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In loving memory of Col Harry C. Spies USMC (Ret)
April 25, 1952 - December 16, 2013

Harry was interred on January 3, 2014 at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.  He is located in Section 12B, Row 1, Niche 6 (http://4sq.com/JSlqe1).  The niche can be challenging to find; try inputting these coordinates 32.689603, -117.243634 into your GPS and it's basically like geocaching, except you don't get to take Harry home.  

Thank you to everyone for their love and support over the past two years.  We think of him each and every day and miss getting to tell him stories, ask for advice, and share jokes.

Please still consider a donation to one of the following in Harry's memory:

Flying Leatherneck Historical Foundation
http://flyingleathernecks.org/donate-now/

National Museum of the Marine Corps
http://www.marineheritage.org/MakeDonation.asp?stype=F11114

The Carcinoid Cancer Foundation
https://donatenow.networkforgood.org/1440060

Thank you for sharing Harry with us over the years and we hope to continue to share his memory with you into the future.  Feel free to post pictures and stories from any time, including the memorial and celebration.

With love, Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali








December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry, I know you are still here with us watching as we slide on down the mess hall of life! Classmate I miss you. Stay with us as we BEAT ARMY two more times in a row and we are first to 60. I am just sorry we never got to work together, but hell, playing together is so much better anyway.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
A calm voice of reason when we were in the Marine mafia in OSD. Asked the hard questions when we were Group COs. The perpetual smile and terrific intellect. A Marine through and through. Part of his legacy lives on in the Marines he taught, led, mentored, and befriended. He and Jeanie made an indelible mark on the San Diego military community. Go with God, my friend. Semper Fidelis.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry, you always seemed to skim above the currents that push and pull at so many of the rest of us, always had your eye on the horizon, on the longer view. And everyone who knew you were better for it. We'll miss you Harry.

--Lindsay (former colleague at the Pacific Council)
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to the family. Harry will be in our thoughts for a very long time - someone who actually made a difference. Best VX-5/9 COTD ever. An incredibly smart guy with a huge injection of logic and common sense. I'm pretty sure the reason he left us so early was that Mini Mott needed someone else to conspire with up there.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
You know you are in the Marine Corps when….you just checked into your first fleet squadron and:
- Harry Spies is your right seat for the entire first month, and
- You get to witness Harry conducting office hours (CO/XO at Red Flag).

You were a gentleman, scholar, teacher, and most of all, a United States Marine in the truest sense. Rest In Peace. 

My prayers and thoughts with family.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Godspeed Harry...you leave a great legacy. Your family, friends and shipmates look forward to meeting up on the other side.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
You are now in a better place my mentor, brother in arms, leader, friend. Will see you again Sir, standing by the pearly gates I'm sure.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
The shock is felt to our very core. The friend, mentor, and fellow aviator...the father and husband that we all aspired to be. Rest well dear friend, until we meet once again...in the mean time, put in a good word for us!
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
"I was proud to call Harry my friend, but I am more proud that Harry called me his friend. You will and already are missed!"
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Till we meet again friend, you will be missed. A great leader, visionary, and friend. Words cannot express the gratitude I have to you and the sadness in my heart right now. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time, and we can't wait to see you again in a place where pain and sorrow is no more.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
A good man. My life was enriched by knowing you and calling you a friend. God Bless you and your family.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
I know that this world was a better place because of Harry. He will be sorely missed by me but never forgotten as he was an inspiration to anyone fortunate enough to know him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this terribly difficult time.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Fair winds and following seas Shipmate, neighbor, hunting & fishing buddy, and Squadronmate. Till we meet again!
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
My heart is heavy. A shock! Harry was such a great American, Marine, Jaycor employee and friend. Will miss you till we meet again. Keep smiling.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
To paraphrase an anonymous author: There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will. Harry mattered...and always will.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Harry, my USNA Classmate and fellow Marine, you were something special to a ton of people and will be missed. God rest your Soul my brother.

john brown
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
No worries here on earth, Harry. We'll take care of your family! Send us the gouge and "yellow" on Heaven. Rest in peace my friend.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
I find myself fighting back tears as I try to write a simple message about the impact Col Spies had on my life. Maybe it's because some people we see as being invincible, able to beat anything. You, Harry, were just that to me. 

James Dean said that if a man can bridge the gap between life and death, if he can live on after he's dead, then maybe he was a great man.

Harry was a great man.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
I knew Harry and Jeanie back in high school. It was clear that they were both destined for great things. I can see that I was correct. I'm so sorry to hear that Harry has passed.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
We've lost one of our best and truly a "one of a kind" Marine, husband, and father. I'm sure that where he is now every cast of a fly gets a fish, the beer is as cold as the water in the river, and the sun continually shines on his face. Rest in peace.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Harry was so much more than a brother to me. I always knew he had my back, would kick my ass when I needed it, and was that constant presence in my life. I'm not sure he'll ever know how much I loved and admired him. Our relationship truly got better and stronger with age. You will always be in my heart and mind, and I promise to always be there for Jeanie, Brian, Kate and Ali, as you were for me.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Mary Anne's and my hearts and prayers go out to all the Spies. We will cherish all the wonderful memories we have of Harry. He will never be forgotten. Good bye, my friend.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
A leader who entrusted us to carry on with with his commanders guidance. He taught me to take care of our Marines and don't worry about him or the brass. His last guidance to me was to not concern myself with how he was doing but to spend time with my family and chase your dreams because life is too short.  Harry, we are all better because of you but we all got caught short spending time with you. Semper Fi, Your OpsO
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
I confess to being in a state of disbelief at this news. I last saw Harry at the MCA&F Intelligence Dinner in 2012. We served together when he was CO of MACG-38 at 3d MAW when I was the G2 there. When Mike "Rifle" DeLong was CG, we called Harry "the Armorer"--he seemed to be the only one who could handle the boss. He was always calm, cool, and collected--full of sage wisdom and listened to everyone. God bless Harry, his surviving family, his close friends, and all those who knew him and mourn his loss. A feel a sense of debilitation knowing he is gone from us. So much he had left to give--
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
I don’t need to tell you how great a guy Harry is. (I’m sorry. I can’t do this in the past tense.) Harry has had many lives, all well-lived. B/N, test pilot, intel/black world wonk, squadron commander, entrepreneur, successful businessman, loving father and husband, fast and unwavering friend. Over the past 24 years, I’ve known Harry in most of those persona and he is as principled as he is intelligent, whether facing down and calling out ignorance or supporting and defending his country, his friends and his family. He is absolutely uncompromising, and that was what makes him great. In a world of wishy-washy personalities who stand for nothing, Harry was and is a beacon of truth and integrity. I miss him terribly already.

Tim/Jim AKA SPOOK AKA Hack
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Harry was COTD and I was a very inexperienced OTD. I was worried about the format for a test plan and concerned about plagiarizing someone else's. He looked at me and said, "Doc, there is no such thing as original thought." That was the first of many things he taught me that have lasted throughout my career and life. The fact that he taught "by example" made the lessons even more lasting. Thanks Harry!
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Very sorry to hear...been a long time since we were at the Lake together. Rest in peace.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Harry, my TBS classmate, lifelong friend and fellow Marine, was a giant among men. I was blessed to have him in my life and I will be forever grateful for the many things he did for Zoe and me. Jeanie, Brian, Kate and Ali our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
With Harry’s passing, the world has become significantly dumber and a lot less fun. He personified the maxim, “It is better to serve than be served.” I consider myself blessed to call him my friend, colleague, and boss. I am sure if we ever look on Heaven’s scenes, we will find Harry improving the guard duty scheduling process for the U. S. Marines.  Rest well, see you again soon.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Harry, you had a huge impact on everyone you touched. The Bengal's of 91-93 will miss you greatly! Never take "NO" for an answer lives in all the Marines who served with you. Until we meet again Skipper!
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
A truly great American and a Prince of a man. We are all better for haveing known and served with Harry. Rest in peace my friend and with no more pain. A magnifient Marine. God Bless & Semper Fidelis, Spider
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Harry, You left us so soon. There must be something up there you needed to check out for the rest of us. You were the smartest guy in the Marine Corps I ever knew but you always made us mere mortals feel important. God must have needed you for something big up there, He wont be disappointed. Semper Fi
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
An inspirational servant leader, an intellectual force, a charismatic person---devoted to his family and his Marines and an example to us all. Directly assigned with the MACCS community only near the end of his career as MACG-38 CO---he left a legacy as a giant of our small community that has inspired many of us over the years since.
We have all been honored to know you, sir!
Semper Fidelis!
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
May your fondest memories keep Harry with you each and every day. God Bless.
TSG Alumni
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
I am so relieved that I told Harry on his last birthday that I figured out that he was like a brother to me. During HS we shared many intimate conversations. Although Jeanie barely remembers the event, their first date was at Cranbury Lake in NJ with Don McCutcheon and I. Harry adored Jeanie from that time on. They created a beautiful and multi- talented family. They cared for their families of origin and their military families with equal intensity. I know Harry was very proud of the life he built with Jeanie. I was thrilled that my son Joey got time to spend with Harry and Jeanie three months after his own Dad died of cancer. He loves the military...and I will remind him in years to come that he had met a great military hero when he met Harry Spies.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Jeanie, my thoughts are with you and the kids. Even though its been a long time since I last saw Harry and you, I very much enjoyed reading about you all and him via Facebook.....I will always have fond memories of our family gatherings at Ira and Chris' in NJ. He was a great man who served his country proudly and will be missed by many including me.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
Harry was a true leader and mentor. I recall when he arrived at VMFAT-101 as a VIP, unlike most VIPs, he was always concerned about not being a burden on the squadron. 10 years later, as my first boss after transitioning from the Corps, Harry was still concerned about not being a burden on his people. He shared everything, taught me everything, and supported me in all my decisions. I cannot think of a better leader and mentor. Semper Fi Harry.
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You mentorship and life lessons are still being applied by us that knew and learned from you. Continued thanks. We still talk about you in school circles at work and at the bar. You wouldn't be surprised to hear that the 2024 Marine Aviator of the Year is the son of one of your formal commanders....
S/Fi, Curt
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Happy Birthday my friend.
You are missed!
We lost a few good Marines who you would know in the past year -
JJ Cuff 5/23
Ken Gardiner 10/23
Jersey Krupp 12/23
Bless them all and their families.
- Trouser
January 2
January 2
It doesn't seem possible that you left us ten years ago Harry. Not a day goes by that you are not part of our thoughts. God bless Jeanie and the family with best wishes for a wonderful New Year and all the promise that the future brings. Semper Fidelis, Shadow
Recent stories

VX-5 Story - Meeting Harry

September 5, 2022
I arrived at VX-5 in the beginning of 1985. Shortly after, I was in the process of getting things squared away and noticed Harry had custody of one my best sources for quick answers. After receiving several unsolicited warnings about Harry, I set off to find him. He was at his desk, head down, poring through some documents when I announced my presence. This is a true rendition of our first conversation.
SS: Hi sir, I'm LT Shuman the new intel guy.
HS: (inaudible)
SS: I'm looking forward to supporting all the projects. 
HS: (murmurs something)
SS: I noticed you have a pub I need. If you need something from it, you can just call me. So, I need the pub back.
HS: No. (he looks me for first time)
However, I prevailed under the proviso that he could have the pub back if he didn't like the support. I kept the pub.
I only found out about our loss today. I feel gutted to be honest. Harry has been gone for a good time now, but in my life only for a day.

With Harry at 3D MAW, '98 to '00

December 23, 2013

I did not have the good fortune to serve with Harry every day untill 1998 when he was the CO of MACG-38 and I was the AWC of the Wing.  I knew of him by reputation from his time and great work at VX-5 and the TSG. From afar, I respectedd and admired him, as did so many of us at MAWTS-1, VX-4, VX-5, VFA-125, and the then emerging Strike University, later to become Naval Strike and Air Warfare Center in Fallon.  We were doing things that still cannot be spoken of outside of a SCIF and Harry, Mini, Drifty, and a small ultra talented group were leading the way and facilitating it all.  There is a photo on this site of the three of them and Snapper, all of whom I know well.  There is more G2 in that one photo than in most large cities and they did more than we'll ever know for the country. There are many reasons that Harry was part of all that, he was just amazing at getting the right things done in the days we were fighting the Cold War.  

I was privleged to work directly with him when he and I were assigned to 3D MAW, me as the AWC and he as the MACG-38 CO.  In those days the Marine Aviation Command and Control System (MACCS) community was very unappreciated and little understood by many Marine aviators, even senior ones, and the vital role of the MACCS agencies and the system as a whole was generally undervalued and sub optimized in the Marine Corps and Joint world.  

One of the memories I have of Harry is how he went after the aviators to turn that around, to energize the community, lift the morale and feelings of belonging and contributing among not only his Marines and Sailors at MACG-38 but in the entire MACCS community.  And he did it as only he could, with his laser-like intellect that understood at an elemental level the most complex and intractable challenges, with his uncanny radar for understanding people, and patience and practiced wisdom steadily applied until really big things happened for the better.  

The Wing was very involved in Operation Southern Watch in Iraq at the time, we planned and executed named operations and Harry and his folks were front and center in it all, changing the way we thought and acted as Marine aviators, as a MACCS, MAGTF warfighters and Joint warfighters.  It created ways of thinking and operating that were transmitted to the future, making our accomplishments in Operation Iraqi Freedom possible and no doubt saved many, many young lives.

And there is more, Harry helped change his world for the better. 

Harry always did the right things, in the right ways, for the right reasons, professionally and personally.  He had an internal GPS for those things that was infallible, like a laser.  It's difficult to write or think about Harry without feeling incredibly sad that he is no longer with us, it is such a loss.  

Here's what I think Harry would tell us about life:

Do the right thing.  Do the right thing.  We don't always know exactly what that is, but we can figure it out.  Figure it out and then do it.

Follow the Golden Rule.

Always do your best.

Never give up.

That's how Harry lived his life.  I'll try harder to do the same.  God bless him and keep him. Shadow

Fly Fishing with Harry

December 21, 2013

Like many of you I have lots of good Harry stories.  One of my favorites is when Harry taught me to fly fish.  As many of you know, Harry loved the outdoors and fly fishing.  He loved its ruggedness, solitude and challenge.  When I traveled with him he often had his Fly Rod with the carry-on luggage even though our trip was fully booked with meetings and we were in suits.  I would joke with him and ask if he was hoping that when our plane “crashed,” it would be near some yet to be discovered world class trout stream.  He would just smile and say, “you never know,” and continue to board.  That was Harry; he never felt opportunity was far away even in the worst of situations. 

Later, I asked Harry if he would teach me to fly fish.  For the uninitiated, that was like asking if he would allow me to take the vows of the fly fishing priesthood.  Or maybe as an adult ask a Major Leaguer to teach you how to play catch.  After some persistence, he finally agreed and off we went to Bishop, CA.   We decided to go in the RV I owned at the time, and we spent hours on the road solving the world’s problems.  All of us who had that one on one time with Harry recognized that you were with someone special.  Not perfect, but someone rare among our friends.  It is those moments and the wisdom of those conversations that I will always remember.

We started to fish surrounded by quickly melting snowflakes most of the day, and caught enough for our supper.  We cooked them over an open fire and then as the temperature dropped with the approach of nightfall, others crawled into their tents. We retreated to the warmth of the RV.   Harry normally would have been one of those dedicated anglers who went to a tent because that was I think, one of the rules of the “priesthood.”   As I prepared some other food, and Harry was enjoying a glass while debriefing the days events, I could tell he was also enjoying the significant contrast to his normal fishing trip accommodations.  I joked with him again and said, I don’t think I have any white wine glasses for the fish.   Harry leaned back in the chair and smiled a smile I will never forget.  He said, you know Paul, I may never go camping again and just laughed.  Harry was fun.    

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