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June 2021
Hello and Welcome to Monica’s Memorial page.

Monica had a gift for connecting with people. She would reach out to family, friends and people she had never met before. She had a way of making everyone feel valued. She made a point of acknowledging our personal life events - birthday, wedding, anniversary, new born baby, graduation, new job, family loss, etc. If you said to her, “We should get together some time”, Monica was sure to make it happen. I don’t know how she did it. It was her Super Power.

We encourage you to share a favourite Monica memory or event. What do you treasure most about your encounters with her? Did she inspire, motivate or influence you?

Monica’s spirit is shining through the stories and tributes that have already been shared. Please keep them coming! Long stories, short notes and photographs brought together create a more complete understand of how remarkable a person she was. Help each of us heal and celebrate the time we had with her.


August 2020
Since traditional funerals cannot happen at this time, and because Monica’s contacts are global, this page has been created to honour Monica's memory as a friend, relative, sister, daughter, and partner.
Monica lived a full and adventurous life. She loved to tell stories of her contacts and experiences. She cannot tell us stories anymore. We invite you to share your story (or two or more) of an event, an experience, a memorable time with her. Please include how you met (school, work, travel, through a friend,…). Help expand our understanding of how vast her world and influence has been. Feel free to revisit and add more stories or photos at anytime. There are two young nieces that will need to know more about their Aunty Momo who loved them "so, so, so, so, so, much".
As time goes by, and if you are feeling sad about Monica leaving us, you are encouraged to come back to read the stories, be inspired, feel the Love and Light she chose to share with each of us. Know that she lives on in our hearts and whenever you share your love you will be sharing a piece of her love for you.
August 25, 2020
August 25, 2020
Monica was FULL of Love and Light that she freely shared with everyone she met. She was an Angel in my world and I believe she is among Heaven's Angels now. She had a higher purpose in life and she did it phenomenally. I like to think she has received a promotion with a greater scope of responsibilities. Her Love and Light will continue to radiate through us, in our hearts and our memories.
Mom
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Recent Tributes
August 23, 2023
August 23, 2023
Thinking of you Mons, remembering the time we got “lost” on the Garibaldi Lake hike :) Was really special to catch up with your mum earlier this year.
August 20, 2023
August 20, 2023
The Tour de Victoria raced through the city yesterday. I will always think of you flying past the finish line with a huge smile on your face. I love you!
August 20, 2023
August 20, 2023
Remembering you always Mon, especially when the hummingbirds visit us on our deck. With love forever, Maureen and John
Her Life
January 19, 2023
Brain aneurism stats
25% of people will not survivor the first 24 hours. Another 25% will die within 6 months. 
Thanks to fortunate circumstances, Parisian hospital staff & Neurosurgeons, Monica’s determination and bravery and the love and support of Ryan by her side, she survived 19 months after a significant brain trauma. 
The effects of Covid19 physical and social distancing impacted her access to continuing medical and mental healing and her strong personal desire to be connected to family, friends and friends she hadn't met yet.
Pre-Covid19 - Only 40% of brain aneurism patients survive past 2 years.

Monica's life was very full and exciting.

August 26, 2020
She accomplished amazing things, traveled the world, and gathered new friends where ever she went and whatever she did. Her life was packed full with rich experiences including skydiving, impromptu bungee jumping, riding a bicycle from Glacier, Washington UP Mt Baker, she went boarding down a volcano in Nicaragua, hang-gliding over Lima Peru, donkey rode the Colca Canyon trail, sailed across Lake Titicaca, made it to the top of Macchu Pichu, went boarding on the giant desert sand dunes of Peru, watched the sunrise from atop Mayan Pyramid Tikal, hiked the West Coast Trail, visited Haida Gwaii, canoe-camped the Yukon River from Whitehorse to Dawson City, kissed the Cod and was screeched in Nfld, rode horseback and swam with dolphins in the Galapagos, walked the Great Wall of China, several triathalons, a half Ironwoman, Whistler Tough Mudder,......... Vegas? Of course.
It is difficult to summarize Monica's broad scope of positive influence in the world. If you want to know more.....a fuller picture is revealed in STORIES.
Grew up in Dunbar, attended Dragons & Butterflies Preschool, Kitchener Elementary, Byng High School, Capilano University, St Mary's Kerrisdale Anglican Church, Westside Church
Work (in no particular order) - White Spot carhop, UBC Golf Course catering, Beach Soccer Blast, Inventa, Newad, Jobfest, RBC Torch Experience, Coca Cola Olympic Torch Relay, David Suzuki Foundation, Urban Rec, JUMP Foundation, PDW, TED Talks, PACE Group, RADIUS,........and more.
She had a travel goal to visit as many countries as she was years old. 
Here is a random list of the countries that we remember she visited.
Canada - coast to coast more than once, Germany, France, Mexico, Costa Rica, Antigua, Thailand, China, Malaysia, USA, England, Scotland, Italy, Netherlands, Vatican City, Austria, Switzerland, Hungary, Czech Republic, El Salvador, Guatemala, Nicaragua, Colombia, Peru, Ecuador, Barbados, Trinidad, Grenada, St. Vincent, St. Lucia, Martinique, Guateloupe, British Virgin Islands, Indonesia, Singapore, Taiwan,..........
How many do you count?


Recent stories

Thanksgiving

October 11, 2022
Hi Monica,
It’s Thanksgiving. 
Another one without you.
I’m remembering other years when you were on a travel adventure and not physically present with us but you were always sure to connect with us as we gathered together for dinner. One year you were on a self guided European tour having a fabulous outdoor pasta dinner on the banks of a canal in Venice. Another time you were in Puno, Peru over looking Lake Titicaca and feasting on local specialties including Alpaca. Your travel group emails were so descriptive and detailed. It felt like I was a part of your experience. Most of your travel emails are still saved. When I read them I can hear your voice and feel your enthusiasm. There are still some days when I think, “Okay Monica, it’s time for you to come home again.” and sadly I know that isn’t going to happen. 
In the spirit of Thanksgiving
I am thankful to have been your Mom and then transitioned to your friend.
I am thankful for kind, compassionate co-workers who have supported me through an emotionally tumultuous period.
I am thankful for the Joy, Enthusiasm and Love you injected into my/our lives.
When I’m really paying close attention I can sense your spirit connecting with me and I feel comforted.
I miss you a lot. I wish you were still here with us. I know I am not the only one who feels that way.
Sending you Hugs full of Love,
Today & Always,
Mom

Happy Birthday Monica!

June 26, 2022
You were always great at remembering birthdays.  We will not forget yours.

Happy Birthday Mon

June 26, 2022
I hope you're partying up in heaven today (and every day). I miss you greatly

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