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This memorial website was created in the memory of  Randy Cain who was born on August 10, 1956 and passed away on June 28, 2005. His loved ones miss him.He will be missed by every person who ever knew him. He was a man who asked for little but gave everything he had and was. 

August 18, 2012
August 18, 2012
Hello love, it is Connie's 34th birthday, I hope she has a good one and really wish I could say Happy Birthday in person. Keep an eye on her.
love you xo
August 10, 2012
August 10, 2012
Happy Birthday, Sweetheart!  My thoughts are with you and our daughter. love always
August 10, 2012
August 10, 2012
Happy Birthday Randy, Love you always. Till we meet again.xxxx
July 9, 2012
July 9, 2012
Happy Anniversary , honey!It would have been 35yrs today since we said our vows and 10 yrs since we renewed them. To remember all the work you went to, to arrange our 25th and to think I only had you for 3 more years is still hard to accept. You will always be in my heart. I miss you and hope you are proud of what I have accomplished since then. I will always love you. xoxo
June 29, 2012
June 29, 2012
Seven years and still missing you very much. Love you.Renee
June 28, 2012
June 28, 2012
Hi my love, another year without you. This year has been particularly hard. Connie is still not talking to me and mother's day weekend and May 12 coincided to make it very hard and emotional for me. Yesterday and today are harder than they have been this year. Please watch over our daughter, let her know you are there somehow. I miss you very much and always will. I love you, xo
June 28, 2012
June 28, 2012
Such an awesome person. I will have great memories of us at the fires we had. The help he all ways offered me, lol. My ceiling fan hahaha he was the best at what he knew. Missed by my family and me..
December 31, 2011
December 31, 2011
Another Christmas has passed without you and another year is on the horizon. A friend has joined you , Laurie Paxton passed away this month and he will be missed by his family the way you are missed by yours. My heart will aways be yours and even though I have love for another you were mine love for a long time, I miss you always. xo
December 20, 2011
December 20, 2011
Another Christmas is upon us and another year that Robin won't see Connie. I wish you never left them. Everything was so much better when you were here. Love you and still miss you alot Randy. Merry Christmas!!
December 20, 2011
December 20, 2011
Everyone misses you my love, especially me. I wish there was some way you could let our daughter know how much she is missed and loved as well. Nothing is the same but life is constantly changing, sometimes for the worst and sometimes for the better. Life will never be better without you. Love you always.
October 26, 2011
October 26, 2011
Randy was in a few of my classes at Uxbridge Secondary School.
He was easy going and laid back. I found him to be an asset to the class and the school.
August 18, 2011
August 18, 2011
Hello my love, it's our daughter's birthday today and even though she won't talk to me, maybe somehow you can let her know in her dreams that I love her and miss her with all my heart. Watch over her and make sure she is safe and happy. Love always your snookums xo
August 10, 2011
August 10, 2011
Happy Birthday, you would have been 55 today, it's unfortunate that a good day to remember is marred with the 7th anniversary of the day that started the end of our life together. Connie will be 33 in 8 days and I can't even wish her happy birthday. I miss you , watch over her.xo
August 10, 2011
August 10, 2011
Happy Birthday Randy. You will always be missed. Love you. Wish you were still here.
July 2, 2011
July 2, 2011
Missing you still, new temporary bridge in place now so I can go over and try to revive your memorial garden. I wish you were still over there camping and cutting wood every summer. Love forever, Laurie(Mom)
June 28, 2011
June 28, 2011
Hello my love, another year has gone by without you a Christmas, valentine's, Easter and now I am without our little girl too. I hope she finds her way back to me, please watch over her, she misses you I think even more than I do if that's possible.
June 28, 2011
June 28, 2011
I have a lot to share with you, a license, a new career, a promotion.  I know you are proud of me. Even though I have moved on part of my heart remains with you always and forever. We just fit , few understand that. Good and Bad it was always us t
June 20, 2011
June 20, 2011
Happy Father's Day Randy. Miss you alot. I wish Connie would come around and take Robin back into her life. Love you, Renee
December 29, 2010
December 29, 2010
Another Christmas with the family but still missing you so much as I unloaded the decorations from the box table you made and decorate the mirror made from horse collar hames that you made for me. We all are a little less a family without you, Robin and Connie. We lost a whole family not just a person but love will prevail. Please watch over us and help us to recover with God's help.Love,Laurie
December 24, 2010
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas my sweet love. It's Christmas Eve and I remember how we would put the tree up after Connie went to bed and the look on her face when she would see it in the morning. Well now there is no you and no Connie for me. Watch over her, she needs something I can't give her . I will always love and miss you. I will always be your snookums! Merry Christmas!
December 23, 2010
December 23, 2010
It is X-mas in two days and so I am going to wish you a Merry Christmas now so I don't forget. Love you and still miss you dearly. Christmas's have and will never be the same without your humourous presence. You made everyone laugh so much at our Boxing Day get togethers with your jokes.
December 12, 2010
December 12, 2010
Although I hadn't kept in touch, nor told him often enough when there was opportunity, Randy was the only partner to any of my sisters that I ever considered to be a true brother-in-law. He was always nice to me & accepted my being gay without hesitation or condition. He had a great smile and laugh, was kind and considerate, and cared for Robin very deeply.
November 17, 2010
November 17, 2010
Unfortunetly I never had the pleasure of meeting you personally. I know how much you mean to Robin and she is a very close friend of mine. So i will light a candle to support her :)
November 8, 2010
November 8, 2010
HI Sweetheart: Halloween is over and your chaos and mayhem was missed. However, honey today I got car insurance and plates for my mustang, in my name and the funny thing is I got them on the anniversary of our first date. I think you would be proud of me. I miss you and always will. Love endures. xo
August 10, 2010
August 10, 2010
Happy Birthday my love. I wish you were here to celebrate it, but I am thinking of you always. Please watch over our little girl, she needs and misses you so badly. I will always love you.
August 10, 2010
August 10, 2010
Happy Birthday Randy!!!! You are missed very much and I know you are aware of that.
July 4, 2010
July 4, 2010
The neighbourhood was never the same after the passing of Randy. He was a very kind and gentle man, with a great sense of humour. Think of you often.
June 30, 2010
June 30, 2010
When you are sorrowful look again into your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." ~ Kahlil Gibran

love and best wishes...
June 28, 2010
June 28, 2010
Randy, as memories of you come flooding back today, they bring smiles and tears alike. You may be gone in the physical sense, but you will always be in my heart and memories. I love you! Rosanne
June 27, 2010
June 27, 2010
My sweet brother in law. You are dearly missed. Love you! Renee
June 27, 2010
June 27, 2010

I have missed you so much and I treasure all of the things you handmade for me and surround me now with good memories.  Love you still, Laurie(mom-in-law)
June 27, 2010
June 27, 2010
I miss your kind and gentle spirit. Remembering you fondly forever and always. Carrie
June 27, 2010
June 27, 2010
Tomorrow marks the day the butterflies carried you to the beyond and the butterflies let me know you are watching over Connie and I. I will always love you and miss you.
Your wife
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August 10, 2023
August 10, 2023
Happy Birthday Daddy! 67 wow! Still a young age. Hope you’re shooting guns and drinking whiskey!! Always loved and never forgotten.
August 10, 2023
August 10, 2023
Happy Birthday, honey! You were robbed of your future. We were robbed of a future all together.  Connie and I are strong and we think about you always.  We know you are watching over us.  We love you. I will always love you. ❤️
June 28, 2023
June 28, 2023
Hi honey. Connie is right today is better than last year. But we spent it together last year and that made it easier. We miss you and love you.  I find myself talking to people about you, it is strange how it just comes up because of something they say.  I like telling people about you. Our daughter is an amazing woman that we can be very proud of.  Life is full of surprises but you are always with us.  Love always and forever. Xo
Recent stories

Randy my love.

June 27, 2010

He was the only man I ever wanted and he was taken from me by lung cancer that spread through his body.  He was a quiet man that was generally not very social, but when he decided to make you his friend that was it, you always knew he was there for you. He would do anything for anyone and ask for nothing in return.  Even while undergoing chemo, he was across the road helping to renovate a neighbors home with other neighbors. There are very few men with the strength, humor, character and determination that he had.  He was my hero and I miss him everyday.

Randy and his war games

June 27, 2010

He loved his paintball war games, granted he took them to the extreme.  He had smoke bombs , grenades, rocket launchers and he built with his friends, a tower ,fox holes and anything else needed to make it feel real.  He had the guns, ammo and all the gear and spent weekends away shooting his friends and getting shot at.  He loved it, even with the bruises, broken toe, and broken collarbone he sustained, he would never have given it up.

Randy's bottle collection

June 27, 2010

Randy spent years digging up,  cleaning up and then displaying his prize bottles.  He could look at a field that to anyone else look like just a field.  But for Randy he could tell by the way the land was that a homestead or maybe a barn had been there at one time.  He could go directly to the area he thought he might find something and start to dig.  Sure enough there would be bottles , nails, glasses, medicine bottles, etc.  He could tell you almost the whole life story of the people who had been there.  He was very smart and loved history.  Then he would clean everything up and put them on display.

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