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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, William Bud Colfer, 75 years old, born on January 30, 1947, and passed away on March 12, 2022. We will remember him forever.

Viewing
Tuesday, March 15
2-4 & 6- 8 p.m.
The DiCostanzo family owned,
Lakewood Funeral Home
6250 Highway 9, Howell, NJ 07731

Funeral Mass
Wednesday, March 16
10:30 a.m.
St. William the Abbot 
2740 Allenwood Lakewood Rd., Howell, NJ 07731

Burial
St. Mary of the Lake Cemetery
1 Honey Locust Rd., Lakewood, NJ 08701

May 22, 2022
May 22, 2022
I was blessed to have William (Buddy) as my older cousin. He looked so much like his father, Bud, that whenever I saw him I found myself calling him "Uncle Buddy". Throughout the decades I would hear that Bud would be off in another state volunteering his time and expertise to help the victims of various disasters. His benevolence and kind-hearted spirit was always evident at family gatherings, Bud was easy to love and admire.  Bud's mirth and impishness may have come from his Irish genes but his father was pretty funny too. I vividly recall his marriage to Cecilia, on January 23rd - as my family was seated at his reception table. He and Cecilia had much smooching to do as the guests kept ringing their dinner glasses with their forks. They looked so happy together then and that love proven by the duration of their union throughout the decades. Spending much time with his siblings Kevin and Mary Rose back in the 1970s gave me access to Cousin Buddy, who was almost 10 years older - his love for life was ever-evident. William's love and devotion to his family was always paramount and we respect him deeply for it.
I remember you cousin Buddy with a smile and a distant look in your eyes as you were imagining a better world for all of us. God rest your soul in peace - Amen.
March 14, 2022
March 14, 2022
I have known Bud Colfer as a neighbor and a friend for over 40 years. We voluntered together in the 80's in the Howell South LL Senoir League, Cub and Boy Scouts as our sons made their way into adulthood. I came to know him as an honest and honorable man dedicated to his family and interested in his community. Generous of purpose and of spirit, he paid the entire tab for a Scout awards banquet one year and requested not to be recogonized as the benefactor. This one act spoke volumes of the man..RIP my friend
March 14, 2022
March 14, 2022
My uncle buddy and my union brother was a very kind person to everyone.He always take care of family and sisters and brother’s if they needed help no matter what he was doing he always wanted to be their for his family and friends.He will always be in our prayers and Hearts forever 

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May 22, 2022
May 22, 2022
I was blessed to have William (Buddy) as my older cousin. He looked so much like his father, Bud, that whenever I saw him I found myself calling him "Uncle Buddy". Throughout the decades I would hear that Bud would be off in another state volunteering his time and expertise to help the victims of various disasters. His benevolence and kind-hearted spirit was always evident at family gatherings, Bud was easy to love and admire.  Bud's mirth and impishness may have come from his Irish genes but his father was pretty funny too. I vividly recall his marriage to Cecilia, on January 23rd - as my family was seated at his reception table. He and Cecilia had much smooching to do as the guests kept ringing their dinner glasses with their forks. They looked so happy together then and that love proven by the duration of their union throughout the decades. Spending much time with his siblings Kevin and Mary Rose back in the 1970s gave me access to Cousin Buddy, who was almost 10 years older - his love for life was ever-evident. William's love and devotion to his family was always paramount and we respect him deeply for it.
I remember you cousin Buddy with a smile and a distant look in your eyes as you were imagining a better world for all of us. God rest your soul in peace - Amen.
March 14, 2022
March 14, 2022
I have known Bud Colfer as a neighbor and a friend for over 40 years. We voluntered together in the 80's in the Howell South LL Senoir League, Cub and Boy Scouts as our sons made their way into adulthood. I came to know him as an honest and honorable man dedicated to his family and interested in his community. Generous of purpose and of spirit, he paid the entire tab for a Scout awards banquet one year and requested not to be recogonized as the benefactor. This one act spoke volumes of the man..RIP my friend
March 14, 2022
March 14, 2022
My uncle buddy and my union brother was a very kind person to everyone.He always take care of family and sisters and brother’s if they needed help no matter what he was doing he always wanted to be their for his family and friends.He will always be in our prayers and Hearts forever 
His Life

William "Bud" Joseph Colfer, Sr.

March 13, 2022
William "Bud" Joseph Colfer, Sr. passed away on Saturday March 12, 2022 at Jersey Shore University Medical Center from heart complications. He was 75 years old and is survived by his wife Cecelia, his children Buddy Jr., Jason and Angela, his grandchildren Kevin, Justin, Carli, Dane, Maddox, and Franchesca. He is also survived by his sister Marie Pilla the last surviving of 9 children. Bud was predeceased by his daughter, Celia Ruiz.

Bud was born January 30, 1947 in Newark, NJ to William "Bud" and Marie Colfer. He retired in 2006 from sprinkler fitters local 696 where he owned several fire protection companies and later ran work for other companies. He later stayed busy working part time for The Home Depot. Bud was a reliable pillar of his family, always there to lend help and support. Loyalty to family was paramount to him. Bud loved giving time to the community as well, spending many years as President and coach of little league baseball, being a cub scout master for the local troop 152 and volunteering his time with the American Red Cross traveling the country as part of a disaster relief team. He will be missed greatly and remembered fondly.
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March 28, 2022
42 years I was blessed to have such an incredible father. He taught me everything from  how to ride a bike to the great game of baseball-  how to be strong and independent- how to operate a business and manage money - he gave me sarcasm and jokes - and many many many laughs - We shared many great trips together with memories to last a lifetime. He supported me and loved me unconditionally without fail, all the days of my life right up to our very last goodbye. I do not know anyone who could compare to my father he was simply one of a kind and I can not and will not ever forgot or lose the love I have him. I will miss you everyday of my life until we meet again. Rest Easy Dad 

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