Homage & Special Tribute to "Sister Mercy"
I am honored to offer this remarkable tribute to Mrs. Mercy Nkonghoetaka. The aunt I fondly called “Sister Mercy” like many peers during our time. As a child, I recalled that her visits to our home triggered such “territorial”, “macho-like” reaction; accompanied by envious and aggressive feelings toward any friend of mine who dared to come around while my “white-man auntie” was visiting.
And as life would design it, my maternal aunt, "Sister Mercy" ultimately got married to my paternal uncle (Late Ignatius Nkonghoetaka); a relationship I have never got a dismal understanding of how it began. Yet it worked out well for me, while living with them in Yaoundé. I got the fringe benefits from both ends to get along with my daily activities, though without a paycheck.
She was a cheerful, fun-loving lady who was full of life. Her infectious smile could light up a room. Sister Mercy was physically small, yet the biggest person with a "high head" that I’ve ever known. Even in her bridled and tough personality, she was a delight to be around in her confident, compassionate, positive attitude and big smile.
She gained total focus and continued to build and believe in herself after her late husband transitioned to eternity, 21 years ago. She had an attitude that deeply impressed me. She taught by example that "how we live impacts how we die". She lived a life of courage, strength, beauty and integrity.
No matter how much support that came her way during her last several years of declining health, that meant nothing compared to everything she's rendered over the years to the family. Her home remained the "one-stop shop" each time we visited the country. And of course, the food, the beers, we can't stop to immortalize in Sister Mercy's honor!
She was an incredible sister, mother, wife and aunt. May your children, Victor, Tabenyang, Eyongmbi, Enokpen, Vera, Tambetakang and Telma uphold the legacy of family, kindness, love and integrity.
We now take comfort in knowing she's finally re-united with her best friend and hussy, smiling face to face to part no more! She's finally got to meet Mami Martha Eyongeta who departed barely two years ago, and now rejoicing with Pa Benson Arreynyor who departed decades ago to prepare a better place for them .
We’ll miss your smile and caring disposition. May your soul rest with our Lord and Savior!
Stanley