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CELEBRATNG THE LIFE OF
JOOSEP EEDI JUHKAM
22 MARCH 2000 - 13 MAY 2021

You always lived in the moment and enjoyed life in full.

You are in us, you are part of us, you are in our hearts forever Joosu...

Head ja toredat seilamist ükskõik kus sa ka ei viibiks, me oleme sinuga, kallis Joose...

Born a millennial baby on a cold but sunny winter snow-covered day in Estonia and then…..

  • A New Yorker and survivor of 9/11
  • Thailand elementary school, sailing, swimming, boats and beaches 
  • Bangladesh middle school and rickshaw races, tiger searching, python hugger, coral reefs
  • USA high school, friends, football, skiing, camping, biking, boats yards in Rye Neck, New York
  • California Love - the ocean, the air, marine science, boat yard work in Monterey Bay, his close close friends and roommates
Did you know this about Joosep?

  • As a baby had a family nickname of ‘konn’ (Estonian for ‘frog’), and ‘banaani mees’ (Estonian for ‘banana man’, for his love of bananas)
  • Could play the drums, bass guitar, baritone horn, piano and recorder flute.
  • A drummer, guitarist and singer in a rock band from age 11-13 while living in Bangladesh; sang at the boys honor choir with performances in Bali and Hong Kong…. And also suffered Dengue fever not once but twice
  • A sailor and not afraid to manage his own boat, sometimes in rough waters in Thailand.
  • Chosen to be one of two team captains of the Rye Neck football team in his senior year, after having played only one year of football ever, during his junior year.
  • Lighting manager,  then stage manager in Rye Neck High School theatre productions
  • Declared ‘MOST HUGGABLE’ and with the ‘BEST LAUGH’ in his high school yearbook.
  • A brother of the Kappa Sigma Fraternity at Cal State Monterey
  • An excellent cook and provider of nourishment by the best of hugs
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May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family

Deeply saddened to hear the loss of your beloved son,
May Joosep find a special place in heaven above and the Lord be with you and your family during this difficult moment.


From Roshan and family.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,

I am so saddened to hear of the passing of your son. Please accept my sincere condolences at this difficult time. May God rest his soul in peace and strengthen you and your family to keep his memory alive.

M.U.M. Ali Sabry, PC
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Family,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved son. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family.

We are praying for your peace and comfort during this difficult time. May God give him eternal rest..!!

Shashika
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert & family,

Please accept my deepest condolences.
May you be blessed with courage and healing during these difficult times.

My thoughts & prayers are with you all,
Himaya
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family,

I was so deeply saddened to hear about the sudden loss of your son. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May all of you find the strength and courage to get through these difficult times.

All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Myanthi
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia and family,
Sending our deepest condolences to you all during this incredibly painful time. I remember meeting Joosep for the first time at your home in Mamaroneck and remember how incredibly kind he was to our boys. You are all in our thoughts and prayers, Becky & Ed xxx
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,

I am completely shocked by the tragic news of your son. I cannot really find any word to say. I remember you were very much looking forward to the summer holidays with your family. My deepest condolences to you and your family. My thoughts are with you in these difficult times. I wish you love, strength, and courage. 

Shoko
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,
We are so sad knowing the sudden unbearable loss of Joosep. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Much prayers for him. May the departed soul rest in peace. We will miss him, and may he rest in peace.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Joosep was a sweet soul who brought light into every room he walked in. His smile was contagious as well as his laughter. He cared for his friends with a passion like no other and genuinely knew how to treat people. He was so kind and so trusting but more importantly he was a great friend. He will be dearly missed but never forgotten. My deepest and most sincere condolences to the Juhkam family.

With much love,
Sabrina
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear uncle Robert and aunty
We are very sorry for your lost.my thoughts are with you and I will pray for you.

Thuvakar
(Student of Chandaka)
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia, Leenu and Kaalep, We are devastated on hearing the news of Joosep's passing. So very sorry for you all. We remember Joosep well from our time in Dhaka. Our deepest condolences. Sending all our love and you'll all stay in our thoughts. Ric, Nadia, Caio y Freya.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia and family,

Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I am shocked by this devastating news and wish you all strength to go through this time. May He Rest in Peace.
I am at a loss for words as no words can really help you through this pain. As a new parent, I can only imagine the immensity of this pain and I will pray for your son. May God give you the courage and patience to go through this.
With my best wishes,
Shalina
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family
I am literally shocked and sadden by this tragic news. I still remember meeting him way back in Bangladesh. I know that there isn’t anything I could say to take away the pain. But please know that I send you love and heartfelt prayer that you may find the strength you need to get through each day. With a big hug, Young
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Mr and Mrs Juhkam,
Joosep was truly a kind and loving person. I will always cherish the great memories and friendship we had after meeting him in high school. I send my deepest condolences and love to you at this tough time. May he Rest In Peace.
Aidan
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Kallid Robert, Tiia, Leenu ja Kaalep

Raske on öelda, kirjutada, mõte tõrgub uskumast...
Meeletult kurb on...

Sügav kaastunne.

Joosepiga seoses meenub kohe ujumine nii Tais, Pärnus kui Keelitsel - see talle meeldis.


"Maailma Lõpus On Kohvik, Kus Kunagi Kohtume Kõik"
(Tõnu Trubetsky)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LL5SbZ41gv0

Ants perega
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Family,

It with great sadness that we head of this unbearable loss. We are with you in thought and spirit holding hands during this sorrowful period. God bless.

Hemamal Jayawardena, UNICEF - Sri Lanka.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Dear Tiia,

We can not express our sorrow at the news of Joosep's sudden demise. We know that no words can comfort you; we send all our thoughts and prayers for him!

We were going through the lovely memories that Joosep has left for all of us. May these memories of his beautiful life and the love of your family and friends surround you and give you strength and peace in the days ahead.

With our deepest condolences

Suhana and Morshed
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family.
I am so shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of your son. No amount of words can express and ease the pain that you are going through.
Although I didn't know Joosep, I remember how proudly you always spoke about him and how incredible your relationship was with him.
Sending you prayers for strength as you find your way through each day.
Albana
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Tiia,

I was deeply saddened and shocked to hear of your son's passing. My deepest condolences. I cannot imagine what a difficult time this is for your family, and can only wish you strength and comfort in the difficult days ahead.

Janeen
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,
From Last night to now, it took me so much courage to pen this down for you and your family. In a world where grief seems part of our everyday life, this news shocked me to my core. I strongly believe that those whom we love never truly leave us and where ever grief tries to take away the beauty of our memories, just remember "Love" never dies and these beautiful memories & legacy he had left you with are enough to last a full lifetime! May peace, strength and determination to see beyond be with you to-day & everyday!! Madu
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Tiia and Robert,

We are so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine the depth of grief you are going through. I remember Joosep from AISD as a cool, talented, energetic person who engaged fully with the world. Pim and I are sending you healing and love from afar.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia and family

I am deeply shocked and saddened to hear this devastating news. There is no doubt, the vacuum created by the loss of a dear one and especially a child can never be filled. As parents I know the hopes and dreams you must have shared for his future as a family. No words can comfort you at his difficult time, but I hope you will find strength and solace in the beautiful memories he left. 
May your family be blessed abundantly!
Please accept my deepest sympathies!
Warmest regards
Sharm
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family,

My family and I was shocked and devastated to hear of the sad news. Please accept our deepest sympathies. While we mourn deeply for Joosep it is also a time to celebrate his life: what he achieved, lives he touched and inspired. Wishing each and every one of you strength and courage at this difficult time. Rest in peace Joosep!

Rajiv

May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia and family,

So sorry for your loss. There are no words to express the sadness we feel for all of you. Sending you Love. Xoxo
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia, Leenu, and Kaalep
Just got this terrible news from my parents. I remember playing music with him in that band, he was a far better drummer than I a keyboardist, we had some wonderful times playing football during our breaks, and he was a great friend I could always count on back in AISD. He will be missed greatly by all that knew him.
Matthias
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia, Leenu and Kaalep,
May Joseep's memory be always a blessing to you, his entire family and all the friends he made in twenty one beautiful years. 
With you in this time of sorrow,
Sergio
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert

May Joosep swim deep in the seas of peace and joy!

Tina J
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Tiia and family,
I woke up with a message at 4a.m. from Austin about his buddy Joosep. My heart just stopped. I was and am still in shock from the news. They were best buddies at American International School Dhaka. I still see Joosep as a polite, young middle schooler who always had a huge smile. The boys were inseparable in and out of school. They liked to ride their bikes and skateboards together. They rode rickshaws, played video games, went to dances, and were adventurous. The had suits made at nearby tailor. They were middle schoolers. They laughed and had fun. 
I am grateful for Joosep because he was a kind and special friend when Austin needed one. They had each others backs. The boys reunited last summer in Monterey, CA and I am sure they reminisced about their adventures in Bangladesh together. Austin's words this morning were, "Mom he was so amazing." Jeff and I are thinking of you all during this very difficult and challenging time.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Armsad Tiia ja Robert perega!

Oleme koos teiega suures leinas ja raske on leida lohutavaid sõnu...
Jääme meenutama neid toredaid suviseid hetki Vänglas koos Bangladeshi poistega ❤️
Lia perega
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Robert, Tiia, Leenu and Kaalep,
There are no words to express the sadness we feel for all of you. Hearts are broken. We send soooooo many virtual hugs and you all are in our thoughts. We love each and everyone of you.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family,

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved son. May Joosep rest in peace and may you have the strength and courage to carry on. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ralani
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear, dear Robert and family

Our thoughts and our love are with you all at this time of unimaginable loss
I remember you speaking of Joosep who was following his passions at university, continuing the fascinating journey of a true and passionate world citizen, and I am so saddened.

No words are adequate for this devastation but we are here for you if you should need anything at all.

Much love,
Ulrika

May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021

Dear Robert,

I am saddened to hear of your loss. May the memories of your son help you find peace.

Time brings perspective.
Time eases the pain.
Time heals the heart.
Time revives hope.

Anomi De Mel (WFP)
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Tiia, Leenu and Kaalep,

Please accept my deepest condolences at this time of terrible loss. I cannot begin to imagine your grief. Though I never knew him, the picture painted of
Joosep is one of a young man who lived life to the fullest, with no regrets. Someone you no doubt were proud to call your own.

May his soul rest in peace, and may you be able to find the strength, even as it seems impossible, to move through this tragedy.

Our thoughts, prayers and love will always be with you.


"Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul there is no such thing as separation." - Rumi
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,

I was saddened to hear about your loss. This must be a very difficult and demanding time for you all. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Chen
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Family,

Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. I am sure it is really tough to understand his demise. Prayers are with you all, always. Let things heal. May Joosep finds eternal peace. Take care and stay safe.

Sumudu
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Tiia, Robert, Kaalep and Leenu,

We are heartbroken over the loss of your beloved Joosep. This unimaginable tragedy leaves us almost without words. Please know that your family will remain in our thoughts and hearts. We send you much love.

Nancy, Phil, Jack, and Charlie
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family,

Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family!
May you and family have strength to overcome the difficult times. 


Nalika, WHO
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Tia,

My heartfelt condolences to you both and to your family for the loss of Joosep.

I pray that you have the strength to deal with this and will keep your family in my thoughts.

Best,
Chandaka
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,        
     I'm deeply shocked and saddened by the news learned from Emma about Joosep, that why I thought of leaving you a message though I don't know you or your family.
         Read about Joosep on this page I felt that your son had such an incredible soul, a boy who experience life to the fullest and living the moment to enjoying it. May his soul rest in peace and my prayers are with you and your family to find strength and courage.
Earl
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and Family,

Deeply saddened by the news of this immense loss, my heartfelt condolences.

May Jooseph attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana.

Wishing you all the strength in this time of grieving. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Stay Safe,
Kulunu
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family,

Please accept my deep and sincere condolences. I sincerely hope you find strength to overcome the immense loss and find solace.

May his soul rest in peace.

Awandi
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert and family,

Deeply saddened to hear this news. I hope you and your family find strength and courage in loved ones and family to get through this tough time.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May god bless and rest his soul in peace.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert, Mrs. Juhkam and family,
I am shocked and saddened by this terrible news I just heard! I believe no one should be tested with their children!
I do pray that you find peace and consolation in the fondest of the memories of your beloved son!
With the strongest prayers to ease your burden,
Ereesha
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert Sir and Tiia Madam,

I am so saddened to hear about the great loss of beloved Joosep! I couldn't think that I will reach to you to write a condolence message.

I am sending my deepest condolences to you and your family. My prayers and thoughts will be with you. May his soul rest in peace and God bless you to find some solace and peace.

Nasrin Akter Nipu
UNFPA

May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Tiia, Robert, Leenu and Cameron,

I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you and sending love and strength.

Colleen
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Hi, Tiia and Robert,

I am still in shock. I have known Joosep since he was 6! He has such a very good energy. I am sending my condolences, prayers and tight hugs all the way from Bangkok in this very tough times.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Joosep was the kind of student I love teaching. He had a curious mind who not only enjoyed learning, but he was able to make serious tasks playful and somehow productive. His enthusiasm was contagious! I am honored that I got to know him. 

I am heartbroken for your family and cannot imagine how you all are doing. You have my deepest sympathies and prayers. 

Warmly,
Kelly Cappa (Chemistry RNHS)
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,

no words can help when the unimaginable happens to those we love the most. Thank you for sharing this beautiful memorial of your son, we are all with you in our thoughts, thousands of people virtually joining hands around your family to give you strength.

My deepest condolences, Alessandra
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Robert,

I was shocked to get the news about the tragic passing of your son. While I never met him, I read of his love and passion for life. Please accept my deepest condolences during these difficult times.  Wishing you and your family strength, compassion, love and time.   

Ricarda
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March 23
March 23
We think about you often, Joosep. We were so lucky to have known you, and to be inspired by your passions of kinship, laughter, and caring for the earth. You are forever missed, and I will always remember your belly laugh and your gentle herding of boys through the streets of Barcelona...we love you! --Bruce, Sarah, Owen & Henry Robertson 
March 22
Happy birthday buddy, miss you. Had a long drive today from LA to monterey, thought about you and stopped at places I thought you would stop. You'd always be infatuated with how beautiful sceneries are... the skies and landscape were a lot more beautiful today than other days. Love you buddy. Miss you lots.
His Life

Celebrating Joosep on his birthday

March 22
Joosep has always been our angel, Joosep came into our lives on 22 March 2000, 24 years ago today, always smiling, hugging and infectiously giggling

We are remembering Joosep in celebration of that day and every day that he was with us here. We have just shared many new photos and videos of young boy Joosep just doing his thing, always bringing joy to family and friends. 

Please share more of your own photos, videos and stories :-)

warmest wishes to all, Tiia and Robert

Sharing Memorials

May 15, 2023
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Coping the past two years has been indescribably painful and difficult. And we think back to 2021 when we bade our farewells to Joosep. We would now like to share a few things from that time.
We would to share with everyone the video recording of Joosep's Memorial Service on 25 May 2021 which took place in Monterey, California USA where Joosep lived for nearly three years. The service began with the sounds of the ocean waves that Joosep loved. The service offered prayers and eulogies from his cousin Daniel, his Godfather Ants, from his aunt and Godmother Monica, his friend Ryan, his sister Leenu and brother Kaalep, and us.From his loved ones to all, on everyone's behalf. It is rich with music we associate with Joosep. Althought the video remains for us both a painful reminder of our deep grieving at the inconceivable loss of Joosep, it also represents testimony to our joyful memories and pays tribute to Joosep big heart and for the extraordinary life he lived.
The Memorial Service programme is also here.
Here also are the announcements for the Celebration of Joosep's Life at the Monterey Beach on that same day organised by Joosep's friends Calvin, Ryan and his fraternity brothers.
Finally we share the announcements and programme for Joosep's funeral in Vigala, Estonia. In July 2021, two months after his passing, we brought Joosep's ashes back to Estonia, where he was born, for his funeral service and for his burial place beside his great great grandparents Jüri and Mai Juhkam.
With our prayers and warm wishes, Tiia and Robert

Joosep Juhkami Matusetalituse leht / funeral leaflet - Vigala, Estonia

May 15, 2023
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May 16, 2022
I think of Joosep often, and pray that you all find comfort in each other's support.
One of my all time favorite memories of Jossep is of course Spain!!! He was a protector, yet had this kindness about him that was so serene. It's as if you could see this "blanket of love" just wrapping his family and those around him. Especially Tiia, you could see this connection of souls, as if they were one. He's with you all in the most powerful sense!

We love you all,
The Pereira Family

May 13, 2022
Dear Robert, Tiia, and family,
It seems that Joosep was known by so many for his beautiful, big smile...and his beautiful huge heart.  Thinking back to both times I saw Joosep, when he was still a baby, that's indeed how I remember him.  
I still can't imagine the loss you've experienced...I think about you all, so often, hoping for your well-being.
Steve Miron, Catskills, NY

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