dog Davis, Deputy Commandant Aviation
December 16, 2015
December 16, 2015
God bless you Harry. You and thought old and remembered as one fine human being and friend.
December 16, 2015
December 16, 2015
Loved by everyone he touched. A wonderful friend, Marine and patriot. Harry is one of my all-time heroes!! Semper Fi, Steve
December 16, 2015
December 16, 2015
When I was suffering from Bipolarism Harry was always there with an encouraging word. He is missed by all who knew him as a friend. "Sunshine" Stevens.
December 16, 2015
December 16, 2015
Harry, you are a truly great Marine and Patriot and you are sorely missed. God Bless you, Jeannie and the family. Semper Fidelis, Spider
April 25, 2015
April 25, 2015
Thinking of you today and always, Harry. Keep us all on glide slope from there and know you are in our prayers. We miss you. Semper Fi, Shadow
April 25, 2015
April 25, 2015
God Bless you Harry - we miss you. Semper Fidelis, Spider
April 25, 2015
April 25, 2015
Harry,
We miss you, your wit, your wisdom and your friendship.
Your Roomie,
Scott
April 25, 2015
April 25, 2015
Harry, just to let you know, I am still using the wisdom you shared with me in supporting the men and women flying USN and USMC aircraft. Thinking of you and the family. Respectfully, Doc
December 23, 2014
December 23, 2014
Missing the quick words of advise but I know you are looking over all of us and kicking us in the right direction.....Curt
December 18, 2014
December 18, 2014
We are thinking of Harry but also of Jeannie and the family during the holiday season. Julie and I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas. You are fortunate to have good memories of times past, and also the opportunity to create new ones for the future. From the doctor with no brain!
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
Harry,

You continue to be an inspiring leader for many of us. I think of you always, and many times wonder 'what would Harry do and think of this?'
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
God Bless and keep you Harry! You are missed. Be well!
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
Harry,

 It's been a year since you left us. Not a day goes by were I don't think to myself "What would Harry say or do about this or that"....and you always provide me with the answer! 

 Thanks for keeping overwatch on me and your family! You are missed.

Be well and rest easy Harry,
Snapper
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
The world needs you more than ever Harry, keep us out of trouble and be with us when we need help and wisdom. You are greatly missed, Semper Fi, Shadow
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
Harry,
You are in my prayers at daily mass. I'm sure you and "Mini" are recalling many adventures.
S/F shindog
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
Think of you often, classmate. Great example in so many ways. God bless you and your family.  Dan
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
sorely missed this past year, your leaving has left a hole in the family that cannot be filled, you are in my prayers as is your family
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
Miss you Harry. Think of you often.
November 10, 2014
November 10, 2014
Happy Birthday Harry, you were a great Marine.
May 27, 2014
May 27, 2014
A belated Happy Birthday to you Harry. I thank you for all your advice and wise counsel out at 3D MAW and at HQMC. I think about you often, and I try to provide the sage advice to others that you provided to me. My best wishes to Jeannie and your family this summer.

Semper Fi, Pappy
May 1, 2014
May 1, 2014
Dearest Jeanie, It was with such overwhelming sadness that I read about Harry's passing in the latest issue of Shipmate. I have such fond memories of all the countless adventures that we all shared aboard "Jubilee III" during our Academy years, along with Dick and Jane Tracy, "Wags," Clay and "Zorro." He was, without a doubt, one of the "good guys," fun-loving and full of life, a true and reliable friend, and a great sailor! One of my most memorable times at "Boat School" was when he and I co-captained one of the Luder yawls during First Class year. It was such a great time for both of us. I am beyond happy to know that the both of you went on to marry and build a life together. No one deserved each other more. He was certainly "one of a kind." And although we didn't stay in touch after graduation, which I now deeply regret, the world feels a little less brighter without him. I remember all the good times that we shared like they were yesterday. I miss those good times. And I miss him....
   Know that I will keep you, Brian, Kate and Ali in my thoughts and in my prayers. God bless...
   With much love, "Gator"
April 27, 2014
April 27, 2014
Miss giving you a call and receiving your short words of wisdom. There is a spot at the taproom for anyone that wants to talk about Harry and a toast of him daily.....
April 26, 2014
April 26, 2014
You are greatly missed on your birthday and every other day Harry. The world and all of us in it still need so much of what you gave to life. Thankfully, those of us lucky enough to know you still benefit from your wisdom, compassion, and leadership. Keep doing it from there. Semper Fi, Shadow
April 25, 2014
April 25, 2014
Happy Birthday Harry! I miss you everyday! I'll be having a double shot latte in your honor today. Rest easy my friend. Semper Fi!
April 25, 2014
April 25, 2014
While attending an Aerospace & Defense Industry event this last week, ended up chatting with another longtime friend of Harry's. We shared stories of our times with him and how much we missed his savvy in helping industry connect with USMC to ensure the best of what our industry has to offer gets into the hands of the those who need it the most. Harry and I share this passion and his credibility with those in senior leadership was second to none. We miss him and will continue this passion as long as we are able.
April 25, 2014
April 25, 2014
Happy Birthday Skipper, saw a lot of the Bengals in P-Cola at the Intruder Association Reunion in early April. Told some lies and raised our glasses to you old friend.
April 25, 2014
April 25, 2014
Missing you dearly, Harry!!
April 25, 2014
April 25, 2014
Happy Birthday Harry. If you keep pressing everyone there for answers to questions they may kick you out - and then where will you go?
January 7, 2014
Very sorry to hear of the loss of my nephew Harry. We were sorry to lose contact with him after his father's death. Harry did send us an email when my husband Eugene passed.

My children Gary, Glenn and Janet and myself pray for your family. 

Madeline Spies
January 5, 2014
January 5, 2014
Harry was a friend and a mentor, and one of those select "inner circle" folks who I went to for advice. He always took time, and always listened. I am a better person for having known him. Rest in peace Harry - you are missed by many.
January 3, 2014
January 3, 2014
A friend and mentor whose unique style will be profoundly missed.
January 2, 2014
January 2, 2014
Harry was such a bright light with a huge heart – he was a “force” and was very smart. It was a joy to be in his presence, to listen to his stories or just talk. It was always a great day when Harry came to our office; his voice boomed throughout and I loved hearing it. The thought that we never hear his voice again is very sad. His wife and children were so lucky to have him for a husband and father; it must have been a great ride.
December 28, 2013
December 28, 2013
Harry was like a brother to me. Having first met him in 1985 working in Naval aviation, our paths kept crossing throughout the remaining years of his military career. Harry was a visionary leader, a great friend, and a true warrior. Love and light until we meet again, dear friend.
December 27, 2013
December 27, 2013
What a force to be reckoned with in all categories of life: husband, father, Marine, and mentor. You will be missed and surely remembered by many. I stand at attention and salute you as you stand forever At Ease. S/F.
December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
I first met Harry when he was a Major and I was Captain working for Gen Hearney as his Aide at 2dMAW. Harry was a great mentor to me since, both professionally and personally. Rest in peace my friend. You will be sorely missed by many, but will never be forgotten.
December 23, 2013
December 23, 2013
I was privileged to meet Harry at the Power Ten Christmas parties with my husband. He was so down to earth and kind...a truly inspiring individual. I feel blessed to have met Harry and thankful that my husband ended up working for such an incredible company. Many blessings and sincere prayers to the Spies Family.
December 23, 2013
December 23, 2013
I only met Harry through the mark he left at many of my shipmates lives here at Power Ten, and those of our clients. Regrets we never met in person.

To the Spies Family I wish you Peace during this difficult time.

To Harry, Thanks for your service to our nation, your mentorship of my colleagues, and I wish you Fair Winds and Following Seas.

Semper Fi~
December 23, 2013
December 23, 2013
I first met Harry as he was making the transition from an organization that was highly organized, disciplined and efficient (USMC) to one that abounded in creative chaos and was utterly resistant to centralized direction (the Pacific Council). It was a learning process for us all. In his first weeks at PCIP, he would send email containing the acronym "NLT" that mystified the rest of the staff. In time, we became a more focused group due to his leadership.

Harry was much liked and well respected by his PCIP colleagues. He was a fair-minded boss who impressed us with his concern for staff morale. I recall him telling me several times that "you have to take care of your people." I learned several big life lessons from him, but this is the one that struck me the most.

I hope the sadness of the Spies family will be relieved a bit by knowing a great many people regarded Harry as a good man and a good friend.
December 22, 2013
December 22, 2013
Condolences to you Jeannie and family.A great guy,but you knew that already.Classmate,track harrier and another Greenbrook friend from across the brook that divded our towns.Harrry was that kind of spirit that greeted one with a smile that made you think,"what a great shit eating smile/grin".Many memories from our school days together.he will be missed by many.Another vetern who served to keep our country free.I salute you Col.Harry Spies.Another guardian at post,you may now relax soldier.Peace.
December 21, 2013
December 21, 2013
I met Harry through Russ Stromberg, and within the first hour at lunch, knew he was one of the rare people who shared our same feelings of honor and integrity. All of us who worked with Harry knew we were getting the straight scoop, and his motives were for the genuine good of all. He was brilliant in his insights for nearly any subject, and someone I felt honored to be considered his friend. People like Harry come along in our lives only a few times, and I will always be better with the perspective he gave me. What would Harry do, will serve me well, and all of us that spent our too small time with him.
December 21, 2013
December 21, 2013
Harry was one of those rare forces of nature who knew how to have a good time, and bring everybody else along with him. One couldn’t help but admire his unmatched zest for life, keen intellect, quick wit, mischievous smile and the perpetual twinkle in his eyes. As has been said of another great man, Harry "had every gift but the gift of time."

It’s been years since I last saw Harry in the Pentagon, but like many others I treasured every moment we shared together, particularly two Midshipmen summers spent on the slopes of Mt McKinley. His legacy of service, commitment and caring for his Marines, friends and family serve as a beacon to us all.

Perhaps Winston Churchill described Harry best when he once said: “You make a living by what you get, you make a life by what you give.” My life, like so many others, was deeply enriched by knowing Harry. He made the world a special place, and I will miss him.

God Bless you and your family Jeannie, and we hope you can take comfort in knowing that on embarking on his final High Flight, Harry has “slipped the surly bonds of earth… and touched the face of God”

Semper Fi, Harry.      Tim
December 21, 2013
December 21, 2013
A great man and our heartfelt prayers go out to Harry's family and all who knew him.
Brock & Diana Gibson
December 21, 2013
December 21, 2013
My condolences to Jeanie and the family. Harry was a prince of a man which is underscored by the many he touched and have paid him tribute. When he was the Commanding Officer of MACG-38, Harry took the time from his busy schedule to meet and provide me some guidance. We had never met previously, and I was not a member of his command. I have never forgotten his support.  Our friendship continued from that time and after the Corps. I always valued his advice and mentorship. His legacy will live on in the hearts and minds of many. Semper Fi.
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
We spent a year together at SAIS Johns Hopkins, and Harry will always be remembered as a true class act. Approachable, charismatic, dedicated, the kind of guy who always made time for others (even Air Force guys). We shared a few tactical military stories in the hallways, but more importantly embraced the opportunity we had at SAIS, fighter pilots totally out of our element, yet cognizant of the important flags we carried even off the field as military aviators. Harry, it was an honor and a pleasure, fly safe my friend.
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April 25
April 25
You mentorship and life lessons are still being applied by us that knew and learned from you. Continued thanks. We still talk about you in school circles at work and at the bar. You wouldn't be surprised to hear that the 2024 Marine Aviator of the Year is the son of one of your formal commanders....
S/Fi, Curt
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April 25
April 25
Happy Birthday my friend.
You are missed!
We lost a few good Marines who you would know in the past year -
JJ Cuff 5/23
Ken Gardiner 10/23
Jersey Krupp 12/23
Bless them all and their families.
- Trouser
January 2
January 2
It doesn't seem possible that you left us ten years ago Harry. Not a day goes by that you are not part of our thoughts. God bless Jeanie and the family with best wishes for a wonderful New Year and all the promise that the future brings. Semper Fidelis, Shadow
Recent stories

VX-5 Story - Meeting Harry

September 5, 2022
I arrived at VX-5 in the beginning of 1985. Shortly after, I was in the process of getting things squared away and noticed Harry had custody of one my best sources for quick answers. After receiving several unsolicited warnings about Harry, I set off to find him. He was at his desk, head down, poring through some documents when I announced my presence. This is a true rendition of our first conversation.
SS: Hi sir, I'm LT Shuman the new intel guy.
HS: (inaudible)
SS: I'm looking forward to supporting all the projects. 
HS: (murmurs something)
SS: I noticed you have a pub I need. If you need something from it, you can just call me. So, I need the pub back.
HS: No. (he looks me for first time)
However, I prevailed under the proviso that he could have the pub back if he didn't like the support. I kept the pub.
I only found out about our loss today. I feel gutted to be honest. Harry has been gone for a good time now, but in my life only for a day.

With Harry at 3D MAW, '98 to '00

December 23, 2013

I did not have the good fortune to serve with Harry every day untill 1998 when he was the CO of MACG-38 and I was the AWC of the Wing.  I knew of him by reputation from his time and great work at VX-5 and the TSG. From afar, I respectedd and admired him, as did so many of us at MAWTS-1, VX-4, VX-5, VFA-125, and the then emerging Strike University, later to become Naval Strike and Air Warfare Center in Fallon.  We were doing things that still cannot be spoken of outside of a SCIF and Harry, Mini, Drifty, and a small ultra talented group were leading the way and facilitating it all.  There is a photo on this site of the three of them and Snapper, all of whom I know well.  There is more G2 in that one photo than in most large cities and they did more than we'll ever know for the country. There are many reasons that Harry was part of all that, he was just amazing at getting the right things done in the days we were fighting the Cold War.  

I was privleged to work directly with him when he and I were assigned to 3D MAW, me as the AWC and he as the MACG-38 CO.  In those days the Marine Aviation Command and Control System (MACCS) community was very unappreciated and little understood by many Marine aviators, even senior ones, and the vital role of the MACCS agencies and the system as a whole was generally undervalued and sub optimized in the Marine Corps and Joint world.  

One of the memories I have of Harry is how he went after the aviators to turn that around, to energize the community, lift the morale and feelings of belonging and contributing among not only his Marines and Sailors at MACG-38 but in the entire MACCS community.  And he did it as only he could, with his laser-like intellect that understood at an elemental level the most complex and intractable challenges, with his uncanny radar for understanding people, and patience and practiced wisdom steadily applied until really big things happened for the better.  

The Wing was very involved in Operation Southern Watch in Iraq at the time, we planned and executed named operations and Harry and his folks were front and center in it all, changing the way we thought and acted as Marine aviators, as a MACCS, MAGTF warfighters and Joint warfighters.  It created ways of thinking and operating that were transmitted to the future, making our accomplishments in Operation Iraqi Freedom possible and no doubt saved many, many young lives.

And there is more, Harry helped change his world for the better. 

Harry always did the right things, in the right ways, for the right reasons, professionally and personally.  He had an internal GPS for those things that was infallible, like a laser.  It's difficult to write or think about Harry without feeling incredibly sad that he is no longer with us, it is such a loss.  

Here's what I think Harry would tell us about life:

Do the right thing.  Do the right thing.  We don't always know exactly what that is, but we can figure it out.  Figure it out and then do it.

Follow the Golden Rule.

Always do your best.

Never give up.

That's how Harry lived his life.  I'll try harder to do the same.  God bless him and keep him. Shadow

Fly Fishing with Harry

December 21, 2013

Like many of you I have lots of good Harry stories.  One of my favorites is when Harry taught me to fly fish.  As many of you know, Harry loved the outdoors and fly fishing.  He loved its ruggedness, solitude and challenge.  When I traveled with him he often had his Fly Rod with the carry-on luggage even though our trip was fully booked with meetings and we were in suits.  I would joke with him and ask if he was hoping that when our plane “crashed,” it would be near some yet to be discovered world class trout stream.  He would just smile and say, “you never know,” and continue to board.  That was Harry; he never felt opportunity was far away even in the worst of situations. 

Later, I asked Harry if he would teach me to fly fish.  For the uninitiated, that was like asking if he would allow me to take the vows of the fly fishing priesthood.  Or maybe as an adult ask a Major Leaguer to teach you how to play catch.  After some persistence, he finally agreed and off we went to Bishop, CA.   We decided to go in the RV I owned at the time, and we spent hours on the road solving the world’s problems.  All of us who had that one on one time with Harry recognized that you were with someone special.  Not perfect, but someone rare among our friends.  It is those moments and the wisdom of those conversations that I will always remember.

We started to fish surrounded by quickly melting snowflakes most of the day, and caught enough for our supper.  We cooked them over an open fire and then as the temperature dropped with the approach of nightfall, others crawled into their tents. We retreated to the warmth of the RV.   Harry normally would have been one of those dedicated anglers who went to a tent because that was I think, one of the rules of the “priesthood.”   As I prepared some other food, and Harry was enjoying a glass while debriefing the days events, I could tell he was also enjoying the significant contrast to his normal fishing trip accommodations.  I joked with him again and said, I don’t think I have any white wine glasses for the fish.   Harry leaned back in the chair and smiled a smile I will never forget.  He said, you know Paul, I may never go camping again and just laughed.  Harry was fun.    

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