This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Professor Mary Kolawole, 71 years old, born on March 10, 1949, and passed away on February 16, 2021.
She is survived by her loving husband, Professor Deboye Kolawole, daughter Folake Taylor, son Temiloluwa Kolawole, son-in-law Layi Taylor, daughter-in-law Tosin Kolawole, granddaughter Mojolaoluwa Jordan Taylor. She also left behind many sisters and brothers, nieces and nephews, cousins, her step-mom, and many sons and daughters that she “adopted” into the family.
We will remember her forever.
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HOME-GOING CELEBRATION
March 10th:
She is survived by her loving husband, Professor Deboye Kolawole, daughter Folake Taylor, son Temiloluwa Kolawole, son-in-law Layi Taylor, daughter-in-law Tosin Kolawole, granddaughter Mojolaoluwa Jordan Taylor. She also left behind many sisters and brothers, nieces and nephews, cousins, her step-mom, and many sons and daughters that she “adopted” into the family.
We will remember her forever.
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HOME-GOING CELEBRATION
March 10th:
• Prof (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole’s Birthday & Celebration of a fulfilled Life.
• Praise Worship Service at Private Residence in GRA, Ilorin, Kwara State @ 5pm
• Neighbourhood evangelism all day
March 11th:
• Neighbourhood evangelism continued
• Wake Keep/Commendation/Testimonies at UMCA Chapel of Redemption, Gaa Akanbi, Ilorin, Kwara State @ 4pm
March 12th:
• Burial Ceremony at Private Residence in Oko, Kwara State @ 12 noon
• Followed by thanksgiving service at First ECWA Church, Oko-Irese
TRIBUTE TO PROFESSOR EBUN MARY MODUPE KOLAWOLE
Beloved Mummy Kolawole, you were a symbol of love, humility, kindness, and uprightness; an
embodiment of wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Your wise counsels, warm affection,
benevolence, openness, and forthrightness the world will miss greatly.
Meeting you and Daddy Kolawole in 2009 marked a turning point in my life. Your love for God was
contagious. You were filled with zeal and unparallel passion for the things of the kingdom God. You were indeed a pillar in the kingdom.
Mama, you thought me patience, persistence, faith in God and love for Him through our countless
visits and calls to the KWASU project manager concerning building a Chapel on the university campus.
You were never discouraged nor disappointed even when there were reasons to so do. Your drive for
this noble course continued even after you left the service of the university. Your patience, persistence
and faith paid off eventually. Through your effort Mama, the Lord gave us more than we requested
for. The entire KWASU Christian Community will forever be grateful to God for your contributions
toward the growth and development of the Fellowship.
Mummy you were a Prophetess. I will miss your words and acts of encouragements beyond words. I
recall a day in December 2017, that I was dejected. I felt used, abandoned, and uncared for. This I did not discuss with anyone, not even my wife. Alas! Your call came through. You requested that I see you that evening and I did. Lo and behold God proved to me that He does care about me as you deliver to me what the Lord laid in your heart for me and His Church under my watch. That act of yours Ma
changed my perspective of God till date.
To Daddy Kolawole, our prayers are with you at this time more than ever before. Your Daughter
Oluwakemi, and grandchildren, Nathan, Dorcas, and Lois all take solace in the assurance that Mama
is resting at the bosom of our Lord Jesus.
Adieu Professor Ebun Mary Modupe Kolawole, a great woman of faith and passion.
From
Sunday Ojo, Ph.D
Ag. Director,
Centre for Technical, Vocational and Entrepreneurship Training, and
Assistant Chaplain, KWASU Christian Community,
Kwara State University, Malete.
Beloved Mummy Kolawole, you were a symbol of love, humility, kindness, and uprightness; an
embodiment of wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Your wise counsels, warm affection,
benevolence, openness, and forthrightness the world will miss greatly.
Meeting you and Daddy Kolawole in 2009 marked a turning point in my life. Your love for God was
contagious. You were filled with zeal and unparallel passion for the things of the kingdom God. You were indeed a pillar in the kingdom.
Mama, you thought me patience, persistence, faith in God and love for Him through our countless
visits and calls to the KWASU project manager concerning building a Chapel on the university campus.
You were never discouraged nor disappointed even when there were reasons to so do. Your drive for
this noble course continued even after you left the service of the university. Your patience, persistence
and faith paid off eventually. Through your effort Mama, the Lord gave us more than we requested
for. The entire KWASU Christian Community will forever be grateful to God for your contributions
toward the growth and development of the Fellowship.
Mummy you were a Prophetess. I will miss your words and acts of encouragements beyond words. I
recall a day in December 2017, that I was dejected. I felt used, abandoned, and uncared for. This I did not discuss with anyone, not even my wife. Alas! Your call came through. You requested that I see you that evening and I did. Lo and behold God proved to me that He does care about me as you deliver to me what the Lord laid in your heart for me and His Church under my watch. That act of yours Ma
changed my perspective of God till date.
To Daddy Kolawole, our prayers are with you at this time more than ever before. Your Daughter
Oluwakemi, and grandchildren, Nathan, Dorcas, and Lois all take solace in the assurance that Mama
is resting at the bosom of our Lord Jesus.
Adieu Professor Ebun Mary Modupe Kolawole, a great woman of faith and passion.
From
Sunday Ojo, Ph.D
Ag. Director,
Centre for Technical, Vocational and Entrepreneurship Training, and
Assistant Chaplain, KWASU Christian Community,
Kwara State University, Malete.
You led me to the Lord at an FGBMFI meeting at that hotel directly opposite the main university gates in Ife, on September 26, 1986. My life changed forever. I bless God at every remembrance of you and will love you forever for this. Rest well, Mummy. You deserve it. By God's grace, we will reign with Jesus in eternity. Love you forever.
Tribute to a Lover of Widows and Orphans,
A Member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees,
An African Womanist
On February 16, 2021, we Lost a founding member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees, a lover of widows and orphans, and an African Womanist; Professor (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole.
Since November 16, 2017 when the Foundation was officially registered by the Corporate Affairs Commission with Professor Mary Kolawole and her husband as members of the 9-man Board of Trustees, she has actively participated in the activities of the Foundation, giving hope and courage to the widows and orphans.
Professor Mary Kolawole never missed any of the quarterly empowerment and thanksgiving programmes of the MAWO Foundation that humbly started in 2017 with just 21 widows, and now has over 700 registered widows and 40 orphans in its fold.
Late Professor Mary Kolawole has been a source of inspiration to the Founder, Board, Management and the entire members of the MAWO Foundation. We will miss her motherly support and contributions dearly.
We all love her, but the Lord love her most.
Adieu our MAWOF Mama.
From All of Us at MAWO Foundation.
Muritala Awodun, PhD
MAWOF Founder
www.mawofoundation.com
A Member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees,
An African Womanist
On February 16, 2021, we Lost a founding member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees, a lover of widows and orphans, and an African Womanist; Professor (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole.
Since November 16, 2017 when the Foundation was officially registered by the Corporate Affairs Commission with Professor Mary Kolawole and her husband as members of the 9-man Board of Trustees, she has actively participated in the activities of the Foundation, giving hope and courage to the widows and orphans.
Professor Mary Kolawole never missed any of the quarterly empowerment and thanksgiving programmes of the MAWO Foundation that humbly started in 2017 with just 21 widows, and now has over 700 registered widows and 40 orphans in its fold.
Late Professor Mary Kolawole has been a source of inspiration to the Founder, Board, Management and the entire members of the MAWO Foundation. We will miss her motherly support and contributions dearly.
We all love her, but the Lord love her most.
Adieu our MAWOF Mama.
From All of Us at MAWO Foundation.
Muritala Awodun, PhD
MAWOF Founder
www.mawofoundation.com
We thank God for a life well spent of a beloved mother ( Professor Mrs Mary Kolawole). We are so much comforted in the Lord because they that transit in the Lord do not die, they live forever in our hearts until we meet at His feet. I believe mummy is singing with the Angels in heaven. Accept my condolence . Rest on mummy.
On February 16, 202 1, a beautiful butterfly flew up into the clouds and beyond. Professor Mary Kolawole you were a woman of excellence, a woman of substance ,and most importantly and most importantly, a woman of God.. I will always cherish the memory of your gentleness and soft soothing voice. Continue to rest in the bosom of the lord until we meet to part no more - Dr. (Mrs) Taiye Olubuyide
May God comfort the family and friends she left behind..
Her numerous works and contributions to humanity speakvolumes and that will be enough to make her memory lingers in our hearts.
Mama lived a wonderful life
Her numerous works and contributions to humanity speakvolumes and that will be enough to make her memory lingers in our hearts.
Mama lived a wonderful life
I remember Prof. MEM Kolawole with fondness. She was one of those lecturers I admired as an undergraduate at OAU, Ile-Ife. She was more than a lecturer; she was a teacher, mother and friend. When my colleagues and I concluded our programme in 2001, 'Mama' as we called her then invited us to a buffet at her place. I mean, who does that?
I know that her legacy lives on. I pray for the repose of her soul and the well-being of those she's left behind.
Goodnight, ma'am; see you on resurrection morning!
I know that her legacy lives on. I pray for the repose of her soul and the well-being of those she's left behind.
Goodnight, ma'am; see you on resurrection morning!
May your gentle soul continue to rest in peace Prof MEM Kolawole. My thoughts and prayers are with the family she left behind.
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be
so he put his arms around you and whispered,
“Come to Me”
With tearful eyes we watched you
and saw you pass away
and although we love you dearly
we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating
hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
My Darling Grandma, we will forever hold in our hearts in which we have truly learned the most from,
Your strength as a wonderful mother to our mothers and fathers,
And which we hope to gain in raising your great grandsons and great granddaughters.
For you will be truly missed and remembered for your love and honor in which we will preserve.
so he put his arms around you and whispered,
“Come to Me”
With tearful eyes we watched you
and saw you pass away
and although we love you dearly
we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating
hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
My Darling Grandma, we will forever hold in our hearts in which we have truly learned the most from,
Your strength as a wonderful mother to our mothers and fathers,
And which we hope to gain in raising your great grandsons and great granddaughters.
For you will be truly missed and remembered for your love and honor in which we will preserve.
ADIEU MARY.
Adieu to a gem, a friend , a sister, classmate, and devout Christian. The news of your passing came to me as a shock!!! But who are we to question God, our creator? We never understand HIS working, we taken solace in the fact that you have gone to REST. You will greatly be missed! I will miss the Bible quotes and passages followed by prayers you sent to me every morning I wake up to read. I will miss sending you prayers also every morning you wake up to read. I noticed you did not read the prayers I sent to you on the day of your passing to glory, but I know that my prayers went with you. Sun ree o dear one.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace and may God comfort and be with your loved ones you left behind.
Adieu my friend I will miss you. I will remember you.
You will forever be missed.
Anike Lawal Adesokan.
Adieu to a gem, a friend , a sister, classmate, and devout Christian. The news of your passing came to me as a shock!!! But who are we to question God, our creator? We never understand HIS working, we taken solace in the fact that you have gone to REST. You will greatly be missed! I will miss the Bible quotes and passages followed by prayers you sent to me every morning I wake up to read. I will miss sending you prayers also every morning you wake up to read. I noticed you did not read the prayers I sent to you on the day of your passing to glory, but I know that my prayers went with you. Sun ree o dear one.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace and may God comfort and be with your loved ones you left behind.
Adieu my friend I will miss you. I will remember you.
You will forever be missed.
Anike Lawal Adesokan.
Wow! What an amazing woman of God! Folake, I read your tribute and it was so powerful! Im deeply sorry for your loss but I know her beautiful, strong spirit lives on through you and your children. She touched so many people and you are blessed in so many ways. I pray her soul continues to rest with our Lord and that God grants you and the rest of the family the strength and comfort you need! May God protect and comfort you.
Professor Mary Kolawole allowed God to use her in my every memorable encounters. From her days at the College of Tech, to her daily Bible text encouragements, God used her to touch my life. When I expressed my need for her daily text of encouragements (not knowing it was our last encounter), she responded gracefully as always posting this for me on December 29, 2020:
Luke: 12:29: "The Lord will provide all our needs according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Amen. Hallelujaj. SHALOM.
Prof. M.E.M. Kolawole.
That was her last post in response to my request. Oh what a blessing; oh, what an encouragement! May her encouraging words to me be the portion of the loved ones she left behind. I thank God for allowing me to experience her love, smile, wisdom, and her Godly character. Rest in peace, Prof until resurrection morning.
Luke: 12:29: "The Lord will provide all our needs according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Amen. Hallelujaj. SHALOM.
Prof. M.E.M. Kolawole.
That was her last post in response to my request. Oh what a blessing; oh, what an encouragement! May her encouraging words to me be the portion of the loved ones she left behind. I thank God for allowing me to experience her love, smile, wisdom, and her Godly character. Rest in peace, Prof until resurrection morning.
We were lucky enough to get to share several evenings and visits with Mary and Deboya when they were here staying with Folake and her family. It was such a treasure to get to know this wonderful, talented woman and her family whom are just like her! It makes me sad to know those times will not come again .... but feeling blessed that we have been fortunate enough that our paths merged for a while. She will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to all the family.❤️
The news of your passing came as a shock. It was so sudden. Just last year, I was at your house where I spent some time discussing with you, Daddy Kolawole, and Temi. I never knew that would be the last time I would see you. Kwara and indeed Nigeria and Africa have lost one of the best female professors of African literature and gender studies. We will all miss you but we are comforted by the fact that you are in a better place. R.I.P Mummy Kolawole.
Mama Kolawole,
I cannot imagine writing about you in the past tense. You remain ever present as I look back to what you are to me. You are a gem. A phenomenon so phenomenal!
Apart from being an intellectual role model, you are forever a career muse. You are a legend who bestrides my path in many indelible ways.
I love you like several others who encounter you.
From being my B.A long essay Supervisor, you have been God sent.
I wish you safe travels. May your special soul rest peacefully in the Lord's bossom.
I cannot imagine writing about you in the past tense. You remain ever present as I look back to what you are to me. You are a gem. A phenomenon so phenomenal!
Apart from being an intellectual role model, you are forever a career muse. You are a legend who bestrides my path in many indelible ways.
I love you like several others who encounter you.
From being my B.A long essay Supervisor, you have been God sent.
I wish you safe travels. May your special soul rest peacefully in the Lord's bossom.
A tribute to Professor Mrs Mary Kolawole
Precious woman of God.
Beautiful in spirit, soul and body.
A mother indeed to many.
You will be greatly missed.
Rest in peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ mummy till the glory dawn.
Precious woman of God.
Beautiful in spirit, soul and body.
A mother indeed to many.
You will be greatly missed.
Rest in peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ mummy till the glory dawn.
I just can’t believe that you are no more with us physically.
I admired you the first day we met in my office in OAU, Ile-Ife . Since then we became friends and later neighbours. We used to enjoy the fellowship held in your house every week and the way you shared the word of God with ease and joy. I remember your smiles, the tambourine in your hands and the way you used to dance and jump when singing the song " JEHOVAH YOU ARE THE MOST HIGH, YOU ARE THE MOST HIGH GOD."
You were the Godmother of two of my children and you played a prominent role during the marriage of one of them in Ilorin.
You really touched many lives positively and won many souls for Christ. You had an excellent and peaceful spirit which can never be forgotten.
May the Lord comfort your family and grant you eternal rest.
I admired you the first day we met in my office in OAU, Ile-Ife . Since then we became friends and later neighbours. We used to enjoy the fellowship held in your house every week and the way you shared the word of God with ease and joy. I remember your smiles, the tambourine in your hands and the way you used to dance and jump when singing the song " JEHOVAH YOU ARE THE MOST HIGH, YOU ARE THE MOST HIGH GOD."
You were the Godmother of two of my children and you played a prominent role during the marriage of one of them in Ilorin.
You really touched many lives positively and won many souls for Christ. You had an excellent and peaceful spirit which can never be forgotten.
May the Lord comfort your family and grant you eternal rest.
Mummy, wonderful mummy. Going down memory lane, I remember when I was brought to you, less than 10 years old, you took me in as your daughter. You took the role of my mum, molding and making me to be who I am today.
1. When I was to be enrolled in Primary School, I was asked to repeat the previous class but mummy refused and asked them to put me in the next class. She believed that I'll perform well. She tutored me in English privately while doing chores. This helped me with my written and spoken English and affected my overall performance positively.
2. In 1983, you brought God into your home. Through you actions, I became a beneficiary of the touch of God. Your actions lead to my salvation and baptism in the Holy Spirit. Your actions lead to the revival that broke out in University of Ife staff quarters (road 14) where many youths and families where converted to Christ. This lead to Tuesday evening house fellowship.
3. Mummy embedded in me, qualities and virtues of life. Mummy was very accommodating, caring and loving. These are the qualities she also impacted in me.
Mummy, in 1990 I wrote to you, appreciating you for the opportunity I had to live with you. Today, I am saying it again. Mummy, I truly appreciate you for making me who I am today. I am forever grateful. Rest on Mummy. Your works follow after you
1. When I was to be enrolled in Primary School, I was asked to repeat the previous class but mummy refused and asked them to put me in the next class. She believed that I'll perform well. She tutored me in English privately while doing chores. This helped me with my written and spoken English and affected my overall performance positively.
2. In 1983, you brought God into your home. Through you actions, I became a beneficiary of the touch of God. Your actions lead to my salvation and baptism in the Holy Spirit. Your actions lead to the revival that broke out in University of Ife staff quarters (road 14) where many youths and families where converted to Christ. This lead to Tuesday evening house fellowship.
3. Mummy embedded in me, qualities and virtues of life. Mummy was very accommodating, caring and loving. These are the qualities she also impacted in me.
Mummy, in 1990 I wrote to you, appreciating you for the opportunity I had to live with you. Today, I am saying it again. Mummy, I truly appreciate you for making me who I am today. I am forever grateful. Rest on Mummy. Your works follow after you
My Anti, Mummy, Mentor, Confidant, Wife, Spiritual warrior, Adviser,, and myyyyyyyyyyy till we meet to part no more in the kingdom of our lord and savior Jesus Christ. This space is not enough to express who you are and meant to me.
1. You took me, a niece in law as your first daughter when you came back from Britain in 1974, even when you never seen or known me before then.
2. You did not treat me as a niece in law but built me up with strong faith in our Lord and savior Jesus Christ, quality moral standards, integrity, honesty, and respect for other human beings.
3. Hah Mummy, my Grandma raised me from my childhood to late teenage age, but you raised me from then till the last time we talked in january 2021.
4. Your soft voice always assured me that I am a woman of God and that I must continue to show the glory of God no matter what life situations throw at me.
5. The impacts of your regular prophetic prayers that you pour on me every time we met or on the phone are unimaginable.
6. I will always remember your words: Titi, this situation is not about you o, it's about God and salvation of souls. Just continue to be who God made you to be like blessed memory of my blood mother used to say too.
7. Mummy, you taught me to be a virtuous woman for my family, profession, and in the body of Christ and that I should know that all rewards come from God.
8. The impacts you made in different areas of my life are immeasurable and unforgettable. By the Grace and mercy of our Lord,
9. While I am still in a state of shock, I could hear your soft voice telling me to get up and continue to be the victorius woman God has made me to be for His glory and honor.,
10. I will continue to hold on to your words of advise and inspiration till we meet again in the kingdom of our Lord God Almighty. Good night for now, my Amazing Mummy.
1. You took me, a niece in law as your first daughter when you came back from Britain in 1974, even when you never seen or known me before then.
2. You did not treat me as a niece in law but built me up with strong faith in our Lord and savior Jesus Christ, quality moral standards, integrity, honesty, and respect for other human beings.
3. Hah Mummy, my Grandma raised me from my childhood to late teenage age, but you raised me from then till the last time we talked in january 2021.
4. Your soft voice always assured me that I am a woman of God and that I must continue to show the glory of God no matter what life situations throw at me.
5. The impacts of your regular prophetic prayers that you pour on me every time we met or on the phone are unimaginable.
6. I will always remember your words: Titi, this situation is not about you o, it's about God and salvation of souls. Just continue to be who God made you to be like blessed memory of my blood mother used to say too.
7. Mummy, you taught me to be a virtuous woman for my family, profession, and in the body of Christ and that I should know that all rewards come from God.
8. The impacts you made in different areas of my life are immeasurable and unforgettable. By the Grace and mercy of our Lord,
9. While I am still in a state of shock, I could hear your soft voice telling me to get up and continue to be the victorius woman God has made me to be for His glory and honor.,
10. I will continue to hold on to your words of advise and inspiration till we meet again in the kingdom of our Lord God Almighty. Good night for now, my Amazing Mummy.
Professor Kolawole had such a warm, kind, iridescent personality. She was always smiling and ready to offer assistance or expatiate on a topic that needed clarification.
As her student in my days at OAU Ife, I looked up to her and wanted to be like her; an academician brimming with knowledge.
I’m sure she lived a long, full life as evidenced by the tributes and memories shared here. I pray that God almighty comfort her family and all those she left behind.
Adieu ma!
As her student in my days at OAU Ife, I looked up to her and wanted to be like her; an academician brimming with knowledge.
I’m sure she lived a long, full life as evidenced by the tributes and memories shared here. I pray that God almighty comfort her family and all those she left behind.
Adieu ma!
She was a soft spoken, amiable yet firm lecturer. She supervised my undergraduate project on Alice Walker's The Color Purple and introduced me to the concept of Womanism. I still remember her warm personality. May her family and loved ones be comforted.
Seeing news of her death made me remember the words of John Donne in his poem, Death be not proud, taught to me by Professor Wole Ogundele, who has gone to rest too:
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou are not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou'art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy'or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally,
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
Adieu Professor Mary Kolawole.
Seeing news of her death made me remember the words of John Donne in his poem, Death be not proud, taught to me by Professor Wole Ogundele, who has gone to rest too:
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou are not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou'art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy'or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally,
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
Adieu Professor Mary Kolawole.
Mama, as we her students at Great Ife fondly called her, was motherly in every sense. She was simple, peaceful, loving, cheerful and caring. She was more than a lecturer. She was indeed a mother. May your soul find perfect rest with your maker. Good night, Mama.
Posting for Dr. Bolanle Oyerinde.
Mummy as I fondly called her, a daughter of the Most High God, a loving and supportive wife, a doting mother and grandmother. An erudite scholar, a Professor of professors, a woman of integrity.
One thing that stood out to me about mummy is the fact that she spoke her mind always. She never straddled the fence. You always knew where she stood on issues, and she spoke her mind fearlessly.
You’re gone too soon and you will be forever missed.
One of your many daughters,
Dr. Bolanle Oyerinde
Mummy as I fondly called her, a daughter of the Most High God, a loving and supportive wife, a doting mother and grandmother. An erudite scholar, a Professor of professors, a woman of integrity.
One thing that stood out to me about mummy is the fact that she spoke her mind always. She never straddled the fence. You always knew where she stood on issues, and she spoke her mind fearlessly.
You’re gone too soon and you will be forever missed.
One of your many daughters,
Dr. Bolanle Oyerinde
Sometimes ago in 1979, I went on a visit to a family of 3 at the then Kwara State College of Technology, Ilorin. (now Kwara State Polytechnic, Ilorin). On getting to the house, I counted about 13 people living in that house. These are people from daddy's and mummy's relations. "Go and put your bag in the room", mummy said but I told her that I was asked to deliver a message and that I don't have the intention to stay, which of course was a lie. That is the kind of woman Prof. (Mrs.) M. E. Kolawole was. Always accommodating.
That's one of the reasons why I always see her as an Angel among men. Rest on mummy, you're alive in our hearts...
That's one of the reasons why I always see her as an Angel among men. Rest on mummy, you're alive in our hearts...
A tribute from Elder Umoh;
A mother who gave and never once asked for anything in return. That is her secret you know; always giving without exceptions. She is as constant as the sunrise, the moon, the stars and I count on her. She helps me find my way through the years and makes me laugh while doing it. There are some things that only a mother can do.
A mother who gave and never once asked for anything in return. That is her secret you know; always giving without exceptions. She is as constant as the sunrise, the moon, the stars and I count on her. She helps me find my way through the years and makes me laugh while doing it. There are some things that only a mother can do.
Aunty, your life was a treasure to all of us. Your smiles, verve, and exuberant love for God simply lit up every space. Seeing and hearing the way in which the life of God knit you and uncle together and reflected in your home was such a testimony to me.
When years later, I started teaching here in the States, I became one of those who used and still uses excerpts from your book "womanism and African consciousness" to stir up debate and engage your ideas. You left glorious footprints on all our lives. May God's comfort encourage uncle, Folake and Temi and their families as they come to terms with your passing onto be with the Lord.
When years later, I started teaching here in the States, I became one of those who used and still uses excerpts from your book "womanism and African consciousness" to stir up debate and engage your ideas. You left glorious footprints on all our lives. May God's comfort encourage uncle, Folake and Temi and their families as they come to terms with your passing onto be with the Lord.
TRIBUTE TO PROFESSOR MARY EBUN MODUPE KOLAWOLE
(1949-2021)
The news of your transformation got to us last week
And we suddenly faced the reality that you no longer dwell with us but among the Saints
Where your new duty is to sing worship songs to the King of Kings
Your final place of rest and everlasting abode
We would have been in sorrow but we have sweet memories of your time here
The radiance of excellence in everything you touched
We can say in confidence that you fought a good fight and kept the faith
As received from the patriarch of our faith
Excellence is the word for your academic exploit
Beautiful is the word for your heart
Discipline is the word for your conduct
Love is the word for your relationship with others
Knowledge is what you gave to your students and the human race
Companionship is what you gave to our Daddy, your husband
Morals is what is what you taught your children and their families
Comfort is what you gave to all family members and friends
Humility is what your spirit radiates
Virtuous woman was the first impression of your personality
And the standard which you raised
Was a guide as we continued to grow
I told my friend how proud she should be for having a mother like you
I know you are accomplished seeing how far your effort has brought her
I told her even though we will all miss you
We will not mourn like unbeliever because of the type of life you lived
Adieu Mummy, continue to worship with the saints
And when the saints go marching in on the last day
Your joy will know no bound
When you see the lives you touched in the roll call
Prof Nicholas Akinwale TITILOYE
Department of Pathology
School of Medicine and Dentistry
Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology
Kumasi. Ghana
(Folake’s friend and classmate)
(1949-2021)
The news of your transformation got to us last week
And we suddenly faced the reality that you no longer dwell with us but among the Saints
Where your new duty is to sing worship songs to the King of Kings
Your final place of rest and everlasting abode
We would have been in sorrow but we have sweet memories of your time here
The radiance of excellence in everything you touched
We can say in confidence that you fought a good fight and kept the faith
As received from the patriarch of our faith
Excellence is the word for your academic exploit
Beautiful is the word for your heart
Discipline is the word for your conduct
Love is the word for your relationship with others
Knowledge is what you gave to your students and the human race
Companionship is what you gave to our Daddy, your husband
Morals is what is what you taught your children and their families
Comfort is what you gave to all family members and friends
Humility is what your spirit radiates
Virtuous woman was the first impression of your personality
And the standard which you raised
Was a guide as we continued to grow
I told my friend how proud she should be for having a mother like you
I know you are accomplished seeing how far your effort has brought her
I told her even though we will all miss you
We will not mourn like unbeliever because of the type of life you lived
Adieu Mummy, continue to worship with the saints
And when the saints go marching in on the last day
Your joy will know no bound
When you see the lives you touched in the roll call
Prof Nicholas Akinwale TITILOYE
Department of Pathology
School of Medicine and Dentistry
Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology
Kumasi. Ghana
(Folake’s friend and classmate)
Mommy Flakky the joy you brought us will never end, pictures of you on Facebook said it all. Always smiling, I hope life is better where you are now. You will be missed.
Mummy, this really came as a rude shock when I heard the news from Folake. I just assumed that you will always be around with that smile and beautiful demeanor. It was always awesome seeing you and Daddy together smiling and ever so pleasant. May you Rest In Peace Ma.
Dear Mummy, this news has come as a rude shock to many of us but Baba God knows best.
Mummy you always had a warm smile for everyone... you were beautiful inside and out. You and Daddy were exemplary in your faith, dedication and love for each other. You were mentors to so many of us knowly and unknowingly.
Thank you mummy for giving to the Lord, for sharing your heart with us young as we were in those days. Your legacy lives on through us all.
Adieu Mummy Kolawole, till we meet again at Jesus' feet.
Mummy you always had a warm smile for everyone... you were beautiful inside and out. You and Daddy were exemplary in your faith, dedication and love for each other. You were mentors to so many of us knowly and unknowingly.
Thank you mummy for giving to the Lord, for sharing your heart with us young as we were in those days. Your legacy lives on through us all.
Adieu Mummy Kolawole, till we meet again at Jesus' feet.
Prof Mrs Kolawole's family and mine were neighbours for many years at the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife. We shared the words of God weekly in her house. Her contributions were unique and filled with the Holy Spirit. She was gentle even in the face of extremely provocative situations. She would go to God in praying instead of complaining. She was one of the two people I have ever described as PERFECT. God knows best.
Prof Abraham A. Jibowo
Prof Abraham A. Jibowo
I still have fond and vivid memories of mom’s smiling face. Her home was open in fellowship to all of us young people. She was kind and never gave up on any of us. May her soul Rest In Peace with the Lord. May God comfort and strengthen the family.
I met Prof Mary Ebun Kolawole for the first time in 2016. I watched her walked in slowly and steadily, dressed in a white Jacket and a flowing skirt Into the KW-IRS training room on that particular morning. It was a detailed session which left an indelible mark on the then Management Team of the Service and for me marked the beginning of a secret admiration for this highly intelligent and very detailed personality. A very soft spoken woman, with a large heart and always full of smiles, Prof. Kolawole had a prayer for everyone and the few times I had with her she always had a prayer for me. Mama was a great woman whose contributions cannot be pushed aside. Her legacy definitely lives on, the many lives and homes she imparted and her contributions to the academia are proofs that a great Personality once passed here. She is fondly remembered and will be missed. May your soul Rest In Peace.
From the early days she spent with us in Roswell, she shared her gift of songs with Jordan. She was our strength and support as she provided us with her words of wisdom on raising our darling Jordan. She was so helpful with her gift of words & songs and we will always remember.
Losing our mother has been painful but we take solace in the fact that she left us with her glorious memories, words & songs.
She sacrificed so much to be with us and we will forever be grateful. We will forever cherish the moments, the love, the support, the guidance and the words & songs............
Forever in our hearts
Layi
Losing our mother has been painful but we take solace in the fact that she left us with her glorious memories, words & songs.
She sacrificed so much to be with us and we will forever be grateful. We will forever cherish the moments, the love, the support, the guidance and the words & songs............
Forever in our hearts
Layi
Aunty, Mrs Kolawole, was so graceful and gentle. Knowing her when I was still a teenager, there was no doubt she loved Jesus deeply. She was one of those people you didn't want to be near when you had just sinned; you had a strong feeling Jesus would tell her. She wanted to see us love Jesus, and so she would talk to us young girls, pray with us... I looked up to her and her kind while growing up. Quintessential. Classy. Intelligent. And sold out to Jesus. That was Aunty.
My heart goes out to the family- Uncle, Folake and Temi. May the Lord keep and strengthen you. May He flood your hearts with beautiful memories that make you grateful for knowing her. May His comfort uphold you through this trying period. Grace to the entire family in Jesus mighty Name.
Rest in the bosom of your Lover and Savior, Ma.
My heart goes out to the family- Uncle, Folake and Temi. May the Lord keep and strengthen you. May He flood your hearts with beautiful memories that make you grateful for knowing her. May His comfort uphold you through this trying period. Grace to the entire family in Jesus mighty Name.
Rest in the bosom of your Lover and Savior, Ma.
So sorry to hear of this.
My former lecturer, Year 1991...
Also a long standing member of Full Gospel to which I to was a member.
My heart felt sympathy goes to all the family esp. Prof Kolawole...
Love Mary, Manchester England.
My former lecturer, Year 1991...
Also a long standing member of Full Gospel to which I to was a member.
My heart felt sympathy goes to all the family esp. Prof Kolawole...
Love Mary, Manchester England.
Mrs Kolawole or Folake's mum as I referred to her, was one of the older christians on the OAU Ile-ife staff quarters that I can say mentored me (us) as a young christian(s). Apart from the obvious "Folake's mum", my mum took to her and Folake's dad, as such my first close interaction stemmed from this. My mum came home one day and said you are starting after school private coaching classes at the Kolawole's. There was just four of us: Folake, Dupe, Kemi and Bola. She was a firm and loving host during that time and it laid the foundation for my relationship with her and Folake's dad years later as I became a committed believer and they on the other hand became one of my older sounding boards for all and anything pertaining especially to the All souls chapel youth fellowship. It was a blessing knowing her.
Prof.M.E.M Kolawole was a great friend of our family and we used to attend Tuesday fellowship together back in Ife. When my Dad passed away in 2012 she was visiting Texas for a program and was able to attend the church service on the day of his funeral. While my dad's pictures was projected to the screen and his biography was being read I got emotional and was about to start tearing up when a quick glance at Mummy Kolawole's face stopped the tears from flowing down as she motioned with facial expressions for me to "remain strong ". She was a true Mother and daughter of the most HIGH.
Rest in peace until the resurrection of the righteous.
Rest in peace until the resurrection of the righteous.
Our distinguished and erudite Professor and Mummy, thank you for blazing the trail for us as women in academia. Your legacy lives on and shines through your daughter, Folake, and granddaughter, Jordan. E sun re oh.
Professor Mary Kolawole: an approachable, accommodating, erudite and motherly human being.
May God grant her gentle soul eternal rest.
May God grant her gentle soul eternal rest.
Professor MEM Kolawole was a wonderful lady! She was a “mother” to me. She encouraged me and motivated me in English literature, which resulted in my becoming a professor today. She also taught me many life principles by drawing from her own experiences! I have been depressed since I heard of her passing! My selfless mama, worthy mentor, erudite scholar!
May the good Lord grant her sweetheart and life partner - daddy Kolawole, her real children, all other members of the families and all of us her students and “children”, the fortitude to bear the pains of the moment and the irreparable loss of a mother and super icon.
May she rest in perfect peace, and may her memory be a blessing to all she left behind!!!
"Your memory is my keepsake,
With which we'll never part.
God has you in his keeping,
I have you in my heart."
- Bonnie Dodd
By
Professor Kolawole Waziri Olagboyega.
May the good Lord grant her sweetheart and life partner - daddy Kolawole, her real children, all other members of the families and all of us her students and “children”, the fortitude to bear the pains of the moment and the irreparable loss of a mother and super icon.
May she rest in perfect peace, and may her memory be a blessing to all she left behind!!!
"Your memory is my keepsake,
With which we'll never part.
God has you in his keeping,
I have you in my heart."
- Bonnie Dodd
By
Professor Kolawole Waziri Olagboyega.
Our loss is indeed heaven's gain!
The one thing that comes to my mind when I remember you is your gentle spirit. You sure are an embodiment of Christian character and virtue.
You were not just a friend to my mum but a sister indeed!
Trusting God to comfort and strengthen the entire family you have left behind.
Rest on in the bosom of your saviour who you loved so very much!
Funso Olarinde (nee Aladekomo)
The one thing that comes to my mind when I remember you is your gentle spirit. You sure are an embodiment of Christian character and virtue.
You were not just a friend to my mum but a sister indeed!
Trusting God to comfort and strengthen the entire family you have left behind.
Rest on in the bosom of your saviour who you loved so very much!
Funso Olarinde (nee Aladekomo)
The soul with pure heart ,who always want good thing for others who was there for us people when she was needed, your contribution,to our life can never be forgotten Rest in peace mama we will miss you love you ma.
Farewell, Professor Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole, the teacher who opened our eyes to the endless opportunities in studying English and/or Literature-in-English. In her words in the interview I conducted as the Editor-in-Chief of 'The Fount' Magazine, a publication of Awovarsity Literary and English Studies Society (AVLESS), Department of English, Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife in 2000, she said 'English Studies is professional'. Till date, I have had no regret studying it in the university. Besides being our teacher, she related with us like a mother. I will never forget how she hosted us after our final exam at her official quarters. It was a feast! Teaching to her was a ministry. She ministered to our bodies, spirits and souls! Indubitably, she came, she saw and she conquered. You will forever remain in our memories! Good night, Mama!
Huuuuuuu, what an irreparable lost to the world of virtuous women My mother, mentor the one who taught me how to be a supportive wife, how to bring up godly children, who taught me to be a goal getter. I can't forget your role in the choice of my life partner. With your blessed hands you carried my first daughter on her christening day (who is now a medical doctor at 22years) Aunty Mary as you are popularly known and called your life was full of love and always teaching and impacting knowledge to all that comes your way. Indeed your memory will ever be fresh. You are loved by Kayode your son-in-law and your grand children: Dr. Torera, Barr. Seeke, Ninla and Dara.
Sun re oooo iya mi owon. Till we meet to part no more at the feet of our Lord Jesus. I promise to keep your teachings in my heart and be a good mother
Sun re oooo iya mi owon. Till we meet to part no more at the feet of our Lord Jesus. I promise to keep your teachings in my heart and be a good mother
Mommy always had a smile on her face. She always had wonderful words of encouragement. She modeled what a perfect mother and wife should be. A sage. Mother to all of us, quarters kids. Best of friends with my mother. An amazing family friend to have. The world just lost a gem. Heaven just gained a saint. Rest In Peace, mommy.
So many memories have flooded my mind from my childhood, from the house on Road 14 when I would just walk across to come play with Temi, to the house on Road 13, and all the great times growing up with parents like you to look up to..Thank you for always dropping me off at home after school, I wouldn't even ask, I'd just hop in the car because you were my mummy too :)
You will be sorely missed. I pray for strength and comfort for the whole family. We love you dearly! Goodnight mama! Rest in God's arms.
You will be sorely missed. I pray for strength and comfort for the whole family. We love you dearly! Goodnight mama! Rest in God's arms.
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TRIBUTE TO PROFESSOR EBUN MARY MODUPE KOLAWOLE
Beloved Mummy Kolawole, you were a symbol of love, humility, kindness, and uprightness; an
embodiment of wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Your wise counsels, warm affection,
benevolence, openness, and forthrightness the world will miss greatly.
Meeting you and Daddy Kolawole in 2009 marked a turning point in my life. Your love for God was
contagious. You were filled with zeal and unparallel passion for the things of the kingdom God. You were indeed a pillar in the kingdom.
Mama, you thought me patience, persistence, faith in God and love for Him through our countless
visits and calls to the KWASU project manager concerning building a Chapel on the university campus.
You were never discouraged nor disappointed even when there were reasons to so do. Your drive for
this noble course continued even after you left the service of the university. Your patience, persistence
and faith paid off eventually. Through your effort Mama, the Lord gave us more than we requested
for. The entire KWASU Christian Community will forever be grateful to God for your contributions
toward the growth and development of the Fellowship.
Mummy you were a Prophetess. I will miss your words and acts of encouragements beyond words. I
recall a day in December 2017, that I was dejected. I felt used, abandoned, and uncared for. This I did not discuss with anyone, not even my wife. Alas! Your call came through. You requested that I see you that evening and I did. Lo and behold God proved to me that He does care about me as you deliver to me what the Lord laid in your heart for me and His Church under my watch. That act of yours Ma
changed my perspective of God till date.
To Daddy Kolawole, our prayers are with you at this time more than ever before. Your Daughter
Oluwakemi, and grandchildren, Nathan, Dorcas, and Lois all take solace in the assurance that Mama
is resting at the bosom of our Lord Jesus.
Adieu Professor Ebun Mary Modupe Kolawole, a great woman of faith and passion.
From
Sunday Ojo, Ph.D
Ag. Director,
Centre for Technical, Vocational and Entrepreneurship Training, and
Assistant Chaplain, KWASU Christian Community,
Kwara State University, Malete.
Beloved Mummy Kolawole, you were a symbol of love, humility, kindness, and uprightness; an
embodiment of wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Your wise counsels, warm affection,
benevolence, openness, and forthrightness the world will miss greatly.
Meeting you and Daddy Kolawole in 2009 marked a turning point in my life. Your love for God was
contagious. You were filled with zeal and unparallel passion for the things of the kingdom God. You were indeed a pillar in the kingdom.
Mama, you thought me patience, persistence, faith in God and love for Him through our countless
visits and calls to the KWASU project manager concerning building a Chapel on the university campus.
You were never discouraged nor disappointed even when there were reasons to so do. Your drive for
this noble course continued even after you left the service of the university. Your patience, persistence
and faith paid off eventually. Through your effort Mama, the Lord gave us more than we requested
for. The entire KWASU Christian Community will forever be grateful to God for your contributions
toward the growth and development of the Fellowship.
Mummy you were a Prophetess. I will miss your words and acts of encouragements beyond words. I
recall a day in December 2017, that I was dejected. I felt used, abandoned, and uncared for. This I did not discuss with anyone, not even my wife. Alas! Your call came through. You requested that I see you that evening and I did. Lo and behold God proved to me that He does care about me as you deliver to me what the Lord laid in your heart for me and His Church under my watch. That act of yours Ma
changed my perspective of God till date.
To Daddy Kolawole, our prayers are with you at this time more than ever before. Your Daughter
Oluwakemi, and grandchildren, Nathan, Dorcas, and Lois all take solace in the assurance that Mama
is resting at the bosom of our Lord Jesus.
Adieu Professor Ebun Mary Modupe Kolawole, a great woman of faith and passion.
From
Sunday Ojo, Ph.D
Ag. Director,
Centre for Technical, Vocational and Entrepreneurship Training, and
Assistant Chaplain, KWASU Christian Community,
Kwara State University, Malete.
You led me to the Lord at an FGBMFI meeting at that hotel directly opposite the main university gates in Ife, on September 26, 1986. My life changed forever. I bless God at every remembrance of you and will love you forever for this. Rest well, Mummy. You deserve it. By God's grace, we will reign with Jesus in eternity. Love you forever.
Tribute to a Lover of Widows and Orphans,
A Member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees,
An African Womanist
On February 16, 2021, we Lost a founding member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees, a lover of widows and orphans, and an African Womanist; Professor (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole.
Since November 16, 2017 when the Foundation was officially registered by the Corporate Affairs Commission with Professor Mary Kolawole and her husband as members of the 9-man Board of Trustees, she has actively participated in the activities of the Foundation, giving hope and courage to the widows and orphans.
Professor Mary Kolawole never missed any of the quarterly empowerment and thanksgiving programmes of the MAWO Foundation that humbly started in 2017 with just 21 widows, and now has over 700 registered widows and 40 orphans in its fold.
Late Professor Mary Kolawole has been a source of inspiration to the Founder, Board, Management and the entire members of the MAWO Foundation. We will miss her motherly support and contributions dearly.
We all love her, but the Lord love her most.
Adieu our MAWOF Mama.
From All of Us at MAWO Foundation.
Muritala Awodun, PhD
MAWOF Founder
www.mawofoundation.com
A Member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees,
An African Womanist
On February 16, 2021, we Lost a founding member of MAWO Foundation Board of Trustees, a lover of widows and orphans, and an African Womanist; Professor (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole.
Since November 16, 2017 when the Foundation was officially registered by the Corporate Affairs Commission with Professor Mary Kolawole and her husband as members of the 9-man Board of Trustees, she has actively participated in the activities of the Foundation, giving hope and courage to the widows and orphans.
Professor Mary Kolawole never missed any of the quarterly empowerment and thanksgiving programmes of the MAWO Foundation that humbly started in 2017 with just 21 widows, and now has over 700 registered widows and 40 orphans in its fold.
Late Professor Mary Kolawole has been a source of inspiration to the Founder, Board, Management and the entire members of the MAWO Foundation. We will miss her motherly support and contributions dearly.
We all love her, but the Lord love her most.
Adieu our MAWOF Mama.
From All of Us at MAWO Foundation.
Muritala Awodun, PhD
MAWOF Founder
www.mawofoundation.com
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Home-going arrangements

Home-going arrangements

Mary at her mother’s funeral in 2014.

Mary in Birmingham, UK. Early 70s.

Mary Kolawole, PhD, in her professional gear!

Mary and Deboye, all the way back to where it all started! Early 70s.

The lovely couple. Ithaca, NY. 1990.

Mary & Deboye @ a wedding.
This is who they were—best friends. They did everything together.

Mary @ an event.

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Links to Social Media Tributes, Testimonies, Comments, Well Wishes....
As of right now, there are more than 450 comments on Folake's Facebook Tribute post, many by people with personal relationships with Prof. Mary Kolawole, and with real testimonies and tributes to her in their comments. These are too many to transfer here, so what better way than to add the link? You can find them here.
The OAU Alumni post also garnered a lot of tributes and comments. You may access those here.
For a comprehensive look at Folake's FB page and all the posts and reposts from other pages of tributes and comments about Prof. Kolawole's passing, please access this link here.
There are more than 50 comments on Instagram, and you can access those here.
Please feel free to add your tribute on this website.
Thank you.
The family of Professor Mary Kolawole.
The OAU Alumni post also garnered a lot of tributes and comments. You may access those here.
For a comprehensive look at Folake's FB page and all the posts and reposts from other pages of tributes and comments about Prof. Kolawole's passing, please access this link here.
There are more than 50 comments on Instagram, and you can access those here.
Please feel free to add your tribute on this website.
Thank you.
The family of Professor Mary Kolawole.
Gone too soon! We will miss you mummy Kolawole. You were a woman of God, a woman of prayer. Always with a beautiful smile, calm and reassuring. A pace setter, a voice for women everywhere. You have fought a good fight. You made definite impact and you are sorely missed. Looking forward to seeing you again at the resurrection. Adieu mama. ❤️❤️❤️ Tinuke Fawole.