ForeverMissed

This memorial website was created in the memory of  Randy Cain who was born on August 10, 1956 and passed away on June 28, 2005. His loved ones miss him.He will be missed by every person who ever knew him. He was a man who asked for little but gave everything he had and was. 

Posted by Judy Austin on June 28, 2020
Thinking of you often and will love you always...you left us much too early. but you will never be forgotton. Much Love Bob and Judy
Posted by Connie Cain on June 28, 2020
15 years ago it was your time to go. Mom and I miss you always, & you will never be forgotten. Life is good. We are happy, strong & healthy.
Most of the world has gone to shit, I’m sure you would find the humor in most of it. Lol
Love you Dad.❤️
Posted by Robin Cain on June 28, 2020
It's hard to believe it's been 15 years since we lost you. Even though Connie and I have moved forward in our lives it doesn't change how much we love and miss you. We will always remember your humor and your strength and I think we both pull on those memories at times. Never forgotten and always loved. 
Posted by Connie Cain on June 21, 2020
Happy Daddy day!  Hope your soul is proud of mom and my adventures.
 I really do wish you could have met Derek. You may have approved of the previous but this guy.. you would really love this guy!!
Love you daddy!
Posted by Robin Cain on June 21, 2020
Happy Father's Day! I know your watching over us and I know you see what a wonderful daughter we have. We can be proud of her and the struggles she has surpassed. We both love you and miss you as our lives evolve and develop. This world list a great man. Love always xoxo
Posted by Connie Cain on December 25, 2019
Merry Christmas Daddy!! We cut down a real Christmas tree this year, something I’ve never done without you also Derek’s first. 
Wish Derek could have met you. I think you guys would have got a long great. 
Love you and I hope you’re enjoying a Black Russian, I will cheers you with mine.
Posted by Robin Cain on December 25, 2019
Merry Christmas ! You will always have a piece of my heart. We all miss you. Xo
My life now is good and It makes things easier, especially during holidays.
Posted by Robin Cain on October 31, 2019
Happy Halloween honey. Your daughter is so much like you and it's our favorite time of year. Miss your antics at Halloween, you were the best prankster. Always in our hearts. Xo
Posted by Judy Austin on August 10, 2019
Happy Birthday to a wonderful Brother who left us way too soon! You will forever be in our thoughts and our hearts. Love Judy and Bob
Posted by Connie Cain on August 10, 2019
Happy Birthday Daddy!! I know you’re always there keeping an eye on us and you’re always in our thoughts. Love you!
Posted by Robin Cain/King on August 10, 2019
Happy Birthday, honey! You will always be in my heart and Connie and I remember little things everytime we talk, about you. It's fun to think about the things you did that made us laugh. The monarchs that show up just at the right times let us know you are watching over us. Connie and I love you and miss you. Xo
Posted by Robin Cain/King on June 28, 2019
You are will always be missed by me and Connie. This is a hard day , but it gets easier each year. You were my everything for a long time. My life has evolved but what we had was special and it produced a beautiful daughter. Love you always, xoxo.
Posted by Robin Cain on June 16, 2019
Happy Father's Day! Connie and I are thinking of you today. We love you. You are missed. Xo
Posted by Robin Cain on December 25, 2018
Merry Christmas Randy. My thoughts are about you as usual but especially since another person had lost a family member to cancer. Jean Paisley(Bierema) her brother Brian passed this weekend. Connie and I are doing well. We are both happy and healthy. Love always xoxo
Posted by Robin Cain on November 1, 2018
Another Halloween had come and gone.  It is still Connie and my favorite time of year. We had 3 kids this year. First time in a long time. Our daughter has a morbid sense of humor just like you did. We miss you always but especially at Halloween. Love and miss that mind of yours. Xo
Posted by Judy Austin on August 10, 2018
Thinking of you today...Aug. 10th and want you to know just how very much you are missed....Love Always...Judy and Bob
Posted by Robin Cain on August 10, 2018
Happy Birthday Randy! You will always be remembered for playing hard, working hard, loving hard and that crazy sense of humor. You are and will always be missed. Love me xo
Posted by Robin Cain on July 9, 2018
Today would have been our 41st wedding anniversary and even though you are gone i still think of you. The tiger lilies are in bloom and the ones you planted at the house after still here. You are still missed by everyone especially Connie and I and always will be. You were a special man. Love always xo
Posted by Judy Austin on June 28, 2018
The many memories of you keep you near and dear to us. Forever missed by us..today and throughout the years. Love Bob and Judy
Posted by Robin Cain on June 28, 2018
13 years ago we lost you. Things have never been the same. They are finally starting to get better.  Connie is doing well with her new life. Mine is less hectic. Mom and Rosanne are getting married this summer.  Everyone still misses you and always will.  Love you xo.
Posted by Robin Cain on June 17, 2018
Happy Father's Day! We have a daughter we can be be proud of. She is everything any parent would want in a daughter and she misses her dad a lot. We love you! Xo
Posted by Robin Cain on February 14, 2018
Happy valentine's! You always made it a great day and usually a subtle surprise , since we both knew i hated surprises. Lol . You will always have a piece of my heart. Xo
Posted by Robin Cain on October 31, 2017
Hi honey.
It's Halloween and both Connie and I are still into it. We wish you could be here with your morbid sense of humor and gags. Miss you as always. Me xo
Posted by Judy Austin on August 10, 2017
Happy Birthday Randy, forever remembered and loved and missed!
Posted by Connie Cain on August 10, 2017
Happy Birthday Daddy!! I love you.
Posted by Robin Cain on August 10, 2017
Happy Birthday Randy. 61 years ago today the world was blessed with a good man. Your life was too short sweetheart and you are missed by us all every day. Something reminds the people who loved you everyday that you are still around us or of something funny that you did and it gives us a giggle. You were loved by all of us and i will always miss you. Xo
Posted by Robin Cain on July 9, 2017
Happy Anniversary Randy! This year would have been our 40th anniversary but the universe had other plans for us. Your time was done and mine was to start over. The best thing you left me was our beautiful daughter. She also has started a new life and you would be so proud of her. I sure am. Love always and never forgotten. Xo
Posted by Robin Cain on June 28, 2017
Today marks the day 12 years ago that we all lost you. You are still missed and always will be. Your humor and love and kindness are still remembered by me and all who knew you. Connie and I are still doing well and I like to think you are partly the reason for that. You would be so proud of the strong beautiful young woman she has become. Love you and miss you always. Xo
Posted by Judy Austin on June 28, 2017
Bob and I are thinking about you today, as we often do. Time goes by, but our love for you never fades, and you will always be loved and missed.
Posted by Connie Cain on June 28, 2017
Hi Daddy. I'm sure you're keeping an eye on things so as you can see I struggle to keep it together sometimes, it'll be easier to give up but I never do because you and mom raised me to be strong and resourceful. Even though I have my struggles you can also see I'm happy... truly happy with the choices I've made and with the direction my life is heading.
 I know you're proud of mom and I and we love and miss you very much.
Posted by Robin Cain on October 31, 2016
HAPPY HALLOWEEN, your favorite time of year and our daughter is on a plane to Montreal for her work. it is still our favorite time of year.
Posted by Connie Cain on August 10, 2016
Happy Birthday Daddy!! Everyday there is something that reminds me of you, I guess that's your way of letting me know you're here, thank you and I love you.
Posted by Robin Cain on August 10, 2016
Happy Birthday Randy! Today you would have turned 60 yrs old if you had not gotten sick. Life takes some strange twists and turns but im sure we will meet again. You are and will always be missed. Xo
Posted by Judy Austin on August 10, 2016
"Happy Birthday Randy" Hard to believe it has been so long, and that today you would have been 60? Time will never change the memories of you that we will always hold dear. Forever missed by Judy and Bob!
Posted by Robin Cain on July 9, 2016
39 years ago we were married...11 years ago our beautiful daughter and i spread your ashes on the hills of your families farm. It was a short life together but a good one. Life is new for connie and myself. Our lives are good and we are getting strong together again. We still miss you . Xo
Posted by Rosanne Robinson on June 28, 2016
Hey Randy. I don't know what to say, except I still miss you. You will always be loved and missed by all. XO
Posted by Robin Cain on June 28, 2016
11 yrs ago tonight you left us. We have all missed you but Connie had the hardest time. Our relationship is going well so far and she is healthy, happy and strong. She is very outdoorsy and you would be proud of her. She posted pictures of you both from years gone by on her instagram on father's day. I was glad to see that. I will call her today. I am happy with my life now. Miss you and probably always will. Love xo
Posted by Judy Austin on June 28, 2016
You will always be loved and remembered, you must be so pleased that the two girls you loved most in life are now re-united..it is how it should be! With great love and remembrance...Sister and Brother Judy and Bob
Posted by Connie Cain on June 28, 2016
I miss you so much. It seems like I miss you more every year. I have had some rough times and some really happy times during the last 11 years. I'm sure you've seen them all. Mom and I are happy I think
We are going to be ok and continue to be happy with the our new adventures now and with the ones to come.
I love you so much.
Posted by Robin Cain on January 24, 2016
Well honey it finally happened. Our beautiful daughter finally wants a relationship with me again. I have missed her so much. Now maybe she will also visit here for you. Thank you. Xo
Posted by Robin Cain on December 29, 2015
Hi honey. ..another Christmas had passed and i donated the tree we had to a family who didn't have one. ...felt good.  New years is coming and some things have changed others have not. Ruth wants a relationship with mom again. Connie still off the grid but she is beautiful and healthy and happy so i can live with that. David is having trouble. Watch out for both of them. Brad is fixing up the house and you would love it. I will never forget you. Love always xo.
Posted by Robin Cain on October 31, 2015
Happy Halloween!!!! your favorite time of the year is here and our daughter will no doubt be celebrating up a storms as she does every year. Watch over her. xo
Posted by Robin Cain on August 10, 2015
Happy Birthday hun! It's been a long time since I was able to say that to your face. You are still and will probably always be missed by your loved ones. You will always have a piece of my heart. As usual watch over our baby girl. She is happy and healthy and gets more beautiful every day. I check on her even though she doesn't know. I love her more than my own life. Xo
Posted by Judy Austin on August 10, 2015
I think of you often, but never more than today, on your Birthday! You now have Rodney , mom ,and dad to keep you company, so you are not alone. I love you and miss you, and will hold you close in my thought.s.   Love Judy
Posted by Robin Cain on July 9, 2015
Well today would have been our 38th wedding anniversary but instead it is 10yrs since i spread your ashes on the farm. You are still missed by all and even though my life includes a new love and husband it takes nothing from the many years we had. You were a special man and i loved you dearly. Watch over our daughter. xo
Posted by Robin Cain on June 28, 2015
Well honey at 9:10pm today it will be exactly 10 years since your daughter and I said our last goodbyes to you. You are still missed very much by all that knew you and especially by me and Connie. She still is not talking to me, but she is healthy and happy even without us. Your strength and courage throughout your illness can never be forgotten. I wish that things had worked out different but there is a reason for everything. With your passing came an independence for me I never would have imagined and many do not understand. I know you would be proud of me. Watch over our daughter as usual. Miss you .xo
Posted by Judy Austin on June 28, 2015
Can't believe it has been 10 years since you have left us, but will be forever in our thoughts and prayers. Love always Bob and Judy
Posted by Rosanne Robinson on June 28, 2015
Wow, 10 years has gone by fast!! I will always miss you and think about you Randy. Your passing confirmed to me that "life is short and the good do die young," unfortunately. Keep smiling down on us and give us a jolt if we're misbehaving...XXOO
Posted by Robin Cain on June 21, 2015
Happy Father's Day, I wish our daughter or hope that our daughter would acknowledge you on this site just once. At least she is happy and healthy and riding her bike competitively. She always loved riding her bike growing up. Well maybe one day she will acknowledge you and come back to me. Love always, xo
Posted by Robin Cain on March 13, 2015
Hey hun, well it looks like i will be married on March 28th, to Brad King. I know you would want this for me as long as i am happy and I really am. There have been some bumps but you know how that is we had them too. It is worth it and he loves me. I will not forget about you, we had too much history. As always keep watch over our girl. Love you xo
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Posted by Judy Austin on June 28, 2020
Thinking of you often and will love you always...you left us much too early. but you will never be forgotton. Much Love Bob and Judy
Posted by Connie Cain on June 28, 2020
15 years ago it was your time to go. Mom and I miss you always, & you will never be forgotten. Life is good. We are happy, strong & healthy.
Most of the world has gone to shit, I’m sure you would find the humor in most of it. Lol
Love you Dad.❤️
Posted by Robin Cain on June 28, 2020
It's hard to believe it's been 15 years since we lost you. Even though Connie and I have moved forward in our lives it doesn't change how much we love and miss you. We will always remember your humor and your strength and I think we both pull on those memories at times. Never forgotten and always loved. 
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Randy my love.

Shared by Robin Cain on June 27, 2010

He was the only man I ever wanted and he was taken from me by lung cancer that spread through his body.  He was a quiet man that was generally not very social, but when he decided to make you his friend that was it, you always knew he was there for you. He would do anything for anyone and ask for nothing in return.  Even while undergoing chemo, he was across the road helping to renovate a neighbors home with other neighbors. There are very few men with the strength, humor, character and determination that he had.  He was my hero and I miss him everyday.

Randy and his war games

Shared by Robin Cain on June 27, 2010

He loved his paintball war games, granted he took them to the extreme.  He had smoke bombs , grenades, rocket launchers and he built with his friends, a tower ,fox holes and anything else needed to make it feel real.  He had the guns, ammo and all the gear and spent weekends away shooting his friends and getting shot at.  He loved it, even with the bruises, broken toe, and broken collarbone he sustained, he would never have given it up.

Randy's bottle collection

Shared by Robin Cain on June 27, 2010

Randy spent years digging up,  cleaning up and then displaying his prize bottles.  He could look at a field that to anyone else look like just a field.  But for Randy he could tell by the way the land was that a homestead or maybe a barn had been there at one time.  He could go directly to the area he thought he might find something and start to dig.  Sure enough there would be bottles , nails, glasses, medicine bottles, etc.  He could tell you almost the whole life story of the people who had been there.  He was very smart and loved history.  Then he would clean everything up and put them on display.