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In loving memory of Col Harry C. Spies USMC (Ret)
April 25, 1952 - December 16, 2013

Harry was interred on January 3, 2014 at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.  He is located in Section 12B, Row 1, Niche 6 (http://4sq.com/JSlqe1).  The niche can be challenging to find; try inputting these coordinates 32.689603, -117.243634 into your GPS and it's basically like geocaching, except you don't get to take Harry home.  

Thank you to everyone for their love and support over the past two years.  We think of him each and every day and miss getting to tell him stories, ask for advice, and share jokes.

Please still consider a donation to one of the following in Harry's memory:

Flying Leatherneck Historical Foundation
http://flyingleathernecks.org/donate-now/

National Museum of the Marine Corps
http://www.marineheritage.org/MakeDonation.asp?stype=F11114

The Carcinoid Cancer Foundation
https://donatenow.networkforgood.org/1440060

Thank you for sharing Harry with us over the years and we hope to continue to share his memory with you into the future.  Feel free to post pictures and stories from any time, including the memorial and celebration.

With love, Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali








December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
We spent a year together at SAIS Johns Hopkins, and Harry will always be remembered as a true class act. Approachable, charismatic, dedicated, the kind of guy who always made time for others (even Air Force guys). We shared a few tactical military stories in the hallways, but more importantly embraced the opportunity we had at SAIS, fighter pilots totally out of our element, yet cognizant of the important flags we carried even off the field as military aviators. Harry, it was an honor and a pleasure, fly safe my friend.
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
A tremendous Marine, who set the bar high and encouraged, helped, and mentored everyone to reach that standard. The MACCS benefitted greatly from your perspective, leadership, and vision. I am forever grateful to have served under his leadership, and been the recipient of his wisdom and mentorship at many ranks and ages. Jeanie, God Bless and Semper Fidelis.
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
So sorry to hear of the loss of my cousin Harry. I have not seen him in many years, but have many fond memories shared in Mt Vernon NJ at my Uncle Harry's house.

Tommie Maus
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
99 Intruder sent by Col Carr
It is with sadness that I announce the final launch of our squadron mate and friend Colonel Harry Spies. Surrounded by his wife Jeanie and family Harry left us 16 December at Balboa Hospital, CA. Beginning with graduation from the USNA until retirement Harry represented what was the very best in a Marine officer. His leadership ensured success for VMA(AW) 224 and MACG 36 when he was their Commanding Officer. In addition his time at VX 5 was marked by tactical skill as well as leadership in both air and ground. Colonel Harry Spies passing creates a very large hole the the Corps daily muster. Family arrangements will be forthcoming and will be announced in the following link:
God Bless the Spies family and Semper Fi.
Vulture
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
It’s tough to find the right words in a situation like this. I first got to know and appreciate Harry when we worked together at Shee Atika Technologies. Working with Harry was not work, it was fun and invigorating. Harry set the standard for all of us. I was looking forward to further collaboration once he recovered, but very sadly that was not to be. One of the greatest accolades I ever received was to have Harry Spies call me a friend. No prize or award could match that. My heartfelt sympathy goes out his family, as well as my gratitude for sharing Harry with us. My sympathy and best wishes also go out to the team at Power Ten. I’m sure you will carry on Harry’s great work. For me, Harry will continue to guide my actions. Whenever faced with a tough decision, I’ll ask myself “what would Harry do”, because what Harry would do would be the right thing.
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
It was certainly with heavy heart that I learned of Harry's passing. I remember when Harry first checked in to 121. He was immediately identified as one of young new guys to keep an eye on because of his dedication, competence, personality and spirit. Harry and I were flying an A6 one day over the western desert area when we were asked if we would like to do some ACM with a MIG. Of course we said yes and we held our own pretty good in the Intruder. Harry was simply a great Marine officer, NFO and commander who earned the respect of all who knew him. It was an honor to have served with this good man.
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
Very sorry to hear of the loss of my cousin Harry " Little Harry" as we all called him.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.        

Lois Williams
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
My wife and I are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you each and everyday during your hard time.

I have only known Harry for a short time, to begin back in late 2009. At that time, by only fault of my own, I was in a 'rough-spot' but was still granted the privilege to work with harry on the MATSS contract. Without getting in to details, I felt like I couldn't breath because of the position in which I had put myself. 4 years later (present) I have a beautiful wife and 2 wonderful children, own a beautiful home and nice vehicle; the truth is that I would not be in this place if Harry had not given me the opportunity. Harry provided the gateway to not only let me breath again, but he 'let me fly'. 

We (my family) are forever grateful for his life. I will see you soon, Friend, God bless.
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
A classmate a friend and a fellow Marine. Deb and I have missed being with with you and Jeannie. Now we will have to wait until we meet again.      Semper Fi.
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
When told of my cousin's passing, the years when we both were kids seems like it was just yesterday. In the woods, fishing, camping and especially when all the cousins were together, just being kids and enjoying life. It was many years after his dad's passing (Uncle Harry) when Harry and I met again, in the Control Tower at Cherry Point 1976. Two new Marine pilots came to the tower and one Lt. asked this Controller a question. I knew that voice anywhere; without turning around I said, "where have you been Harry". How history repeats itself in strange ways. My Dad and his Dad met and became best of friends in the Marines "G 1/7" WWII; and Dad marring Uncle Harry's sister who also was a Marine. Wish we both more like our fathers, not letting anything to come inbetween to take away those most valuable years as cousins and Marine Brothers. Maybe history will repeat itself again within the family with our daughters; both Officers servng as their fathers and grandfathers did and meet at a Military Base somewhere..... Semper Fi Cousin and have a extra bottle of Rum standing by; (not that home made country cider our fathers claimed it was, they made)
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
Two classic 70's memories of Harry back in VMA(AW)-121 at Cherry Point.
1. Harry flying with the Wing CG (an A-4 pilot) and when they landed the A-6, the CG over rotated past 21 units when aerodynamically breaking the aircraft and scraped the skeg. Sparks went up the main fuel dump ignited the fuel and blew the turtle back off the aircraft just aft of the canopy. Both exited the A-6 running down the wings. Both survived death on that boo-boo but an aircraft accident you say? Heck no but Harry paid dearly in kangaroo court.
2. Both Harry and I were shanghaied by the CO of 121 to race on his boat as impressed crew as we both had extensive experience from racing at USNA. The Skipper was recovering from an operation so he requested the two of us to race his boat or else. We complied and promptly broke the mast, dropping it into the Neuss River. Skipper was none too pleased with his two B/N's as we were explaining that at the foot of his hospital bed.

Harry exemplified "servant leadership" and will be sorely missed. Gone but not forgotten way too soon!
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
I had the great privilege of serving with Harry in VX-5. Great American, great Marine and one of the funniest people I ever knew. His clarity when issues would pop up was almost shocking. I wish I knew him better, but I’m glad I knew him as well as I did.
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
Harry was an incredible mentor and father figure, who took a risk on a girl with no job experience and taught me more about business and life than any Master's program ever could. He brought out the best in people with his strategically brilliant mind and deeply caring heart. He made people feel special and important, even the lowest man on the totem pole. Every meal with Harry was a feast and every story an epic tale. I love you Harry.

Sending my love and sympathy to Jeanie, Brian, Kate and Ali.
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
I will never forget Harry Spies. He was brilliant, selfless and always went out of his way to help his fellow Marines (me included). He improved our Corps' ability to fight. He did his level best to make me a smarter Marine. Very sad to learn of his passing.  Semper Fi, Dog
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
Harry is a model of so much that we all aspire to; loving husband and father, friend, Marine, warrior, the consummate leader, aviator extraordinaire, visionary and down to earth, brilliant and practical, the list is long and inspiring. We all give thanks that he lived and made the world a better place that we were blessed to share for an all too short period of time. Blessings and prayers to Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali. Harry, keep an eye on all of us until we see you again. Semper Fi, Shadow
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
The thing about Harry that stands out most to me is that he had this unique ability to see things in people, and in you, that others didn’t see – often the things that you couldn’t even see in yourself. He saw a potential, and he believed it for you and encouraged you in it until you achieved it. He was a phenomenal mentor for this, and all the reasons others have listed. We were so sad to hear of his passing, and it’s hard to believe anything could have actually gotten Harry Spies, a fighter and optimist to the end. Thanks for sharing him with us Jeanie, Brian, Katie, and Ali! Praying for all of you as Christmas approaches.
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
Harry was a great American in every way. As a fellow Group CO, he brought a wealth of ideas and leadership to our community. And as a fellow WTI, I saw that thought leadership from him at a very early stage. A life well lived - he will be sorely missed.
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of your passing. I remember fondly when we served together in 3dMAW - you were aide to MGen LeBlanc and I was the staff suck ( as you so aptly described my billet). You and Jeanie defined the grace, organization and good humor required of an often thankless task. Say hello to Leo and Mini. S/F shindog
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
Harry, always a clear thinker and planner. A real friend with good advice and he loved the Intruder as did we all. God Bless you and your family. Be with Him and save us who follow a place.

Slick
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
If the significance of a person's life can be measured by how vividly and positively he is remembered by those who came into contact with him, Harry surely had a major impact wherever he went. His brilliant wit and piercing insights were a joy to behold. Harry's commitment to the Corps and her Marines was without bound. We are all poorer for Harry's passing. Kathy and I extend our sympathy and prayers to Jeanie and the family.
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
My colleague and friend, who I will always remember for having wrung every bit of truly living life from the all-too-brief time he spent with us. You set the standard, Harry - we can only hope to honor you by doing the same...
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
Another great Marine who will be guarding the Gates of Heaven. Keep it safe for us all, Harry.
December 19, 2013
December 19, 2013
In June, 1974 Harry saved my life. He was not conscious of it at the time; in fact he was barely conscious at all. Here is the story: I was teaching at the Naval Academy at the time and was the officer rep. of the "Sportsman's Club". We made two attempts to climb Mt. McKinley (Denali) in Alaska and this event happened on the second try. We had little leave time so were climbing faster than we should have been. At about 12,000 ft Harry developed cerebral adema and lapsed into semi-consciousness. I sent the rest of my team on, got Harry packed up, and took him down to 10,500 to await the bush pilot. The weather turned bad and we were two days in a tent until a slight clearing alowed the pilot to land. We were ready but Harry wouldn't get on the plane until I took his pocket knife. The weather was closing in again and the pilot was threatening to leave so I took the knife, put in my wind pants pocket and, saying goodbye, started up the mountain. I won't go into all the details but a couple of days later I fell, alone and unroped, into a cravass. I "jammed" myself between the ice walls and stopped falling about 8 ft down. There was nothing but blackness below and my walls opened out just below me into a huge cavern. Again, to shorten the story, about a half hour later I was starting to shake and weaken; my knife, crampons, anything I could use to extricate myself, were inaccessable in my pack (which miraculously had stuck to a little shelf). Contemplating the darkness below I suddenly remembered Harry's knife which was accessible in my pocket. I took it out, cut steps in the ice and am here to tell about it. Harry does not remember any of this.
We were good friends. On my last day of being CO of VMA(AW)-202, Harry flew in from the west coast for the change of command and was with me drinking wine at the O'Club until midnight. There are not many who reach the level of human being that Harry reached. My life, besides being saved by him, was also greatly enriched. I'll see you on the other side, my friend.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry, this may be your last set of PCS orders but now will join your friend, Mini, who called you a GREAT AMERICAN, and those words only echo all that you have done for our Corps, our Country, and for me especially. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten.
Semper Fidelis, my friend.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
A sad time for all who had the pleasure to know Harry as a Marine and a friend. Jeanie, no words can express how much Bev and I wish you strength as you say goodbye...we can only offer you and the girls our prayers. May he rest in peace and his memories last forever.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Rest in peace Harry, and thanks to the memories you leave behind with your friends, you will be with us in spirit.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
I second the heavy heart. Last year, when I was in the depths of one of the depression cycles of my Bipolarism disease Harry kept sending me E mails telling me to "hang in there". It helped. I knew he had had some medical problems in the past but was not aware of the type and extent. My heart and prayers goes out to Jeannie and Family. Semper Fi. Harry.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
To a wonderful leader! Semper Fi! Col you will be missed. The corps has lost a great man. RIP
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
I can remember when I first went to work for Harry. He flew into Virginia to meet me and take me out to dinner. He made me realize that I wasn't just coming to work for his company, but that I was joining his family. He touched so many lives and always left you with a smile. Rest in Peace, my friend.

He may be gone from our touch, but he will NEVER be gone from our hearts.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry was always able to connect dots that others didn't even know existed -- I appreciated most his creativity in problem solving. Thank you Harry for your significant impact on us all.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
I consider it a gift and an honor to have known Harry. He has been to me a bold and visionary servant Leader, a fiercely Loyal Mentor, and one of the smartest guys I know. He was generous in every way and never without a great idea. (I'm sure Harry gave Bill Blazejowski the idea to take live tuna fish . . . and feed them mayonnaise) Harry, you are missed, but your legacy will live on through those of us lucky enough to have known you.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
I was proud to call Harry a Naval Academy classmate and to have worked with him in the Pentagon. He was a real star there. We were honored to have him with us after our days in uniform at Jaycor and Titan. A great man and one who mattered. I regret never fly fishing with him. Will remember him always.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
A friend, Admiral Bill McRaven, once reminded me of a final scene in the movie "Saving Private Ryan." Ryan now an older man kneeling at a National Cemetery looked up to his wife and asked; have I been a good man? For you see it's not the rank nor money one acquires in their life that's remembered. People remember if you were a good man. Rest assured Harry that you were a "very good man," one that many will remember fondly always. Rest in peace shipmate.........
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
All of below tributes/memories are spot on. In the words of the Gipper after the Challenger tragedy--my old CO/mentor/friend has slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God. Harry impacted many, made us all better and will be sorely missed.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
I'm so glad to have this outlet to collectively share in our loss of a great man. (Kate, good work and thanks!) I already miss him dearly and really wish to have more time with him.

Harry, you are missed because your presence always made a difference. You always made a meaningful contribution. Thank you for being a mentor and a friend to me! My life has been enriched because of you. I know you are in a better place, and I can only hope to see you there. Please put in a good word for me.

Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali: I hope you find comfort in the love and fondness that I and so many have for him. Heaven welcomes those who lived a life that mattered. I'm sure he's there now, embracing us with his love and grace. I look forward to seeing you soon to celebrate him. If I can be of help in any way, please please let me know. Sending hugs & prayers your way.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry was one of my favorite people at Power Ten, Inc,. I feel honored to have known him, and I appreciate so much his leadership, kindness and sense of humor. I am having my parish, Holy Family in Kirkland, WA pray for his soul this Sunday, December 22. Rest in peace, Harry. I will miss you, but I know that you are in a better place.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Thanks for the everything Harry, you were always there with great perspective. Thanks!

See you later!
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry made sense when life didn't. He lived and enjoyed life, and when you were with him, you did too. His passion extended to everything he did, and he willingly shared that passion with everyone who was his friend. Harry was rare. I miss him.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
My first skipper and the man who taught me what inspired leadership is all about. I will miss you. 

My favorite quote...."Hoover, if first class doesn't stop there, we're not going!"
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
It is a sad day for all of us who knew and admired Harry as a Marine, a thinker, a leader, a family man, and a comrade. He was - in fact and deed - a Great American! God Bless and Semper Fidelis.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry was a friend from day one in TBS. For Harry, "Why" we do what we do was always his priority...."what" and "how" were just details that we could work out. His high confidence was founded in his high intellect and skill. I always enjoyed his company, always admired his enthusiasm, and will always be grateful for the opportunity to be counted in the ranks with him.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
I count myself lucky to have known Harry Spies and to have been able to call him my friend. All who knew him are better people as a result. He was always willing and able to respond to any request and his advice was always on target. He will be missed.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
A Leader, who entrusted us to make timely and deliberate decisions. He allowed us to be creative and "think outside of the box". He was always willing to help, if things became challenging. He was a "Giant of a Man", yet personal and compassionate. He inspired each of us, to be our best at all times. I am truly, a better person today, because unlike some, I was fortunate enough to have served with Harry Spies.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry was a dear friend to us all. He always had time for another Marine. Whenever we met, he had a smile, a heartfelt greeting." I'll drink a toast to a fine man and great Marine!! You are missed. Semper Fi Harry, Steve
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry was an exemplary and loyal leader. An encourager. A staunch defender. He was a mentor who dispensed some of my life's most important advice. One of those people on this earth from whom I took comfort because I knew he always had my back if I needed him...and he was that same man for many, many others. I loved him like he was my dad. To say he's sorely missed is an understatement.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry, the news of your passing hit hard. Your passion for excellence, for winning, for service to your Corps has always been admired, particularly by your fellow Marines. Our lives are richer thanks to the likes of Harry Spies.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry Spies...one of the cadre of officers of VMA(AW)-121 that always lived up to our 'Corps creed that "Marines take care of their own"! He was a respected leader but a friend to the "enlisted man". I will remember him well for coaching our squadron's softball team when we kicked everybody's ass and were undefeated during our WestPac tour ('77-78) while stationed in Iwakuni. I never saw him after 1979 until the A-6 reunion at Cherry Point and he treated me like a long, lost friend! He will be missed by all of us but I know I speak for all that we are and will be continued to be blessed for our association and friendship with him. I will not bid you "adieu", sir for I know that in due time we will meet again 'cause we will find "the streets of heaven" guarded by you!!! My sincere sympathies and prayers to your family! Harry Spies..."GREEN KNIGHT, FOREVER"!!!
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
I consider myself very fortunate to have known Harry. Life always took an upturn when you were with Harry. Very thankful for his service to this nation both in uniform and out. He will be remembered always as the decent, salt of the earth person he was - an example of how it should be done.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
A voice from the past. Our thoughts are with our Grande Island roommates family. Good times from the Golden Years. Best S4 Captain in the business. Always got 121 where they needed to go. Pictures added.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Harry was family, he was my brother-in-law and whenever we were able to visit, Harry could be counted on for good conversation, great fun and wonderful food. In the words of one of my daughters, Harry was awesome. Harry will be missed by all in the family. Jean, Brian, Kate, and Ali, we are here for you. Aunt Bonnie
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May 5
A lot of us were thinking of you and your family on your birthday Harry. God bless them and keep them as we all carry on until we see you again. I hope you are not shaking your head at the things we do and asking yourself: "what were / are they thinking?"! Semper Fidelis, Shadow
April 25
April 25
You mentorship and life lessons are still being applied by us that knew and learned from you. Continued thanks. We still talk about you in school circles at work and at the bar. You wouldn't be surprised to hear that the 2024 Marine Aviator of the Year is the son of one of your formal commanders....
S/Fi, Curt
April 25
April 25
Happy Birthday my friend.
You are missed!
We lost a few good Marines who you would know in the past year -
JJ Cuff 5/23
Ken Gardiner 10/23
Jersey Krupp 12/23
Bless them all and their families.
- Trouser
Recent stories

VX-5 Story - Meeting Harry

September 5, 2022
I arrived at VX-5 in the beginning of 1985. Shortly after, I was in the process of getting things squared away and noticed Harry had custody of one my best sources for quick answers. After receiving several unsolicited warnings about Harry, I set off to find him. He was at his desk, head down, poring through some documents when I announced my presence. This is a true rendition of our first conversation.
SS: Hi sir, I'm LT Shuman the new intel guy.
HS: (inaudible)
SS: I'm looking forward to supporting all the projects. 
HS: (murmurs something)
SS: I noticed you have a pub I need. If you need something from it, you can just call me. So, I need the pub back.
HS: No. (he looks me for first time)
However, I prevailed under the proviso that he could have the pub back if he didn't like the support. I kept the pub.
I only found out about our loss today. I feel gutted to be honest. Harry has been gone for a good time now, but in my life only for a day.

With Harry at 3D MAW, '98 to '00

December 23, 2013

I did not have the good fortune to serve with Harry every day untill 1998 when he was the CO of MACG-38 and I was the AWC of the Wing.  I knew of him by reputation from his time and great work at VX-5 and the TSG. From afar, I respectedd and admired him, as did so many of us at MAWTS-1, VX-4, VX-5, VFA-125, and the then emerging Strike University, later to become Naval Strike and Air Warfare Center in Fallon.  We were doing things that still cannot be spoken of outside of a SCIF and Harry, Mini, Drifty, and a small ultra talented group were leading the way and facilitating it all.  There is a photo on this site of the three of them and Snapper, all of whom I know well.  There is more G2 in that one photo than in most large cities and they did more than we'll ever know for the country. There are many reasons that Harry was part of all that, he was just amazing at getting the right things done in the days we were fighting the Cold War.  

I was privleged to work directly with him when he and I were assigned to 3D MAW, me as the AWC and he as the MACG-38 CO.  In those days the Marine Aviation Command and Control System (MACCS) community was very unappreciated and little understood by many Marine aviators, even senior ones, and the vital role of the MACCS agencies and the system as a whole was generally undervalued and sub optimized in the Marine Corps and Joint world.  

One of the memories I have of Harry is how he went after the aviators to turn that around, to energize the community, lift the morale and feelings of belonging and contributing among not only his Marines and Sailors at MACG-38 but in the entire MACCS community.  And he did it as only he could, with his laser-like intellect that understood at an elemental level the most complex and intractable challenges, with his uncanny radar for understanding people, and patience and practiced wisdom steadily applied until really big things happened for the better.  

The Wing was very involved in Operation Southern Watch in Iraq at the time, we planned and executed named operations and Harry and his folks were front and center in it all, changing the way we thought and acted as Marine aviators, as a MACCS, MAGTF warfighters and Joint warfighters.  It created ways of thinking and operating that were transmitted to the future, making our accomplishments in Operation Iraqi Freedom possible and no doubt saved many, many young lives.

And there is more, Harry helped change his world for the better. 

Harry always did the right things, in the right ways, for the right reasons, professionally and personally.  He had an internal GPS for those things that was infallible, like a laser.  It's difficult to write or think about Harry without feeling incredibly sad that he is no longer with us, it is such a loss.  

Here's what I think Harry would tell us about life:

Do the right thing.  Do the right thing.  We don't always know exactly what that is, but we can figure it out.  Figure it out and then do it.

Follow the Golden Rule.

Always do your best.

Never give up.

That's how Harry lived his life.  I'll try harder to do the same.  God bless him and keep him. Shadow

Fly Fishing with Harry

December 21, 2013

Like many of you I have lots of good Harry stories.  One of my favorites is when Harry taught me to fly fish.  As many of you know, Harry loved the outdoors and fly fishing.  He loved its ruggedness, solitude and challenge.  When I traveled with him he often had his Fly Rod with the carry-on luggage even though our trip was fully booked with meetings and we were in suits.  I would joke with him and ask if he was hoping that when our plane “crashed,” it would be near some yet to be discovered world class trout stream.  He would just smile and say, “you never know,” and continue to board.  That was Harry; he never felt opportunity was far away even in the worst of situations. 

Later, I asked Harry if he would teach me to fly fish.  For the uninitiated, that was like asking if he would allow me to take the vows of the fly fishing priesthood.  Or maybe as an adult ask a Major Leaguer to teach you how to play catch.  After some persistence, he finally agreed and off we went to Bishop, CA.   We decided to go in the RV I owned at the time, and we spent hours on the road solving the world’s problems.  All of us who had that one on one time with Harry recognized that you were with someone special.  Not perfect, but someone rare among our friends.  It is those moments and the wisdom of those conversations that I will always remember.

We started to fish surrounded by quickly melting snowflakes most of the day, and caught enough for our supper.  We cooked them over an open fire and then as the temperature dropped with the approach of nightfall, others crawled into their tents. We retreated to the warmth of the RV.   Harry normally would have been one of those dedicated anglers who went to a tent because that was I think, one of the rules of the “priesthood.”   As I prepared some other food, and Harry was enjoying a glass while debriefing the days events, I could tell he was also enjoying the significant contrast to his normal fishing trip accommodations.  I joked with him again and said, I don’t think I have any white wine glasses for the fish.   Harry leaned back in the chair and smiled a smile I will never forget.  He said, you know Paul, I may never go camping again and just laughed.  Harry was fun.    

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